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How To Text a Girl & Not 
Sound Like a PUA 
Mike Wynn 
artofalpha.com
Attraction 101 
What makes a man attractive? It’s much less 
about looks and more about… 
- Status (how the community views you) 
- Resources (friends, lifestyle, connections) 
- Drive/Passions 
- Confidence/Courage 
- Provider
Who is More Attractive A or B? 
A B
The Difference... 
- A man would say that “B” (the model)is the more 
attractive image. 
- However to a women, it could completely change 
depending on who these guys were. 
- If “A” had a lot of friends, a cool job, and many 
passions, then HE would be more desirable/more 
attractive than “B” (If B had less of these). 
- Therefore...
Attraction 101 
- Express yourself in a way 
that exhibits qualities that 
Women find attractive. 
- Leadership, passion, 
status, resources, etc. 
(Your text messages 
should convey this) 
- six pack ab mirror pictures do 
not
When You Text a Woman... 
- Simply add something into the text that shows 
an attractive quality. 
- A “What’s up?” text.. Becomes… 
- What’s up? My friends are dragging me off to 
the gym and then we’re going to stop and get 
dinner. 
- “My friends” (attractive) “Dragging me off” (must 
mean that you are popular = attractive)
Continued... 
- A “How are you?” text Becomes… 
- How are you? I’m awesome, just got done at 
work and now I’m going to spend some time out 
on the water. 
- Wait..out on the water? Does he have a boat? 
Is he going to the beach?..I want to know more. 
- See how it sounds High Status and 
interesting? This is attractive. She will ask 
questions...
Continued... 
- All that you have to do when texting is to tell 
her something about YOU that is interesting 
and gets HER to ask YOU questions. Also 
be a little vague. “I have a boat” (bragging) 
Becomes… “I’m heading to the lake for 
awhile” (Not bragging. She will ask 
questions and wonder why you’re going 
to the lake)
Conclusion: 
- Do not worry about using any type of “PUA” 
techniques. Simply let her know that you are 
a cool guy with an interesting lifestyle. 
- If you do not feel like your life is interesting 
then...what is one thing that you’ve always 
wanted to try? Join a meetup.com group 
and start doing it. Now your life is more 
interesting. Continued...
Conclusion: 
- Never ask a question without providing some 
detail about who you are. 
- Where did you go to school? 
- She will be able to give a one word answer and 
the conversation dies. Instead say… 
- Where did you go to school? I went to____ 
It was the best time ever and I learned_____ 
- Now she has something to respond back to. A 
conversation has started.
Conclusion: 
- You Do Not need to do anything fancy when texting or 
attracting women. 
- They are attracted to masculine qualities that have been 
discussed (leadership, status, drives, passions, goals, 
etc) 
- Now, when you are texting - tell her about the 
attractive/masculine things that you are doing… 
- Giving her more detail about yourself, allows her to get 
to know you, but it also introduces different topics into 
the conversation - giving you both more to talk about.
Get the “Texting MindMap” 
Link Is Below

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How To Text a Girl & Not Sound Like a PUA

  • 1. How To Text a Girl & Not Sound Like a PUA Mike Wynn artofalpha.com
  • 2. Attraction 101 What makes a man attractive? It’s much less about looks and more about… - Status (how the community views you) - Resources (friends, lifestyle, connections) - Drive/Passions - Confidence/Courage - Provider
  • 3. Who is More Attractive A or B? A B
  • 4. The Difference... - A man would say that “B” (the model)is the more attractive image. - However to a women, it could completely change depending on who these guys were. - If “A” had a lot of friends, a cool job, and many passions, then HE would be more desirable/more attractive than “B” (If B had less of these). - Therefore...
  • 5. Attraction 101 - Express yourself in a way that exhibits qualities that Women find attractive. - Leadership, passion, status, resources, etc. (Your text messages should convey this) - six pack ab mirror pictures do not
  • 6. When You Text a Woman... - Simply add something into the text that shows an attractive quality. - A “What’s up?” text.. Becomes… - What’s up? My friends are dragging me off to the gym and then we’re going to stop and get dinner. - “My friends” (attractive) “Dragging me off” (must mean that you are popular = attractive)
  • 7. Continued... - A “How are you?” text Becomes… - How are you? I’m awesome, just got done at work and now I’m going to spend some time out on the water. - Wait..out on the water? Does he have a boat? Is he going to the beach?..I want to know more. - See how it sounds High Status and interesting? This is attractive. She will ask questions...
  • 8. Continued... - All that you have to do when texting is to tell her something about YOU that is interesting and gets HER to ask YOU questions. Also be a little vague. “I have a boat” (bragging) Becomes… “I’m heading to the lake for awhile” (Not bragging. She will ask questions and wonder why you’re going to the lake)
  • 9. Conclusion: - Do not worry about using any type of “PUA” techniques. Simply let her know that you are a cool guy with an interesting lifestyle. - If you do not feel like your life is interesting then...what is one thing that you’ve always wanted to try? Join a meetup.com group and start doing it. Now your life is more interesting. Continued...
  • 10. Conclusion: - Never ask a question without providing some detail about who you are. - Where did you go to school? - She will be able to give a one word answer and the conversation dies. Instead say… - Where did you go to school? I went to____ It was the best time ever and I learned_____ - Now she has something to respond back to. A conversation has started.
  • 11. Conclusion: - You Do Not need to do anything fancy when texting or attracting women. - They are attracted to masculine qualities that have been discussed (leadership, status, drives, passions, goals, etc) - Now, when you are texting - tell her about the attractive/masculine things that you are doing… - Giving her more detail about yourself, allows her to get to know you, but it also introduces different topics into the conversation - giving you both more to talk about.
  • 12. Get the “Texting MindMap” Link Is Below