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A Conversation




  About Hijaab…
"I'm so
tired."
          "Tired of
           what?"
"Of all these
people judging
me."




                  "Who
                 judged
                  you?"
"Like that
woman, every
time I sit with     "Oh,
 her, she tells    hijab
  me to wear        and
    hijab."        music!
                    The
                  mother
                   of all
                  topics!"
"Yeah!   I
  listen to   "Maybe
    music     she was
  without       just
hijab…haha     giving
                you
      !"      advice."
"I don't
 need her
 advice. I
 know my
 religion.
 Can`t she
 mind her
   own
business?"
              "Maybe you
             misunderstood.
              She was just
              being nice."
"Keeping
out of my
business,    "But it's
  that       her duty
would be        to
 nice..."   encourag
             e you do
            to good."
"Trust me.    "Well,
 That was    wearing
    no        hijab,
encourage      that
ment. And    would be
  what do     a good
you mean     thing to
 `good` ?"     do."
"It's in the
"Says     Qur'an,
who?"    isn't it?"
"Yes. She     "She
did quote      said
    me        Surah
something    Nur, and
     ."       other
              places
              of the
             Qur'an."
"Yes, but     "True.
it's not a big     But
 sin anyway.       big
    Helping      things
 people and       start
  praying is      with
     more        small
important."      things
                    ."
"That's a
    good      "What you
 point, but    wear is
 what you        not
wear is not   important
important.       ?"
   What's
important
 is to have
   a good
   healthy
   heart."
"Then
         why do
That's     you
what I    spend
said."   an hour
          every
         morning
          fixing
           up?"
"You spend
               money on
              cosmetics,
 "What do        not to
you mean?"    mention all
             the time you
               spend on
              fixing your
                hair and
               low-carb
               dieting."
"So, your
"So?"   appearance
            IS
        important."
"No. I      "If it's not
   said            an
 wearing      important
 hijab is      thing in
  not an       religion,
importan       why is it
t thing in   mentioned
religion."   in the Holy
               Qur'an?"
"You      "You mean
  know I      God tells
   can't         you
follow all   something
 that's in   to do, you
Qur'an."       disobey
              and then
              it's OK?"
Yes. God is      "God is
forgiving."   forgiving to
               those who
               repent and
                 do not
              repeat their
               mistakes."
"Says the
           same
"Says   book that
who?"    tells you
        to cover."
"But the
                lotions,
               lipsticks,
               mascara
              and other
              cosmetics
   "But I       set you
 don't like      free?!
  hijab, it     What`s
 limits my        your
freedom."     definition
                   of
               freedom
              anyway?
                    "
"No.
"Freedom       Freedom
is in doing   is in doing
 whatever      the right
  you like    thing, not
  to do."      in doing
               whatever
               we wish
                to do."
"So what?
"Look! I've seen    There are
so many people     people who
who don't wear      are nice to
  hijab and are    you but are
nice people, and    alcoholic.
  so many who       Should we
 wear hijab and        all be
are bad people."   alcoholics?
                   You made a
                      stupid
                      point."
"I don't want     "Then you
   to be an         are a
extremist or       secular
a fanatic. I'm   fanatic. An
OK the way I     extremist in
 am without      disobeying
    hijab."         God."
"You don't
 get it, if I
wear hijab,     "So all
who would        these
  marry         people
  me?!"           with
                 hijab
                 never
                  get
                married
                  ?!"
"Okay! What     "What if
    if I get       your
 married and     husband
 my husband       wants
  doesn't like    you to
it? And wants     go out
     me to         with
  remove it?"    him on a
                   bank
                 robbery
                    ?!"
"That's     "Disobeying
irrelevant,   your Creator
   bank         is not a
robbery is      crime?"
 a crime."
"A
"But    company
then       that
 who     respects
would   people for
 hire   who they
me?"       are."
"Yes. After
            9-11. Don't
             you know
 "Not          about
after 9-   Hanan who
  11"      just got into
                med
              school?
              And the
            other one,
             what was
            her name,
           the girl who
               always
               wore a
                white
           hijab…umm
                m…"
"Yasmeen       "Yes.
    ?"     Yasmeen.
             She just
             finished
            her MBA
           and is now
            interning
             for GE."
"Why do
you reduce
religion to a
  piece of      "Why do you
    cloth           reduce
 anyway?"       womanhood
                to high heals
                 and lipstick
                   colors?"
"In fact, I did.
          Hijab is not just
          a piece of cloth.
 "You
          It is obeying God in
 didn't
               a difficult
answer
           environment. It
  my
          is courage, faith
questio
            in action, and
  n."
                  true
            womanhood.
           But your short
            sleeves, tight
                pants…"
"That's
               "Really? I
    called
                did not
 `fashion`,
               know men
you live in
                  could
 a cave or
                control
something
               women by
  ? First of
                 hijab."
  all, hijab
     was
  founded
   by men
     who
wanted to
   control
 women."
"What
           about the
          women who
"Yes.      fight their
That's    husbands to
what      wear hijab?
it is."   And women
            in France
             who are
            forced to
             remove
           their hijab
            by men?
            What do
             you say
              about
              that?"
"What
             difference?
             The woman
  "Well,      who asked
  that's     you to wear
different.    hijab…she
     "           was a
               woman,
                right?"
"Right,   "But fashions
but…"        that are
          designed and
          promoted by
               male-
           dominated
          corporations,
          set you free?
          Men have no
            control on
             exposing
           women and
          using them as
                 a
          commodity?!
            Give me a
              break!"
"Saying
               what?
                You
               think
"Wait, let   that men
me finish,    control
  I was       women
saying…"         by
              hijab?"
"Specifically
            how?"



"Yes."
"Doesn't
                TV,
   "By     magazines
 telling   and movies
 women        tell you
how and      what to
 what to    wear, and
  wear,     how to be
dummy!"    `attractive'
                 ?"
"Isn't
                    that
 "Of course,     control?
it's fashion."   Pressuri
                  ng you
                 to wear
                   what
                   they
                   want
                  you to
                 wear?"
"Not just
[Silence]   controlling
             you, but
               also
            controlling
               the
             market."
"I mean, you
           are told to
          look skinny
         and anorexic
            like that
"What     woman on
do you   the cover of
mean?          the
   "       magazine,
         by men who
         design those
          magazines
            and sell
              those
           products."
"I don't get
   it. What
 does hijab
 have to do
      with
 products."




"It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to
consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live
by standards of fashion designed by men…and then here is Islam, saying
trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not
worry what men think of your looks."
"Yes, it is. It
              is a product
                that sets
   "Like I      you free
   don't      from male-
  have to      dominated
buy hijab?    consumeris
Isn't hijab        m."
      a
product?"
"Stop
               "Fine. Say
 lecturing
me! I WILL
                 that to
NOT WEAR       your Lord,
  HIJAB!       when you
    It is       face Him
 awkward,          on
 outdated,     Judgment
and totally       Day."
not suitable
  for this
 society ...
Moreover, I
am only 20
  and too
 young to
   wear
  hijab!"
"Fine."




          "Fine."
"Shut up
   and I
   don't
  want to   [Silence]
hear more
   about
   hijab
   niqab
 schmijab
 Punjab!"
She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time.
Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with
her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final
modern decision accepted by the society - but rejected by the Faith
"Yes!" -
to curls
on the
hair -
 "No!" -
to hijab!
"And he
(/she) is
indeed a
failure who
corrupts it
[the soul]!"
[Holy Quran
91:10
Subhana'
Allah!!!
"Nay! You
prefer the
life of this
world;
While the
hereafter is
better and
more
lasting."
[Holy
Quran:
87:16-17]
"You are the
best
community
(Ummah)
raised up for
(the benefit of)
humanity;
enjoining what
is right and
forbidding what
is wrong and
believing in
Allah."
[Holy Quran:
3:110]
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http:xeniagreekmuslimah.wordpress.com




  Source of Text:
  http://www.islamtomorrow.com/articles/Hijab_she_wont_wear.asp

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A conversation about hijaab

  • 1. A Conversation About Hijaab…
  • 2. "I'm so tired." "Tired of what?"
  • 3. "Of all these people judging me." "Who judged you?"
  • 4. "Like that woman, every time I sit with "Oh, her, she tells hijab me to wear and hijab." music! The mother of all topics!"
  • 5. "Yeah! I listen to "Maybe music she was without just hijab…haha giving you !" advice."
  • 6. "I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can`t she mind her own business?" "Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice."
  • 7. "Keeping out of my business, "But it's that her duty would be to nice..." encourag e you do to good."
  • 8. "Trust me. "Well, That was wearing no hijab, encourage that ment. And would be what do a good you mean thing to `good` ?" do."
  • 9. "It's in the "Says Qur'an, who?" isn't it?"
  • 10. "Yes. She "She did quote said me Surah something Nur, and ." other places of the Qur'an."
  • 11. "Yes, but "True. it's not a big But sin anyway. big Helping things people and start praying is with more small important." things ."
  • 12. "That's a good "What you point, but wear is what you not wear is not important important. ?" What's important is to have a good healthy heart."
  • 13. "Then why do That's you what I spend said." an hour every morning fixing up?"
  • 14. "You spend money on cosmetics, "What do not to you mean?" mention all the time you spend on fixing your hair and low-carb dieting."
  • 15. "So, your "So?" appearance IS important."
  • 16. "No. I "If it's not said an wearing important hijab is thing in not an religion, importan why is it t thing in mentioned religion." in the Holy Qur'an?"
  • 17. "You "You mean know I God tells can't you follow all something that's in to do, you Qur'an." disobey and then it's OK?"
  • 18. Yes. God is "God is forgiving." forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes."
  • 19. "Says the same "Says book that who?" tells you to cover."
  • 20. "But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics "But I set you don't like free?! hijab, it What`s limits my your freedom." definition of freedom anyway? "
  • 21. "No. "Freedom Freedom is in doing is in doing whatever the right you like thing, not to do." in doing whatever we wish to do."
  • 22. "So what? "Look! I've seen There are so many people people who who don't wear are nice to hijab and are you but are nice people, and alcoholic. so many who Should we wear hijab and all be are bad people." alcoholics? You made a stupid point."
  • 23. "I don't want "Then you to be an are a extremist or secular a fanatic. I'm fanatic. An OK the way I extremist in am without disobeying hijab." God."
  • 24. "You don't get it, if I wear hijab, "So all who would these marry people me?!" with hijab never get married ?!"
  • 25. "Okay! What "What if if I get your married and husband my husband wants doesn't like you to it? And wants go out me to with remove it?" him on a bank robbery ?!"
  • 26. "That's "Disobeying irrelevant, your Creator bank is not a robbery is crime?" a crime."
  • 27. "A "But company then that who respects would people for hire who they me?" are."
  • 28. "Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know "Not about after 9- Hanan who 11" just got into med school? And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore a white hijab…umm m…"
  • 29. "Yasmeen "Yes. ?" Yasmeen. She just finished her MBA and is now interning for GE."
  • 30. "Why do you reduce religion to a piece of "Why do you cloth reduce anyway?" womanhood to high heals and lipstick colors?"
  • 31. "In fact, I did. Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. "You It is obeying God in didn't a difficult answer environment. It my is courage, faith questio in action, and n." true womanhood. But your short sleeves, tight pants…"
  • 32. "That's "Really? I called did not `fashion`, know men you live in could a cave or control something women by ? First of hijab." all, hijab was founded by men who wanted to control women."
  • 33. "What about the women who "Yes. fight their That's husbands to what wear hijab? it is." And women in France who are forced to remove their hijab by men? What do you say about that?"
  • 34. "What difference? The woman "Well, who asked that's you to wear different. hijab…she " was a woman, right?"
  • 35. "Right, "But fashions but…" that are designed and promoted by male- dominated corporations, set you free? Men have no control on exposing women and using them as a commodity?! Give me a break!"
  • 36. "Saying what? You think "Wait, let that men me finish, control I was women saying…" by hijab?"
  • 37. "Specifically how?" "Yes."
  • 38. "Doesn't TV, "By magazines telling and movies women tell you how and what to what to wear, and wear, how to be dummy!" `attractive' ?"
  • 39. "Isn't that "Of course, control? it's fashion." Pressuri ng you to wear what they want you to wear?"
  • 40. "Not just [Silence] controlling you, but also controlling the market."
  • 41. "I mean, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that "What woman on do you the cover of mean? the " magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell those products."
  • 42. "I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products." "It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live by standards of fashion designed by men…and then here is Islam, saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks."
  • 43. "Yes, it is. It is a product that sets "Like I you free don't from male- have to dominated buy hijab? consumeris Isn't hijab m." a product?"
  • 44. "Stop "Fine. Say lecturing me! I WILL that to NOT WEAR your Lord, HIJAB! when you It is face Him awkward, on outdated, Judgment and totally Day." not suitable for this society ... Moreover, I am only 20 and too young to wear hijab!"
  • 45. "Fine." "Fine."
  • 46. "Shut up and I don't want to [Silence] hear more about hijab niqab schmijab Punjab!"
  • 47. She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time. Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final modern decision accepted by the society - but rejected by the Faith
  • 48. "Yes!" - to curls on the hair - "No!" - to hijab!
  • 49. "And he (/she) is indeed a failure who corrupts it [the soul]!" [Holy Quran 91:10
  • 51. "Nay! You prefer the life of this world; While the hereafter is better and more lasting." [Holy Quran: 87:16-17]
  • 52. "You are the best community (Ummah) raised up for (the benefit of) humanity; enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong and believing in Allah." [Holy Quran: 3:110]
  • 53. Slideshare: Xenia http:xeniagreekmuslimah.wordpress.com Source of Text: http://www.islamtomorrow.com/articles/Hijab_she_wont_wear.asp