Unsupportive Family and Friends- Does it Feel Like They Secretly Want You to Fail?...

Unsupportive Family and Friends- Do
the People You Love Secretly Want You
to Fail?

Copyrght 2013 Tiphanie Jamison
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How often do you stop yourself from
pursuing your Big Vision or Big Dream
because you are waiting for the people
(i.e. spouses, friends, peers, family
members, children) in your life to “get
it”… to get how important your dream
is to you and to nurture it, give you
space and not do subtle things to
“sabotage” you.
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Perhaps, you are the glue
financially, spiritually or
otherwise, that is holding everything
together and you are constantly
praying that God will help “them” to
understand and value you and your
desires. Maybe, you are asking
God, Source, to put it on their hearts
to be more loving and supportive and
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Here are some things to consider:

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1. The good news is that—when small
people don’t see your vision, that’s a
GOOD thing- I often say, “Never worry
about small thinkers seeing your BIG
VISION”… one reason is because of the
law of resonance… they are small
thinkers, content to complain and live
small lives.
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2. If they can see it, then chances
are, it’s a small vision. Remember, the
ANGLES or points of view we have
create our reality. So small
thinkers, don’t see Big Visions.

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3. Sadly, small thinkers have an
interest in you being a small living
person. They will resist because they
NEED you to be small to justify their
lack of living up to their full potential.
Rather than them show up as the
fullest expression of who they BE, they
try and hold you down.
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What happens is, when they see you
living in full expression, it brings up an
energy for them… it stirs something
inside of them that we all have. You
are taking action but they are not.

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So, instead of them taking action, they
try to keep you from taking action see?
It’s the lazy man’s self-awareness…i.e.
Stop the other person from
growing, so I don’t have to be aware of
my self.
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Consider a quote by the powerful
Eleanor Roosevelt, a woman ahead of
her time- “Great minds discuss
ideas; average minds discuss
events; small minds discuss
people.” Eleanor Roosevelt
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What are the conversations people
around you are having? Those very
people who are content to keep
you stuck? Are they of small
minds? For more information on
“small minds” which the small
minds video to get the checklist.
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For years, before I understand and
developed the principle of lies
fabricated fears, my greatest fear was
aloneness and being unlovable.

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So, often there are times where you
don’t go “big” or as I say, go “true”
because you think, you will be
alone, you don’t want to be alone or
your “family” or friends” to not have a
relationship with you.
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Here again, you have to consider, how
much of you is in your life, when you
are not being a full expression of
yourself? You are doing that now, and
well, how is that working for you?
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What if by BEING a different
energy, you became an energetic
match for others who desire to be a
gift and contribution to your life and
living? Who are you serving by being
less than God, Source, Your Higher Self
has designed you to be?
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This is an infinite universe with infinite
possibilities that lead to opportunities
if only you allowed yourself to receive
them…

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Lastly, I have 2 words for you... FREE
WILL. You have free will, just as the
people you are trying to change have
it.

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You have no more power to change
them, than they have power to change
you. “The robber of your free will,"
writes Epictetus, "does not exist”
Marcus Aurlieus.
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No amount of hoping someone will be
that which they are choosing NOT to
be, will make them BE something.
They get to choose, just as you get to
choose.

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You can’t will someone into choosing
something else… you can’t “will” them
into change, by wanting change for
them.

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What you can do, is BE a different
energy, allow your light to shine and
BE the change. “Change will not
come if we wait for some other
person, or if we wait for some
other time. We are the ones we've
been waiting for.” Barack Obama
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With all this being said, now, I have to
ask… “What is the value” of you
running with small minds? What is the
value of you NOT being your big
vision?
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What has it cost you in your life? How
much time, money, energy, hurt
feelings, jealousy, loss of passion? Are
you using the lack of support as a
reason to keep yourself stuck?

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Remember, you are the only one
powerful enough to stop you and YOU
are the only one powerful enough to
set you FREE!!!

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