14. Dear Betty,
Very best wishes for a Happy 90th birthday. When
I was a child I was sometimes miscalled Betty by
older people. I always felt so proud that someone
saw a resemblance.
Thank you for inviting me to your wedding. I think
I was about eleven and felt very important to be
included in that event.
Love, Carol
55. Happy Birthday Betty-
Congratulations on your 90th birthday. I think of you often,
especially when I am on Lake Shore Drive, rolling past
Hampton House on my way to see my father on the south
side. Here is what I remember about you--your ability to mix
elegance with thrift, your dry humor, your Scandinavian
resilience. I remember your excellent Siamese cat, following in
your wake, your grace, your compassion, and your ability to
silence ineptitude with a single glance. Most of all, I remember
your kindness to me. It was my pleasure to know you,
those years ago, and to call you mother-in-law. That was your
gift to me. I hope the gift of your birthday is extra special. You
deserve it. Thank you for being all that you are.
Warmly, Lisa
100. With niece, Beth Parker, and cousin, Jean Jackson, in Colorado, 1988
101. Dear Betty-
Sounds like you will be having a wonderful
birthday - I send you love and birthday
confetti (imaginary - I hate those cards that
explode all over). Have a fun-filled day and
I will talk to you soon.
Jean
112. “I had so
many great
dinners at this
table .”
Ann Martinez
MacDougal
113. Dear Betty,
I have always admired you – your beauty and elegance, your charm
and wit, your intelligence and highly-informed conversation. You
have been a role model for me in so many ways. I have tried to
emulate your fashion sense, your organization, your seamstress’ skills,
your creativity, and your fine cooking.
Once, when I was a teenager, I said that my mom had told me you
used to play Blue Moon on the piano. You scoffed. You said, “Oh that
was long ago. I don’t remember it now.” But you have always met a
challenge with determination and style. A little later that afternoon,
you called me upstairs to the living room. Without a word, you sat
down at the piano, and played, and sang, Blue Moon, with perfection.
Thank you. And Happy Birthday to you. We will see you soon.
Love, Ann
134. “Betty is a treasured member here. She is wise and shares her
wisdom judiciously, with a rare combination of utter frankness
and genuine respect. She is unfailingly constructive in times
of conflict, and delightfully engaged in times of celebration
and fun. She recently told me that her favorite day in our
church life is worship on Thanksgiving Sunday, which is a
kind benign pandemonium involving children, canned goods,
cash offerings, and music resulting in a huge offering
annually for St. Martin de Porres women's and children's
shelter. Her concern for issues of social justice is
sophisticated, more nuanced and more deeply committed than
many of her peers.”
Rev. Susan Johnson
Hyde Park Union Church