An easy way to text a girl. No tricks or gimmicks. Any guy can do this and have better text conversations with women.
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1. How To Text a Girl & Not
Sound Like a PUA
Mike Wynn
artofalpha.com
2. Attraction 101
What makes a man attractive? It’s much less
about looks and more about…
- Status (how the community views you)
- Resources (friends, lifestyle, connections)
- Drive/Passions
- Confidence/Courage
- Provider
4. The Difference...
- A man would say that “B” (the model)is the more
attractive image.
- However to a women, it could completely change
depending on who these guys were.
- If “A” had a lot of friends, a cool job, and many
passions, then HE would be more desirable/more
attractive than “B” (If B had less of these).
- Therefore...
5. Attraction 101
- Express yourself in a way
that exhibits qualities that
Women find attractive.
- Leadership, passion,
status, resources, etc.
(Your text messages
should convey this)
- six pack ab mirror pictures do
not
6. When You Text a Woman...
- Simply add something into the text that shows
an attractive quality.
- A “What’s up?” text.. Becomes…
- What’s up? My friends are dragging me off to
the gym and then we’re going to stop and get
dinner.
- “My friends” (attractive) “Dragging me off” (must
mean that you are popular = attractive)
7. Continued...
- A “How are you?” text Becomes…
- How are you? I’m awesome, just got done at
work and now I’m going to spend some time out
on the water.
- Wait..out on the water? Does he have a boat?
Is he going to the beach?..I want to know more.
- See how it sounds High Status and
interesting? This is attractive. She will ask
questions...
8. Continued...
- All that you have to do when texting is to tell
her something about YOU that is interesting
and gets HER to ask YOU questions. Also
be a little vague. “I have a boat” (bragging)
Becomes… “I’m heading to the lake for
awhile” (Not bragging. She will ask
questions and wonder why you’re going
to the lake)
9. Conclusion:
- Do not worry about using any type of “PUA”
techniques. Simply let her know that you are
a cool guy with an interesting lifestyle.
- If you do not feel like your life is interesting
then...what is one thing that you’ve always
wanted to try? Join a meetup.com group
and start doing it. Now your life is more
interesting. Continued...
10. Conclusion:
- Never ask a question without providing some
detail about who you are.
- Where did you go to school?
- She will be able to give a one word answer and
the conversation dies. Instead say…
- Where did you go to school? I went to____
It was the best time ever and I learned_____
- Now she has something to respond back to. A
conversation has started.
11. Conclusion:
- You Do Not need to do anything fancy when texting or
attracting women.
- They are attracted to masculine qualities that have been
discussed (leadership, status, drives, passions, goals,
etc)
- Now, when you are texting - tell her about the
attractive/masculine things that you are doing…
- Giving her more detail about yourself, allows her to get
to know you, but it also introduces different topics into
the conversation - giving you both more to talk about.