4. TRUST is the decision I make to let myself be
vulnerable because I believe:
You care (benevolent)—caring, good will, positive
intentions
You are honest—integrity, good will, telling the truth
You are open—sharing information, delegating
You are reliable—consistency, dependable,
commitment
You are competent—problem-solving, set standards,
knowledgeable
(Trust Matters)
5. As a leader how do/would you:
◦ Measure (know that trust is present or know that
trust is lacking) in your organization?
◦ Maintain and/or build trust within your
organization?
◦ Build organizational trust if it were missing within
your organization?
6.
7. Inconsistent messages
Inconsistent standards
Misplaced benevolence
False feedback
Failure to trust others
Elephants in the parlor
Rumors in a vacuum
Consistent corporate (school)
underperformance
8. Figure out what happened (what, when,
cause)
Determine the depth and breadth of the
loss of trust
Own up to the loss quickly
Identify what must be accomplished to
rebuild trust
9. There is no such thing as a private
conversation
There is no such thing as a casual
conversation
People sometimes hear what they most fear
Trauma has a long half-life
No good deed goes unpunished
There is not always an equal and opposite
reaction
10. Trust takes time, patience, shared investment and
must be two-way
Have to be able to live in a non-trusting way to
build trust
Deep trust can only be built by people who interact
within a distance of six feet--the “six foot rule”
Mistrust is part of today’s life. It may not be
personally based, but must be personally
overcome.
11. Why does relationship-based, structural
trust change depending on where you are in
the organization?
What is a “kitchen cabinet”? Do you have
one?
12. Has “transparency, technology, and data”
impacted trust within your organization?
13. Are you a trustworthy leader?
How do others know if you are/are not
trustworthy? (define trustworthy)
14. Share a professional scenario you have been
involved with where trust was an issue. What
caused trust to be an issue?
How was it resolved? Was trust restored—
how?
15. When interviewing for the position of
superintendent you were asked if you were
trustworthy. How did you respond?
As the superintendent how would you convince
your employees that you are a trustworthy
leader?
As the superintendent how are you going to
ensure the community believes the district is
trustworthy.
As the superintendent how are you going to
build/maintain a trusting relationship with your
school board?
As the superintendent how would you restore
trust with your principals if it were broken?
16. As an educational leader what are your most
important “take-aways” from the book and
articles?
17. On a daily basis, trust is raised or diminished
depending on whether the way we act– and why– is
consistent with the expectations we have agreed to.
In other words, through our words and actions we
show our sense of obligations towards others- and
others discern these intentions…
Trust grows through exchanges in which actions
validate these expectations.
Even simple interactions, if successful, can enhance
collective capacities for more complex subsequent
actions… (Bryk & Schneider)