3. Can we have Success and Happiness without developing Interpersonal Relations and all other related skills ?
4. As we grow up, we improve our skills at communicating our wants and needs, our feelings and thoughts, with our family members, to begin with, and the rest of the world, over a period of time.
5. We also learn to interpret other people's wants and needs, feelings and thoughts, so that we are aware of how our behavior impacts on others.
6. We find that people with good interpersonal skills get along well, with people, and circumstances. They connect with other people effortlessly, they seem to know the right things to say and they generally succeed in whatever they do.
7. Interestingly, we find that interpersonal skills are one of those things that you'll only really notice when someone doesn't have them! And, understandably, if we are not good at these skills, it is the others who first notice it.
8. The good news is that It is possible for everyone of us to develop really effective interpersonal skills. The question is, are we aware of the need, and if so, are we interested and committed to improving our skills, continuously ?
9. A commitment to spend a little time working on improving your interpersonal skills will pay huge dividends, throughout your future life. Once again, the question is, are you ready, and if so, when are you going to begin ?
10. JOHARI WINDOW Is the tool for self-awareness, Personal development and Understanding relationship
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12. It is named after the first names of its inventors, Joseph Luft and Hary Ingham.
13. Joe Luft and Hary Ingham were researching Human Personality at the University of California in the 1950’s when they devised their Johari Window. Rather than measuring personality, the window offers a way of looking at how personality is expressed.
25. 4 Unknown Area [ I don’t know, you also don’t know. ] The Hermit Person (Turtle)
26. 3 Hidden Area [ I know, you don’t Know. ] The Pumper Person (Interviewer)
27. Blind Area [ I don’t know, You know ] 2 The Blabbermouth Person (Bull-in-China Shop)
28. 1 Open Area [ I know, you Know. ] Open Receptive Person (Ideal)
29. 4 Unknown Area [ I don’t know, you also don’t know. ] Example for new team member or member within a new team.
30. 1 Open Area [ I know, you Know. ] Established Team member
31. Two key ideas behind the tool Individuals can build trust between themselves by disclosing information about themselves They can learn about themselves and come to terms with personal issues with the help of feedback from others.
33. Application Generally used for teaching and understanding : How individuals communicate with themselves and with others? How individuals present themselves to themselves and to others? How individuals perceive their place in the world?
37. Strengths of Johari Window Easy to grasp, flexible outcomes. The method catalyses open information sharing. The method will create a shared reference point.
39. Limitations of Johari window Some things are perhaps better not communicated. (your sexual behavior, mental health problems or large scale failures) Some people may pass on the information they received further than you desire or use it in a negative way.
51. The more we understand Human Behavior in others and especially ourselves, the better equipped we are to manage our emotions as well as become more authentic to others. We are better armed to deal with differences , conflicts and problems.
52. The importance of learning about ourselves is critical to our success in the world. It is also critical to reach our goals, becoming independent , and building a bridge for the future We need to become more open , confident, and comfortable with who we are. Everyone is not out to get us, and in fact they may have good feedback for us if we are open to it.
