Infuse 2013 Steve Frith Presentation

1. Developing Soft Skills:
Putting
POSSIBILITY
back into
PRACTICE
PAMELA SWEET • FCIP, RPP STEVE FRITH • MCIP, RPP
VANCOUVER 2013
PLANNING INSTITUTE OF BRITISH COLUMBIA
CANADIAN INSTITUTE OF PLANNERS
JULY 8, 2013

2. PUTTING POSSIBILITY BACK INTO PRACTICE
Outline of Workshop
1. Introduction
2. Adopting a Positive Attitude
3. Collaboration and Vulnerability
4. Sharing Positive Possibility
5. Wrap up and Continuing the Conversation

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Planners are
NATURALLY
Optimistic
Ann McAfee
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(Planner)

4. • Don‟t “Curb your
enthusiasm”
• Renew your
enthusiasm for
planning
• Put the zip into
planning
• How to stay
optimistic
• Asked some fellow
Fellows…..
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I always found that work was
MORE FUN than fun
Noel Coward
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Make PASSIONATE
love to your city
Paul Bedford
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A planner has to be
VISIONARY and
BELIEVE that one‟s
contributions will
make a difference
N.Tunnacliffe
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Seek and seize NEW
OPPORTUNITIES even
when we are out of our
comfort zone. Travel, hang
out with young people, think
about city building through
the eyes of non-planners
Marni Cappe
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Nothing succeeds like
SUCCESS
John Livey
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When I feel pessimistic, with further searching
optimism will return. It always does.
Ray Spaxman
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Life is full of misery,
loneliness and
suffering- and it‟s all
over much too soon
Woody Allen
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Optimism? It makes
us look naive and ill-
informed. I like
realism
Joe Berridge
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Thinking that I am
doing the right thing
and helping make
things better, even in a
modest way
John Steil
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Stay connected with
students. Their
ENERGY and
OPTIMISM is
contagious
Gerry Couture
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Students seek advice and in turn impart
their enthusiasm for their career ahead
Ann McAfee
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Welcome women into
planning. They bring a
CONSTRUCTIVE &
COLLABORATIVE
approach to the business
which helps society move
forward
N. Tunnacliffe (a man)
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Have a sense of
HUMOUR and don‟t
be afraid to share it
Mary Bishop
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“If you‟re not fired
with enthusiasm,
you‟ll be fired, with
enthusiasm.”
Vince Lombardi, NFL coach
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Planners get to place a small mark on the canvas
of those who came before us. Lucky us.
F .Lewinberg
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Planning is based on faith:
You must BELIEVE in a future;
That this future could be better;
That this possibly better future can be achieved through human efforts;
That the human efforts involved include planning.
Hok-Lin Leung
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21. EXERCISE #1 – Adopting a Positive Attitude
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1. Reflection- How do you
stay optimistic? (on
post-it notes write one
strategy per note)
2. Share with your group
3. Stick similar strategies
together

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Nothing great was ever achieved
WITHOUT ENTHUSIASM•
R. W. Emerson

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25. In admitting our WEAKNESSES,
we find STRENGTH•
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26. By expressing UNCERTAINTY,
we earn TRUST•
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27. And by acting with HUMILITY,
we gain CONFIDENCE•
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28. These are PARADOXES•
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29. These PARADOXES
of vulnerability are for us,
the key to achieving
TRUE COLLABORATION•
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30. EXERCISE #2 – Inviting Collaboration Through Invitation
IN PAIRINGS OF TWO:
1. Share a problem (use „I feel‟ statements).
2. The responder identifies and expresses empathy
for the person sharing the problem.
3. The responder then asks a question to embark
upon collaboration and possibility.
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31. The last of human freedoms
is the ability to CHOOSE ONE’S
ATTITUDE in any given set of
circumstances•
Viktor Frankl
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32. Is this FEAR
just here to destroy me
or to tell me
to do SOMETHING
about it?
Immaculée Ilibagiza
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33. From these stories, and our own
professional experience, no one can
ever take our ATTITUDE or
DIGNITY away from us•
These are ours,
AND OURS ALONE•
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34. POSITIVE
ENERGY
COLLEAGUESGRATITUDE
GENEROSITY
POSSIBILITY
AFFIRMATION
CITIZENS
CLIENTS
FAMILY
FRIENDSPOSITIVITY
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35. Why is this IMPORTANT?
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36. It is important because
our work MATTERS•
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37. We can affect a
GREATER GOOD
when we ENVISION
a positive future with positive
investments toward positive change•
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38. EXERCISE #3 – Sharing Positive Possibility
IN PAIRINGS OF TWO (WITH A DIFFERENT STRANGER):
1. Convey something about your work that you are looking
forward to and why.
2. The respondent acknowledges the person‟s enthusiasm
(echoes this) and shows an understanding of what it is
about.
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39. Continuing the conversation:
CIP new web site blog- Andrew Sacret,
Director, Policy & Public Affairs, CIP
Other ideas?
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