this will help u to self motivate..

1. By
BEVERLY ENGEL
PRESENTATION
BY
P. BHAVANA

2. TITLE : THE POWER OF APOLOGY
AUTHOR : BEVERLY ENGEL
COST : Rs.150
PAGES : 253
PUBLISHED BY :
JOHN WILEY & SONS ,Inc

3. • BEVERLY ENGEL has been a
psychotherapist for over 25 years.
• A recognized expert in the fields
of relationships, women’s issues
and abuse, she is the author of 14
books, including Loving Him
Without Losing You and The
Emotionally abusive Relationship
(both from Wiley).

4. What is APOLOGY??
• An APOLOGY is an expression of remorse for
something you have done wrong and occasionally
serves as a request for forgiveness, as well.
• Apologizing for a mistake might seem like an
impossible task but you can get through it by
swallowing your pride and putting your best foot
forward.

5. • Learning to give ,receive and ask for apologies is so
important.
• Apologizing is difficult to someone else n easy for
others.
 For many people accepting and receiving an apology is more
difficult than giving one.
 This is particularly true for many women.
To apologize is to set aside our pride long enough to
admit our imperfections.
Many people fear that if they take the risk of apologizing
they may be rejected.

6. A meaningful apology communicate the
three R’s :
 Regret ,
 Responsibility ,
 Remedy

8. • Remaining silent instead of asking for an
apology from those who have hurt you can cause
as many problems in relationships as not
apologizing when you have hurt someone.
• Learning to ask for an apology can be just as
important and just as difficult as learning how to
apologize.

9. • Heals your family when there has been an estrangement.
• Heals your marriage and romantic relationship.
• Heals your business relationships through respect and
compassion.
• Teaches your children well.