Online Registration is available at http://www.yourdivorcechoice.com/oacp-training-event

1. The Oklahoma Academy of Collaborative Professionals Presents
Oklahoma
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Collaborative
T^e fetter Way !!!
Professionals
Who should Attend this seminar? Attorneys, therapists
and financial professionals who are interested in learning
or building their collaborative practice skills. Collaborative
practice is a process of resolving conflicts through interest-
based negotiations. Collaborative professionals support
their clients to reach settlements outside of the adversarial
court-imposed resolution process. Interdisciplinary
collaborative practice provides a team approach, giving
clients the benefit of support from the most qualified
professionals on the team. Whether you want to change the
way you currently handle divorces or hone your collaborative
skills, this upcoming
BASIC/INTERMEDIATE INTERDISCIPLINARY TRAINING
meets your professional goals
April 26, 2012 (Thursday) and April 27, 2012 (Friday)
The Courtyard Marriott Downtown
2 West Reno Avenue
Oklahoma City, OK 73102
(800) 217-9905 - rate code ACPO
www.marriott.com/okcdt
The OACP, which is part of the OBA Family Law Section, is a Presumptive
Oklahoma MCLE Provider. This course has been approved by the Oklahoma
Bar Association Mandatory Continuing Legal Education Commission
for 15.25 hours of mandatory CLE Credit, including 1.00 hour Ethics Credit.
Continuing education credit for other professions is pending.
Further, this training conforms to the standard of the
International Academy of Collaborative Professionals ("IACP")

2. OUTSTANDING TRAINERS FOR ALL THREE DISCIPLINES:
1. FOR ATTORNEYS: Carl Michael Rossi, Esquire - Chicago, IL.
Michael is an attorney admitted in both Illinois and New York, as well as a
Nationally Certified, Licensed Professional Counselor, currently residing in
Chicago. His professional commitment is solely to the practice of and expansion
of Collaborative Practice. He is a past President of the International Alliance of
Holistic Lawyers. He is also a former member of the Board of both Collaborative
Law Institute of Illinois and the International Academy of Collaborative
Processionals.
2. FOR MENTAL HEALTH COACHES: Jeff D. Shushan, MS, LMHC - Seattle, WA.
Jeff has been working in the fields of Experiential Education, the Cultivation of
Human Capacities, Trauma Recovery and Family Therapy for 34 years. In private
practice since 1989, he specializes in working with couples through all phases of
relational health and transition. Jeff has been a Collaborative Law Divorce coach
in Seattle who has experience in various coaching models (including the single
mental health neutral (sometimes referred to as the single coach) model.
3. FOR FINANCIAL NEUTRALS: Donna J. Smalldon, CDFA, MBA, CFP - Portland, OR.
Donna is a well-versed financial planning professional who specializes in the
financial implications of divorce. In her three decades in practice, Donna has
acquired both Certified Financial Planner and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst
designations. Donna has been active in the Collaborative Family Lawyers of
Oregon and IACP as a Trainer-Presenter since 2003. She is a financial neutral who
has been to OKC on previous training and is back by popular demand.
POWER-PACKED SCHEDULE YOU CANT AFFORD TO MISS:
DAY 1 / THURSDAY April 26, 2012
8:00 ~ 8:30 Registration - (Free Breakfast Buffet for registrants)
8:30 ~ 10:00 Interactive discussion - Burning Questions (Learning Goals: MHPs, Fns, Attys -
The Basic Tenets of Collaborative Practice, with an historical perspective on
Collaborative Practice and understanding the Players on the Interdisciplinary
Team)
10:00 ~ 10:15 BREAK - Chefs Choice Treats of the Day provided.
10:15 ~ 12:00 Roles: Who Am I Now? [Team Structure Options - including one and two coach
models]("Dancing 'with1' two parties or dancing 'at' two parties? - That is the
question!" Pros and Cons. First meeting with client to education about process
options; First meeting with Client DVDs).
12:00 ~ 1:30 LUNCH - Chefs Choice Delicious Lunch provided.
1:30 ~ 2:30 Exercise: First Meeting with Client [What's 'Good' in 'Good Grief?]
2:30 ~ 3:30 Thinking About Family Systems and Building the Interdisciplinary Team [Shift
Your Paradigm, or It's Not an Earthquake, It's Just a Paradigm Shift!]
COACH - "Who's within the Family System?" and "Resentment and Guilt, My Two
Favorite Emotions"
FINANCIAL NEUTRAL - "What do You Mean it's not all about the Money?"
ATTORNEY - "Am I the Least Important Person in the Room?"
3:30 ~ 3:45 BREAK - Chefs Choice Treats of the Day provided.
3:45 ~ 4:30 First Professional Meeting to Create Team Norma [Staying within role while
thinking/doubling all Team mates] Using Discernment vs. Judgment. Exercise:
First Professional Meeting
5:00 ~ 6:30 THURSDAY EVENING WELCOME RECEPTION

3. DAY 2 / FRIDAY April 27, 2012
6:30 ~ 8:30 Free Breakfast Buffett for hotel registrants
8:30 ~ 8:45 Question/Answer Session for Day 1
8:45 ~ 9:45 Preparation of the Client for First Meeting
9:45 ~10:00 Demonstration of Client First Meeting
10:00 - 10:15 BREAK - Chefs Choice Treats of the Day provided.
10:15 ~ 12:00 Get Ready for First Meeting [Exercise: First full meeting with team and clients]
JIdentifying High End Goals, Interests &Concerns: Legacy Based Visioning and
)e-briefing with client)
12:00 ~ 1:30 LUNCH - Chef's Choice Delicious Lunch provided.
"What is a Practice Group and Why Should You Want One?"
1:30 - 1:45 Question/Answer session from Morning Training
1:45 - 2:15 De-brief of Team
2:15 ~ 3:15 Ethical Dilemmas for the Team - Common Collaborative Challenges
3:15 ~ 3:30 BREAK - Chefs Choice Treats of the Day provided.
3:30 ~ 4:30 The Roadmap to Resolution [Addressing Different Interests; Dealing with
Roadblocks and Making Durable Agreements] "Legal, Financial and Emotional
Resolution - The Unfolding Legacy*
4:30 ~ 5:00 Burning Questions [Questions and Answers, Evaluations and Closing]
ROOM RESERVATIONS & HOTEL INFORMATION
Accommodations will be provided by the Courtyard by Marriott Downtown
Oklahoma City Hotel, right next to Bricktown!
Reservations should be made directly with the Courtyard by Marriott Downtown by calling
800-217-9905 or going online to: www.marriot.com/okcdt
BE SURE TO RESERVE YOUR ROOM BEFORE - MONDAY, MARCH 26, 2012.
You will want to mention that you are attending the OACP Conference in order to receive
the discounted room rate of $144 per night [rate code ACPO]. Discounted rooms are
subject to
availability, so be sure to reserve early.
Self Parking is also included in the Conference room rate, along with Breakfast vouchers.
Obtain driving directions to the hotel by going to this link:
http://www.marriott.com/hotels/maps/travel/okcdt-courtyard-oklahoma-city-downtown^

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£>etter WaM - Registration f^orm !
When completed, mail this Registration Form and your check payable to OACP to:
Oklahoma Academy of Collaborative Processionals
Post Office Box 14502, Tulsa, OK 74159-4502
Your name: E-mail:
Profession: Lic#: Address:
Your phone: Your fax:
• Postmarked or Received by 03/26/2012 AND I am a member of
OACP. My$350.00 check is enclosed.
• Postmarked or Received by 03/26/2012 AND I am not a member of OACP. My$375.00 check is
enclosed.
• Postmarked or Received after 03/26/2012 AND I am a member of OACP. My $400.00 check is
enclosed.
• Postmarked or Received after 03/26/2012 AND I am not a member of OACP. My $425.00 check is
enclosed.
• As part of the conference, I want to join OACP and receive a $50.00 waiver on my membership
dues. My additional $100.00 membership fee check is enclosed.
Credit card payments should be mailed with this completed form to the address above or your may send by fax to:
Sherri K. Anderson, OACP Treasurer - Fax Number: 918-512-4382
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