There are three stages of life. Stage one is childhood when people focus only on their desires and goals without fear of failure. Stage two begins when people start caring about how others judge their actions, focusing more on attention than outcomes. Most people remain in stage two their whole lives. Stage three is when people reject worrying about others' opinions and focus only on goals that are important to themselves, measuring success based on their own progress rather than others' views. Making the transition to stage three is difficult but allows for great achievement by combining curiosity and skills without restraints.