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1. Beyond
the Grave
Northwest Association of Death Education and Bereavement Support
Portland, OR // July 11th, 2013
JED R. BRUBAKER
INFORMATICS // UC IRVINE
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6. memorializing the dead
obituaries present the deceased in a positive light
relative to contemporary norms
{ Hume, J. Obituaries in American Culture. 2000. }
“storying” the identity of the deceased enables
survivors to find meaning in loss
{ Harvey, J. H. et al. Embracing their memory. 2001. }
conflicting stories of the deceased can result in
“postmortem identity-contests”
{ Martin, D. D. Identity Management of the Dead. 2010. }
7. memorializing the dead (online)
{ Roberts, P. & Vidal, L. Perpetual care in
cyberspace. 2000.
Roberts, P. The living and the dead. 2004.
Roberts, P. & Schall, D. “Hey Dad, its me again…”
2005. }
8. Frequency of comments relative to date of death
“We will never forget you [online]”, Brubaker & Hayes, CSCW 2011
Death
9. Frequency of comments across the calendar year, pre vs. post-mortem
“We will never forget you [online]”, Brubaker & Hayes, CSCW 2011
10. Frequency of comments relative to deceased’s date of birth
“We will never forget you [online]”, Brubaker & Hayes, CSCW 2011
Birthday
11. post-mortem social
networking
SHARING
MEMORIES
POSTING UPDATES
MAINTAINING
CONNECTIONS
I remember in 8th grade, with Mrs. DeWerff's
science class. We had to do measurements on a
bicycle tire, and we couldn't figure it out... We
measured it 3 different ways... Needless to say-
we were wrong. Haha. :// Liz
i wish you could have met my baby nephew. he's
beautiful. i know you wanted to see him, but you
can see him now anytime you want from up
there! :// Rebecca
Hope everything is going well up there…
:// James
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12. expanding death into
the everyday
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spatial social temporal
{ Brubaker, Hayes & Dourish. Beyond the Grave: Facebook as a site for
the expansion of death and mourning. The Information Society, 2013. }
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[I]t would help us each know the Mike that the other
one knew. Like I know the high school Mike.
I would love to know what the college Mike was
like and the after college Mike was like.
:// Laura
I actually got to know her diving friends... Those
are people that I never had a chance to meet….
:// Nina
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But I think that after I let time go by, I would
shut down the Wall, even if people were irritated
by it... it’s just like after a certain point like death
isn’t public property anymore. You have to let it
just [be] with the family.
:// Catherine
Who ever is running Tony’s profile now… plz
NEVER delete it.
:// Post from MySpace
19. key thoughts
Social media is increasing exposure to
death and grief.
New types of “friends” results in new types
of loss.
Online profiles, networks, and digital
content present new challenges for the
bereaved
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20. practical strategies
Create a separate Facebook Group in
addition to the profile.
Often someone other than the next-of-kin is
better positioned to steward the profile.
Be careful. Many actions are
technologically irreversible.
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21. thanks.
Special thanks to my advisors and
collaborators: Gillian Hayes, Paul
Dourish, Geof Bowker, Melissa
Mazmanian, Funda Kivran-Swaine,
and Lee Taber.
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Notes de l'éditeur
Introduction
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----- Meeting Notes (1/7/13 14:11) -----While Facebook Reconnect launched this issue into popular attention -- even featured on NPR -- these kinds of interactions, it turns out, happen all over the internet, and ..
.. After talking about this.While if everyone used a form like this it would solve the “reconnect” “problem”, there are two issues here:First, who has the right to make this decision? To permanently alter that account.Second, the post-mortem practices have already developed… so regardless we need to be supporting individuals pm-sns practices.-- deleting the account is no longer an option.