1. 10 Simple Yet
Powerful Body
Language Tips
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COMPILED BY – GIRISH CHANDRA ANANTHANARAYANA
CDPRESOURCES.COM
2. Body Language
Body language – clues of unspoken intentions or
feelings revealed through physical behaviour
body
postures, gestures, facial expressions, and eye
movements – mostly subconscious
Unintentional gestures have been found to convey
useful information in specific contexts
eye rub, chin rest, lip touch, nose itch, head scratch, ear
scratch, crossing arms, finger lock and so on
4. Managing the Body Language
First step towards understanding Body Language is
BECOMING AWARE of how our Body Responds to
situations
Aware,
Observe, Learn, Change
In the following slides are 10 body language tips
(based on Carol Kinsey Goman’s article on Forbes)
5. Body Language – Tip 1
1.
Breathe, and Relax!
Before
an important meeting or presentation, it is natural
to be tense and the body exhibits it for others to see
Breathe
slowly and deeply; take a deep breath and
exhale through your mouth
This
releases the tension in your neck, shoulders and jaw
that can make you look rigid or aggressive
Consciously
relax and be observant of your
thoughts, feelings, and behaviors – relax!
6. Body Language - Tip 2
2.
Use your body: Move, Pause, Stand
Human beings are drawn to movement and change
Moving when speaking will attract people’s attention, but too
much movement can create distraction
Move toward the audience when making a key point; move
away when you want to signal a break or a change of subject
Use space when referring to different ideas
When presenting three issues, talk about each of them from a
different physical position
Present “bad” and “good” news from different sides of the stage
Don’t move while making a crucial comment
Stand absolutely still to highlight your most important points
7. Body Language – Tip 3
3. User Your Palms to display authority
To
look decisive, face your palms down
Palms
exposed (facing up) show you are open and
willing to negotiate
Palms
turned down indicate you are closed to
negotiation
A
definitive gesture of authority is placing both hands /
palms down on the conference table
8. Body Language – Tip 4
4. Take Your Time, but Speak Up Early
Speak
up early if you want to be taken seriously
Offering
opinions toward the end of the conversation is
more likely to be discounted
By
speaking up early you are someone who is “at the
table” and ready to participate
9. Body Language – Tip 5
5. Watch others’ body language
People
signal their emotions and thoughts through body
When
they are ready to leave, they often take the
position of someone ready to rise
moving
to the edge of the chair, or leaning forward with hands
on the arms of the chair or hands on knees.
Respect
Learn
the signal and finish what you are saying
from the signals that others offer to you, and adapt
it in your vocabulary
10. Body Language – Tip 6
6. Make or Build Rapport
People
respond to our postures, gestures, and language
When
seated for negotiation or discussion, push back
from the table and lean away from your counterpart
The
counterpart often reacts by backing away too
Now
lean forward, put your hands on the table (palms
showing), look him or her in the eyes and smile
Interaction
Your
warms up and is much more friendly / open
body language can help you build or break rapport
11. Body Language – Tip 7
7. To sound dynamic, widen your stance
Voice
comes from your entire body, not just your
mouth, use your body to become a more dynamic
speaker
A
broad stance keeping feet planted firmly on the
floor, hips-width apart, with weight evenly distributed
calms the nervous system, allows you to breathe with
ease, and amplifies your voice
It
also signals confidence to yourself and people seeing you
12. Body Language – Tip 8
8. To stay in control, take a step back
When
stuck or feel you are losing control, back up – take
one step back and assert yourself
Backward
motion is a powerful way to enhance
cognitive control
According
to a research, people in difficult situations improved
the ability to cope by simply taking a step back (literally)
13. Body Language - Tip 9
10. Increase team productivity, keep your body
language open
“emotional
contagion” - People monitor for emotional
cues; if your body looks closed, depressed or
angry, people subconsciously pick up and mimic your
state
Keep
your posture relaxed, inclusive and open, your
team will respond by being more cohesive, positive and
productive
Your
team reflects your state
14. Body Language – Tip 10
10. Smile, without a reason
Whatever
the situation – smile
Smile
induces a lot of positive energy in you
and in people around you
If
you are feeling tensed – smile
If
you are feeling ignored – smile
If
you are feeling fearful – smile
If
you are feeling anxious – smile
Smile
your way to success, and keep smiling!
15. You are gifted with mind, body and
emotions. Use them to your benefit.
Girish Chandra Ananthanarayana
girish.cdp@gmail.com /cdpresources.com
Reference:
http://www.forbes.com/sites/carolkinseygoman/2014/01/02/10-simple-and-powerful-bodylanguage-tips-for-2014/2/