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CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE	

CIRCLE OF CONTROL
Brad Giles Evolution Partners
“Between stimulus
and response there is
a space.!

In that space is
our power to
choose our
response. !
In our response lies
our growth and
freedom”!
- Viktor Frankl!
Mans search for meaning

Image credit - theeshiva
Stimulus

Image credit - patdollard

Response
Our freedom
to choose our
response

Stimulus

Self awareness
Imagination

Image credit - patdollard

Response

Independent will
Conscience
STEPHEN COVEY

Image credit - Stephen Covey
Proactive people

Reactive people

•
•

•

Understand they are
response-able!
Don’t blame genetics,
circumstances or
conditions for their
behaviour

Affected by external
environment!

•

If the weather is good,
they feel good!

•

If the weather is bad it
affects their performance
and they blame the
weather
Proactive people

•

Use proactive language!

•

I can, I will, I prefer

Reactive people

•

Believe they are not
responsible for what
they say and do - they
have no choice
Our freedom
to choose our
response

Stimulus

Self awareness
Imagination

Response

Independent will
Conscience
PROACTIVE
PEOPLE
Don’t react to or worry about
conditions over which they
have little or no control. 	

!

Instead focus their energy on
things they can control.
Image credit - philippeperzi
HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE
Concern

Influence
HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE
Concern

The sex lives of celebrities
The news

Who will win	

the football
Where you live	

Where you work	

What you read	

What you buy

The economy

What other	

people	

think of you
The weather

Political views	

of others
Natural 	

disasters

Wars, weapons, 	

terrorist threats

Influence
HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE
Concern

The sex lives of celebrities
The news

Who will win	

the football
Where
you live	

Where you work	

What you read	

What you buy

The economy

Reactive 	

People 	

focus	

efforts 	

on circle 	

of concern

What other	

people	

think of you
The weather

Political views	

of others
Natural 	

disasters

Wars, weapons, 	

terrorist threats

Influence
HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE
Concern

The sex lives of celebrities
The news

Who will win	

the football
Where you live	

Where you work	

What you read	

What you buy

The economy

What other	

people	

think of you
The weather

Political views	

of others
Natural 	

disasters

Wars, weapons, 	

terrorist threats

Influence
HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE
The sex lives of celebrities

Concern
The news

Who will win	

the football

The economy

Proactive 	

People 	

focus	

efforts 	

 What other	

people	

on circle 	

 think of you
of influence

Where you live	

Where you work	

What you read	

What you buy

Political views	

of others

Influence

Natural 	

disasters

Wars, weapons, 	

terrorist threats
The weather
HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE
The sex lives of celebrities

Concern
Who will win	

the football

The economy

Problems	

at work

Places you 	

travel to

The news

What skills	

 Political views	

Where you live	

 you learn
of others
Your 	

 Where you work	

enthusiasm What you read	

What you buy
Children Natural 	

disasters

Influence

What other	

people	

think of you

Health

Your 	

attitude

The weather

Wars, weapons, 	

terrorist threats
HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE
Write your list 	

Concern
Footballer has
an injury

Co-worker speaks
bad about me
Exercise

Bad service at
a restaurant

Things my
boss says

Food I eat

Watching
TV

Customer
actions

Books I read

Influence

Bad Drivers

The way I respond to
what my partner says
Government
spending

Weather
Things my partner says

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Circle of influence circle of control

  • 1. CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE CIRCLE OF CONTROL Brad Giles Evolution Partners
  • 2. “Between stimulus and response there is a space.! In that space is our power to choose our response. ! In our response lies our growth and freedom”! - Viktor Frankl! Mans search for meaning Image credit - theeshiva
  • 3. Stimulus Image credit - patdollard Response
  • 4. Our freedom to choose our response Stimulus Self awareness Imagination Image credit - patdollard Response Independent will Conscience
  • 5. STEPHEN COVEY Image credit - Stephen Covey
  • 6. Proactive people Reactive people • • • Understand they are response-able! Don’t blame genetics, circumstances or conditions for their behaviour Affected by external environment! • If the weather is good, they feel good! • If the weather is bad it affects their performance and they blame the weather
  • 7. Proactive people • Use proactive language! • I can, I will, I prefer Reactive people • Believe they are not responsible for what they say and do - they have no choice
  • 8. Our freedom to choose our response Stimulus Self awareness Imagination Response Independent will Conscience
  • 9. PROACTIVE PEOPLE Don’t react to or worry about conditions over which they have little or no control. ! Instead focus their energy on things they can control. Image credit - philippeperzi
  • 10. HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE Concern Influence
  • 11. HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE Concern The sex lives of celebrities The news Who will win the football Where you live Where you work What you read What you buy The economy What other people think of you The weather Political views of others Natural disasters Wars, weapons, terrorist threats Influence
  • 12. HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE Concern The sex lives of celebrities The news Who will win the football Where you live Where you work What you read What you buy The economy Reactive People focus efforts on circle of concern What other people think of you The weather Political views of others Natural disasters Wars, weapons, terrorist threats Influence
  • 13. HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE Concern The sex lives of celebrities The news Who will win the football Where you live Where you work What you read What you buy The economy What other people think of you The weather Political views of others Natural disasters Wars, weapons, terrorist threats Influence
  • 14. HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE The sex lives of celebrities Concern The news Who will win the football The economy Proactive People focus efforts What other people on circle think of you of influence Where you live Where you work What you read What you buy Political views of others Influence Natural disasters Wars, weapons, terrorist threats The weather
  • 15. HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE The sex lives of celebrities Concern Who will win the football The economy Problems at work Places you travel to The news What skills Political views Where you live you learn of others Your Where you work enthusiasm What you read What you buy Children Natural disasters Influence What other people think of you Health Your attitude The weather Wars, weapons, terrorist threats
  • 16. HABIT 1 - BE PROACTIVE Write your list Concern Footballer has an injury Co-worker speaks bad about me Exercise Bad service at a restaurant Things my boss says Food I eat Watching TV Customer actions Books I read Influence Bad Drivers The way I respond to what my partner says Government spending Weather Things my partner says