After you understand the concept of Compassionate (or NonViolent) communication you still might limit your opportunities by considering only current problem but not going in depth. See how you can reveal different degrees of what you want in your life.
1. Into the depth of compassionate
communication
Thedeeper weidentify our need
Thedeeper will bethechangeto our life
2. NonViolent Communication
Marshall Rosenberg dedicated hislifeto discover
why somepeoplemanagesto remain
compassionateno matter what ishappening
Hesummarized hisideasin thebook and courses
of non violent communication
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3. NonViolent Communication
Non-violent (co mpassio nate) communication (NVC) helps
to understand, becomeunderstood and seriously increases
our chancesto achievewhat wewant
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4. NonViolent Communication
Hasfour steps:
1.Observewithout judgments
2.What do you feel about observed?
3.What istheneed behind your feeling?
4.Request what can bedoneso that your need is
fulfilled and thusyou feel better
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5. Beyond NVC
Even if you master NVC and you alwayssearch for
feeling and needswhen you perceivesomething,
still you can limit your optionsby limiting your
need to just dealing with current situation
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6. 1. You feel bad
What seemsto beyour need?
Boss don't want to
raise my salary
(situation)
Boss raising the
salary
(1st
need)
They stop shouting
(1st
need)
They shout during
the night
(situation)
Hotel room is not
cleaned
(situation)
They clean the
room
(1st
need)
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7. 2. Your need
You'renot interesting in them changing their behavior but
to get something for yourself (your need)
Boss don't want to
raise my salary
(situation)
Boss raising the
salary
(1st
need)
They stop shouting
(1st
need)
They shout during
the night
(situation)
Hotel room is not
cleaned
(situation)
They clean the
room
(1st
need)
Increased Income
(the need)
Be in the nice
evnironment
(the need)
Take a rest
(the need)
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8. 3. The core need
Previousstep isenough to solvethesituation but not to
makesignificant shift in your life
Seelist of basic human needson NVC web page
Boss don't want to raise my salary
(situation)
Boss raising the salary
(1st
need)
Increased Income
(the need)Security, freedom, well-being
(core need)
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9. Focus on your core need
When you focus– intention bringsattention and
you alwaysfind (sooner or later depending on your
awareness) what you search for
When you focuson your core need you open a
wholenew universeof possibilities
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10. Other need snakes
They shout during the night
(situation)
They stop shouting
(1st
need)
Take a rest
(the need)
Peace, Harmony, Rest
(core need)
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11. Other need snakes
Hotel room is not cleaned
(situation)
They clean the room
(1st need)
Be in the nice evnironment
(the need)
Health, Security, Trust
(core need)
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● You havemany options– discover them
● CompassionateCommunication
martinah'sGwanwyn (spring) illustratesthearticle
about coreneed; Onceyou start working with the
core, it'sreal spring to your life
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