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Chapter 9: X3Pure Couples Series
Review
Review
  • All In
Review
  • All In

  • Building a marriage on the rock of Jesus Christ
Review
  • All In

  • Building a marriage on the rock of Jesus Christ

  • Resolving Conflict
Sex
Sex
  • Foundational building block
Sex
  • Foundational building block
   - Trust: Where you trust one another to the point that you feel safe.
Trust Journey
Trust Journey
  • 1 Thessalonians 4:3 “It is God’s will that you
   should be sanctified, that you should avoid
   sexual immorality. That each of you should
   learn to control his own body in a way that is
   holy and honorable, not in passionate lust
   like the heathen do who do not know God.”
Trust Journey
  • 1 Thessalonians 4:3 “It is God’s will that you
   should be sanctified, that you should avoid
   sexual immorality. That each of you should
   learn to control his own body in a way that is
   holy and honorable, not in passionate lust
   like the heathen do who do not know God.”

  • Learn to control your body
Trust Journey
  • 1 Thessalonians 4:3 “It is God’s will that you
   should be sanctified, that you should avoid
   sexual immorality. That each of you should
   learn to control his own body in a way that is
   holy and honorable, not in passionate lust
   like the heathen do who do not know God.”

  • Learn to control your body

  • Abstain from sexual immorality
Trust Journey
Trust Journey
  • Sometimes when you’re secretly struggling
   with porn you have displaced anger
Trust Journey
  • Sometimes when you’re secretly struggling
   with porn you have displaced anger

  • Secrets in marriage are destructive and lead
   to distrust
Trust Journey
  • Sometimes when you’re secretly struggling
   with porn you have displaced anger

  • Secrets in marriage are destructive and lead
   to distrust
  • Sexual temptation may start with a little
   nibble but then you need more and more
Trust Journey
  • Sometimes when you’re secretly struggling
   with porn you have displaced anger

  • Secrets in marriage are destructive and lead
   to distrust
  • Sexual temptation may start with a little
   nibble but then you need more and more

  • It is never satisfied
Trust Journey
Trust Journey
  • When you lose trust you lose much
Trust Journey
  • When you lose trust you lose much

  • The temptation never goes away
Trust Journey
Trust Journey
  • The bottom line comes down to your
   commitment
Trust Journey
  • The bottom line comes down to your
   commitment

  • Commitment to live pure
Trust Journey
  • The bottom line comes down to your
   commitment

  • Commitment to live pure

  • Give no access to porn
Homework Assignment
Homework Assignment
  • Confess sin you have been hiding
Homework Assignment
  • Confess sin you have been hiding

  • Be courageous and free

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X3 Pure Couples Chapter 9

  • 1. Chapter 9: X3Pure Couples Series
  • 3. Review • All In
  • 4. Review • All In • Building a marriage on the rock of Jesus Christ
  • 5. Review • All In • Building a marriage on the rock of Jesus Christ • Resolving Conflict
  • 6. Sex
  • 7. Sex • Foundational building block
  • 8. Sex • Foundational building block - Trust: Where you trust one another to the point that you feel safe.
  • 10. Trust Journey • 1 Thessalonians 4:3 “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality. That each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen do who do not know God.”
  • 11. Trust Journey • 1 Thessalonians 4:3 “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality. That each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen do who do not know God.” • Learn to control your body
  • 12. Trust Journey • 1 Thessalonians 4:3 “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality. That each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen do who do not know God.” • Learn to control your body • Abstain from sexual immorality
  • 14. Trust Journey • Sometimes when you’re secretly struggling with porn you have displaced anger
  • 15. Trust Journey • Sometimes when you’re secretly struggling with porn you have displaced anger • Secrets in marriage are destructive and lead to distrust
  • 16. Trust Journey • Sometimes when you’re secretly struggling with porn you have displaced anger • Secrets in marriage are destructive and lead to distrust • Sexual temptation may start with a little nibble but then you need more and more
  • 17. Trust Journey • Sometimes when you’re secretly struggling with porn you have displaced anger • Secrets in marriage are destructive and lead to distrust • Sexual temptation may start with a little nibble but then you need more and more • It is never satisfied
  • 19. Trust Journey • When you lose trust you lose much
  • 20. Trust Journey • When you lose trust you lose much • The temptation never goes away
  • 22. Trust Journey • The bottom line comes down to your commitment
  • 23. Trust Journey • The bottom line comes down to your commitment • Commitment to live pure
  • 24. Trust Journey • The bottom line comes down to your commitment • Commitment to live pure • Give no access to porn
  • 26. Homework Assignment • Confess sin you have been hiding
  • 27. Homework Assignment • Confess sin you have been hiding • Be courageous and free