1. Text Goes Here Presents… ARC Relationship Coach Training Course Aug 20/21 AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

2. About Me AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

3. Mission Statement The overall aim of the Academy of Relationship coaching Course is to provide the skills to coach single individuals in making good couple relationship choices and also to increase stability, happiness and fulfillment for couples for long lasting loving relationships. AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

4. Relationship Wheel _____________ _________ ___________ _____________ ____________ ____________ _________ _____________

5. Who Are Your Clients? Single men Single women Couples Married couples Church goers (very large untouched market) Divorced AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

6. EDAMS Model AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

7. EDAMS Module E Establish D Decide A Action M Measure S State AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

8. Hope v Expect Hope Expect AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

9. Edams Module E Establish What is the situation? D Decide Responsibilty? (Wheel) A Action When and What? (Books) M Measure Achievements? S State Hope/Expect/Emotions AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

10. Take The Arc Qualification Anywhere In The World With You And Be Recognised! AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

11. How Much Can You Earn? Average = £75 / hour Let’s assume you can pull in just 5 working client hours per day... AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

13. Work on your own

14. Marketing training day

15. BenefitsAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

17. How men really fall in love

18. How women really fall in love

19. How to set up your own dating events/speed dating singles parties etc

20. How to set up your own dating/relationship workshops and seminars

21. How to create and sell your own products globally

22. How to get in magazines, radio stations, TV etc

23. How to market yourself

24. How to receive so many clients you cant take anymore

25. Earn £90,000 Per year and possibly moreAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

27. How much effort have you honestly given yourself?

28. Are you old fashioned?

29. Would you approach a man?

30. Do you believe that they are out there?

31. What changes can you do?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

32. Top 10 Reasons Why You May Be Single Unconsciously you don’t want to be in relationship You are looking for a man in all the wrong places Men are not stepping up the plate You have too many insecurities and too much drama Your aura is just wrong- give it away too freely Independence is making you hard to deal with You think that being domestic is subservient You have created an ideal man that only a fairytale prince can live up to You don’t have your stuff together You have too much baggage AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

34. What needs to change?

35. ExerciseAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

37. How much time do you give yourself?

38. Do You Know What YOU Want?

39. What is the number one quality you look for?

40. Where has this come from?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

41. The Top Six Ways To Prepare and Package Yourself For “The One” Ask lots of questions Don’t ignore warning signs of potential problems Be aware of premature compromises Don’t give into lust blindness Be aware of giving in to material seduction Put compatibility before commitment AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

43. Unromantic?

44. An intelligent way to get to know someone.

45. Don’t want to hear anything bad.

46. Lonely, tired, gap is filled

47. You don’t want to disclose your “stuff” too earlyExercise: Which questions are important to you in the early stages of the relationship? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

49. Did you pay a lot of attention to these signs?

50. Chose to ignore these signs?

51. Minimize its importance, excuses?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

53. Lose sense of self early in the relationship?

54. Create a false sense of harmony?

55. Conflict – stand by your beliefs, risk tension.

56. Conflict – compromise to “keep the peace”.

57. Exercise: Which premature compromises have you experienced?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

59. In love with the passion and not the person?

60. Feel your partner with your heart and not your eyes.

61. Media influence.

62. Sex - make your partner wait . . .

63. Would you want to have this person’s children?

64. Really get to know them firstExercise: Have you ever given in to lust blindness? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

66. Money, lifestyle, appearance, power, career, reputation.

67. Men focus on women’s appearance rather than what she does .

68. Women focus on what he does, husband material, security.

69. Focus on YOU, not what someone can bring you.Exercise: Have you experienced material seduction? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

71. Sex too early

72. Living together for the wrong reason and too soon

73. Feel this is “the one” after just a few weeks

74. Feelings are much greater when compared to quality time together

75. You have “changed” and are not aware of this?

76. You plan the rest of your life with this Partner?Exercise: When have you put compatibility before commitment? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

77. How To Coach Single Men AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

78. How To Coach Single Women AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

79. How To Coach Couples in Problems AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

80. How To Coach Married Couples in Problems AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

81. How To Coach Divorcees AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

83. Modules

84. Network

85. Training UpdatesAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

87. Pop UP Banner Stand

88. Business Cards

89. Flyers

90. Networking Events

91. UK Tour

92. Train Coachees

93. Dating EventsAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

94. What Is Your Chosen Niche Area? Single Men Single Women Couples Divorcees Married Couples AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

95. You Will Now Be Perceived As A Relationship Expert AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

96. Congratulations!!!! ARC Diploma in Relationship Coaching AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

97. ARCs Tools And Models Marriage Wheel Divorce Wheel Couples Wheel Divorcee Wheel Singles Wheel Edams Model SMERTIE AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

99. Where is this type of man likely to hang out?

100. Business man – clubs

101. Fit / healthy man - gym

102. Party man – networking / business

103. List the last 5 places you went and consider if there are other places you can go. AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

105. Take advice from those who are living the life you want to live.AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

107. Why do you confide in her?

108. What wouldn’t YOU do that SHE has done in the past?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

110. Ask friends and family to be frank and communicate what vibe/energy you send out when you enter the room

111. Law of AttractionAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

113. Are they dating the men you want?

114. How are they attracting these men?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

116. When you think about finding him, what goes through your mind?

117. You must think positively, especially when doubt creeps in or you find someone that interests you.

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120. Where have these preferences come from? Are they perhaps associated with your ex partners, family or your past.

121. Can these preferences be amended to increase your chances? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

123. Have you attended a workshop, seminar or class that spurred you to immediate action.

124. What development products do you have?

125. Have you joined any communication groups, eg on-line newsletters etc?

126. Do you surround yourself with like-minded, positive people? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

128. Do you understand YOU?

129. How would you describe YOU

130. When you look in the mirror, what do you see?

131. What do you think about yourself? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

133. Has there been a pattern to your past relationships?

134. What complaints did your exes have about you?

135. Choose the top one and make a decision to work on this. AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

137. Make sure you are clearly visible. No one will see you hidden away. You are more likely to be approached if you position yourself at or near the bar, the cloakrooms etc where men will be passing by frequently. AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

139. Why the answers are important to you

140. What history has prompted these questions

141. What YOU have to do to attract this type of man.AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

143. Practice this until it becomes second nature.

144. Devote just five minutes of your time to this mental exercise before you go to bed and again when you wake up. AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

146. Unaware of each other’s core values

147. Emotional state when you met

148. Unaware or missing the early “signs” that indicate relationship success or failureAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

150. Would YOU date you?

151. What things are so important to you that you are not prepared to be flexible and change?

152. Do you know where this inflexibility has come from and is this attitude holding you back?

153. If you could compromise, what opportunities would it create for you?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

155. Meet up with them and their male friends on a regular basis

156. Listen to their conversations and watch them look at other women.

157. What advantages do you think this would give you?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

159. Plan beforehand – why are you there?

160. Educate yourself about sport – men love this!AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

162. Allocate an hour that is just for YOU and make appropriate arrangements so that you can always achieve this.

163. Turn off all forms of communication - this is YOUR time.

164. Perhaps a candlelit bath, your favourite sensual music?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

166. Read books that are important and empowering to you.

167. What is the first thing you are going to do to achieve your goal? Write it down.

168. Be grateful for all the good things around you before you go to bed.AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

170. How do YOU cope with stress?

171. What is it like when you are BOTH stressed?

172. Do you understand how differently men and women cope with stress?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

174. Be prepared to be shocked or upset.

175. Even though their replies are about you, don’t take it “personally”

176. Learn from their comments and be honest with yourselfAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

178. How does he feel about having a family, marriage, 100% commitment?

179. What are the warning signs?

180. If you know from the start, you can take the appropriate path through your relationship.AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

182. Have you devoted 100% of your effort on finding him? If not, why not?

183. Could you do more? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

185. How do you feel about the breakups?

186. Is it all about you?

187. What have you learned about you and men so far?

188. What are going to do differently from now on?AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

190. You minimise their importance

191. You don’t want to damage what’s good

192. You don’t want to be alone AGAIN, especially when you are tired of searchingAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

194. Do you know why this was the first thing?

195. Write down another 30 things that make you happy?

196. Write down one thing you are going to do to work towards your happinessAcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

197. Coaching Skills AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

198. Selling Skills AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

199. Managing Positive Reactions To Changes AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

200. Managing Negative Reactions To Changes AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

201. Confront AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

202. Persuasive Presentation Skills AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

203. 7 Step Model Of Change AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

204. 20 Solution Focus Techniques AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

205. 50 Solution Focused Quotes AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

206. Solution Focused Scaling Questions AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

207. Positive Solutions Clip AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

208. Positive Inspiring Clip For Your Clients AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

209. Man’s Sex Drive AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

210. Points System AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

211. Men’s Ideas – What Women Shouldn’t Do AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

212. What Makes Women Attractive To Men (Mark Gungar)? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

213. 6 Things Men Find Unattractive In A Woman AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

214. Coach Training With Tony Robbins AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

215. Questions? ? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com

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