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1. August 2010
Editor/ Publisher:
Nabarun Paul
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In the land of opportunities that is the United
States; It took 43 presidents to rule and finally the
change; 44th was the president who was not a
white American.
If the USA who are considered as the worlds
powerfully advanced country with a modern
outlook took almost an era for a change then one
life that I have and that which is yours is too less…
For the bird too in the cage it will need a lot of
patience…
AS change is the only constant Some day the cage A friend is an angel who lifts
will disappear and the bird will fly again. us off our feet when our
wings have trouble
Possibly I may not last that long but the thoughts remembering how to fly...
must go on; the seeds need to be planted by
someone…some day...today! because tomorrow
never comes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Truly great friends are hard
to find, difficult to leave
and impossible to forget!
time to
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Corruption can be of various forms-
Mind, Money, Thoughts, Body & Life
o Read Compromise.
Not Adjust.
Value Others Time.
If You Want Others To Value Yours.
Open Your Eyes.
Mistrust The Obvious.
If You Give You Must Get,
Some contradicting lines; You Have To Get Or It Wasn't Worth Giving…..
but these are not...
- Nabarun Paul
The Same Applies Other Ways As Well –
If You Get You Must Give Or It Wasn't Worth Getting……
When You Want Something By Heart The Whole World
Conspires For It….But
There Must Be An Honest Desire…
There Is Time For All To Be Done. Instant Promise Makers Seldom Keep It –
Tomorrow Never Comes! They Are Politicians And Manipulation Is Their Forte.
Certain Things In Life Have To Be Done Immediately. Luck Is Once… For Some That 'Once' May Be More Than
Don't Hurry! Once…
Change Is The Only Constant. Though change is the only constant….an instant change
Don't Quit. results in some malicious intentions… just for some
selfish purpose, till it is fulfilled and then its back to the
Drop The Ego. Be Proud. old ways….
Look For Happiness Within. Thus there was no change at all….
Give Others For That Might Be Their Last Day. Change needs time … it is a constant process…not a one
Don't Step On Two Boats. Learn To Multitask. day job or overnight process…
Whenever There Is A Problem There Is An Opportunity.
You never say I will change from tomorrow…tomorrow
Don't Be Selfish. Give Up, Let Go. never comes…so even if there is a change tomorrow it is
Stop The Habit Of Being Good Always. superficial.
At the same we keep on hearing and have started
Think Out Of The Box. Follow Your Heart. believing tomorrow will be a new dawn…why not make
Be Angry. Express Yourself. today's evening beautiful so that even if tomorrow's
Don't Take Temper To Your Head. Be Cool. dawn never comes we would cherish what we have and
Communicate. Don't Blame. Confront. not repent for that which we aspire for..... don't pile up
and then repent for those unsaid words those
Accept Mistakes. Forgive… Not Forget (Forgive To Forget; unexpressed feelings, suppressed emotions. Who knows
Never Forget To Forgive) Everybody Deserves A Second today is all that he/she might have. It’s destiny after all
Chance. But ONLY A Second Chance. Not fate or coincidence.
Think And Think Again. Don't Think More Than Twice. live in the Now. Blink! Think! Decide! Be concerned.
Give All That You Have To, Want To. Not All That You Can. Tomorrow may be too late to- let!
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6. what is to
Compromise
Adjustment ?
‘
All you must do is
figure out how you
can do it, not whether
or not you can. And
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once you have made
your mind up to do it,
it's amazing how your
Compromise and Adjustment?
Certain things in life are non-negotiable. One compromises to accept
less than the best ...i.e. to reach a middle way. In compromise one has
to sacrifice willingly or unwillingly. In adjustment there is indulgence
mind begins to figure at others’ expense. Whether or not, one wants to; is never the issue. It
out how…….
is always considered to be for the larger benefit....which is always a
distant dream... an illusion....
An adjustment is induced by the vulnerable to allow exploitation,
further; and thereby get used to exploitation. Is it not because of
adjustment by us Indians we had to face a 26/11?
It does not take a lot of courage to discard
Bl
ink!
something that which has become a habit
but a lot of guts. And be aware that it will
invite trouble & resistance from one's own
Th Decide
mind and the society. Follow your heart.
Habits which seem good to the society but
bad for the self need courage in addition to
guts to be disowned. And for that you have
to know your inner self first—I AM.
I believe errors are foreseen and Accepting a habit which the society stamps
mistakes are not. Which means that to be correct are the most harmful because it
errors can be rectified but mistakes is never corrected or discarded rather it is
have to be necessarily corrected; if not passed on to the next generation.
then they become a habit and then
those habits have to be discarded if not Why? Is it for the fear of the society or is it
suitable or bad. Habits can be both good because the society will stamp it as a sin and
and bad. If good then one must polish it; the doer a sinner? Why do you forget that
if bad then discarded. Again the you are neither a saint nor a sinner? You are
question- how would one decide only you – an individual. God. Because HE
between a good habit and a bad habit? resides in you and if God cannot sin so how
Anything that gives you the happiness,
can you? Do you think you have the
pleasure, warmth and that which makes
capacity to sin?
you feel is good by heart is a good habit.
There has to be no guilt in it. On the ...Decide!
other if your mind says yes but your Whether adjustment is a habit to be
heart no then it is a bad habit. This disowned or compromise to be encouraged?
theory though may not be applicable
everywhere, just as there cannot be one “There will always be few exceptions wherein
medicine for all illnesses. If adjustment adjustment becomes inevitable. The best way
is your nature think whether it is an error then, is to check the conditions rather look at
or a mistake and then decide. things with eyes wide shut”...
Blink!
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7. Keep in touch with your loved ones
Celebration means... Celebration means...
Four Friends. 3 old friends.
Bahar Barsat. 3 separate cities.
Four Mugs of Coffee... 1 internet messenger.
Celebration means... Celebration means...
Hundred bucks of petrol. You and mom.
A rusty old bike. A summer night.
And an open road. A bottle of coconut oil.
A head massage.
Celebration means... Celebration means...
Maggi noodles. Rain on a hot tin roof.
A hostel room. Pakoras deep-frying.
4.25am Neighbours dropping in.
A party!
You can spend
Hundreds on birthdays,
Thousands on festivals,
Let’s
Lakhs on weddings,
…but to celebrate
all you have to do is spend your Time with your loved ones.
Celebrate !
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9. Tomorrow may be too late, to-let...
If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door!
Too many times we stand aside
and let the waters slip away
‘’Til what we put off ‘til tomorrow
has now become today...
So don't you sit upon the shoreline
and say you’re satisfied...
Choose to chance the rapids
and dare to dance the tides...
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