This is not for kissing feet or kissing butts (or for anything in between). A lover's kiss upon the lips is chiefly what I mean.

1. How to kiss Passionately This is not for kissing feet or kissing butts (or for anything in between). A lover's kiss upon the lips is chiefly what I mean.

2. Step 1: Once contact is made (we're well past the approach here) there must be softness there. Firmness is fine, but keep the teeth out of the way. And don't pucker like a cartoon bunny rabbit straining the lips and cramping the face.

3. Step 2 : Part the lips slightly and use the tip of the tongue to touch the lips of your lover as you gently kiss.

4. Step 3: Allow the tempo of both you and your lover's breathing to flow into the rhythm of your kissing. Enjoy the movements of the opening and closing of the lips and the gentle touching of the tongues.

5. Step 4: Allow more passion to increase the thump of your hearts and the brush of your lips. You needn't just kiss and kiss, but may break it up with a hot breath in the ear, but one more like a sigh than as a way to cool off a bowl of steaming soup. Just breathing in rhythm and enjoying the communion of love.

7. Tilt the head as is comfortable.

8. Nibble lightly on the lips and earlobes or stroke the hair as you like.

10. No slobbering.

11. No choking your lover with your whole tongue.

12. No licking the face.