1. X3pure Series: Chapter 7
Sexual Drama Cycles
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2. Cycles
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3. Cycles
• Your first sexual experience sets the
tone for the other choices that you
make
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4. Cycles
• Your first sexual experience sets the
tone for the other choices that you
make
• Insanity: Doing the same thing and
expecting a different result
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5. Cycles
• Your first sexual experience sets the
tone for the other choices that you
make
• Insanity: Doing the same thing and
expecting a different result
• What are the things we’re doing that
are causing us to stay where we are?
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6. Lessons Learned
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7. Lessons Learned
• What a guy says, he means
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8. Lessons Learned
• What a guy says, he means
• The Way We Were Reunion Tour
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9. Letter to My Former Self
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10. Breaking the Cycle
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11. Breaking the Cycle
• Seven symbolizes perfection in the
Bible
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12. Breaking the Cycle
• Seven symbolizes perfection in the
Bible
• The enemy will use what’s worked
before until it doesn’t work any more
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13. Breaking the Cycle
• Seven symbolizes perfection in the
Bible
• The enemy will use what’s worked
before until it doesn’t work any more
• Just because the circumstances are
different doesn’t mean the
consequences of sex change
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14. Single Women
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15. Single Women
• Shouldn’t take on the role of “wifey”
until you are a wife
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16. Single Women
• Shouldn’t take on the role of “wifey”
until you are a wife
• No one had a boyfriend or girlfriend
in the Bible. You were either single,
married, divorced or widowed
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17. Single Women
• Shouldn’t take on the role of “wifey”
until you are a wife
• No one had a boyfriend or girlfriend
in the Bible. You were either single,
married, divorced or widowed
• “You didn’t break up, you divorced”
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18. Single Women
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19. Single Women
• God does things decently and in
order
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20. Single Women
• God does things decently and in
order
• The single person cares for the
things of the Lord but the married
woman cares about the things of the
husband (1 Corinthians 7:34)
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21. Single Women
• God does things decently and in
order
• The single person cares for the
things of the Lord but the married
woman cares about the things of the
husband (1 Corinthians 7:34)
• Complements were revelations
rather than confirmations
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22. The Need to Heal
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23. The Need to Heal
• A virgin has nothing to compare
physically, emotionally or spiritually
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24. The Need to Heal
• A virgin has nothing to compare
physically, emotionally or spiritually
• Just because you have sex outside
of covenant doesn’t mean he willed it
for you
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25. The Need to Heal
• A virgin has nothing to compare
physically, emotionally or spiritually
• Just because you have sex outside
of covenant doesn’t mean he willed it
for you
• Spiritual soap operas
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26. Victorious
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27. Victorious
• Stop living as the martyr and start
seeing yourself as victorious
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28. Victorious
• Stop living as the martyr and start
seeing yourself as victorious
• All things work together (Romans 8:28)
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29. Victorious
• Stop living as the martyr and start
seeing yourself as victorious
• All things work together (Romans 8:28)
• Freed from the past
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30. Victorious
• Stop living as the martyr and start
seeing yourself as victorious
• All things work together (Romans 8:28)
• Freed from the past
• Your testimony will help you and
those who hear you (1 Timothy 4:14-16)
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31. Loving Well
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32. Loving Well
Philippians 1:9
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33. Loving Well
Philippians 1:9
1) Love much & love well
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34. Loving Well
Philippians 1:9
1) Love much & love well
2) Love appropriately
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35. Loving Well
Philippians 1:9
1) Love much & love well
2) Love appropriately
3) Test our feelings
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36. Loving Well
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37. Loving Well
• A man who fears God deals with all
of reality (Ecclesiastes 7:18)
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38. Loving Well
• A man who fears God deals with all
of reality (Ecclesiastes 7:18)
• The practicality of love
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39. Loving Well
• A man who fears God deals with all
of reality (Ecclesiastes 7:18)
• The practicality of love
• Self-respect is a big part of what
gets you out of a sexual drama cycle
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40. Chapter 7 (continued):
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41. Chapter 7 (continued):
• Once you’re in a sexual drama cycle,
how to know when it’s time to get out
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