7. Profile of a Healthy Family
健康家庭的概况
•Peaceful, safe environment
•平和安全的气氛
•Words and emotions in harmony
•和睦的语言和情绪
•Do not understand a hurting world sometimes
有时对充满伤害的世界不理解
11. Profile of a Performance Based Family
注重表现的家庭的概况
•Affection关爱
•Conditional love有条件的爱
•Limited relational skills
•有限的交往技巧
•Confusion from inconsistent messages
•传达的信息前后不一致,带来迷惑
12. Symptom of a Performance Based Family
怎样是注重表现的家庭
Motivated By
被这些心理所驱
使:
18. Profile of an Unhealthy Family
不健康家庭的概况
• Blind loyalty
信仸被理解为盲目的忠诚
• Unsafe & painful
又不安全又痛苦
• Everything Opposite
看所有事情都黑白颠倒了
• Have deep sympathy
对人有同情心
• Most Compulsive
最无法自制
20. The family members will
usually respond under
adult stresses like they
were still back in the
home.
家庭成员面对成年人的
压力时,表现得就像小
时候自己在家中一样。
Symptom of an Unhealthy Family
怎样的家庭是不健康家庭
27. Skill of Giving Comfort
如何安慰人
• Comfort is life changing安
慰改变人的生命
• Comfort is not earned or
deserved
安慰既不能赚得也不是本
应该的
• Comfort Matches the
child’s emotions (feels
those emotions)
• 安慰就是同情感受他们的
感受
28. More Skills
更多技巧
• Experiencing and
Managing Emotions
体验幵处理情绪
• Communication Skills
沟通的技巧
• Conflict Resolution
矛盾的消转
• Negotiation Skills
磋商和交涉的技巧