7. When she cought the
first cookie, the man
cought one also.
She felt herself
infuriate but didn’t say
anything. She just
thought:
“What a nerve! If I was
in the mood I would
punch his eye not to
forget this daring!”
8. To each cokkie
she cought, the
man cought one
either.
That was letting
her infuriated
but she couldn’t
react.
9. When remained
only one cookie,
she thought:
“ah... What this
abused man will
do now?”
Then, the man,
divided the last
cookie in the
middle, giving
her the half.
10. Ah! That was too much!
She was too much angry!
Then, she caught her book, caught her things and
headed to the boarding place.
11. When she sat down
in an armchair,
inside the plane,
she looked into her
purse to catch her
eyeglasses, and, to
her surprise, her
packet of cookies
was there,
untouched, closed!
12. She felt so
much
ashamed!!
She realized
that she was
the wrong
one...
She had
forgotten
that her
cookies
were kept
into her
purse.
13. The man divided his
cookies with her,
wihtout feeling
infuriated, nervous
or mad...
14. ...while she was
been very mad,
thinking that he
was dividing her
cookies with him.
but there was no
more time to
explain herself...
Nor to
apologizes!”
23. THE FIRST ONE SAID:
”I AM PEACE !
HOWEVER, NOBODY CAN
KEEP ME LIT .
I BELIEVE I WILL GO OUT."
It’s flame rapidly diminishes and goes out completely.
24. THE SECOND ONE SAYS:
”I AM FAITH !
MOST OF ALL, I AM NO
LONGER INDISPENSABLE ,
SO IT DOESN’T MAKE ANY
SENSE THAT I STAY LIT ANY
LONGER ."
When it finished talking, a breeze softly blew on it putting it
out.
25. SADLY, THE THIRD CANDLE
SPOKE IN ITS TURN:
”I AM LOVE !
I HAVEN’T GOT THE STRENGTH TO
STAY LIT. PEOPLE PUT ME ASIDE
AND DON’T UNDERSTAND MY
IMPORTANCE. THEY EVEN
FORGET TO LOVE THOSE WHO
ARE NEAREST TO THEM ."
And waiting no longer it goes out.
26. SUDDENLY...
A CHILD ENTERS THE
ROOM AND SEES THREE
CANDLES NOT BURNING.
”WHY ARE YOU NOT
BURNING? YOU ARE
SUPPOSED TO STAY LIT
TILL THE END."
Saying this, the child begins to cry.
27. THEN THE FOURTH CANDLE
SAID:
”DON’T BE AFRAID, WHILE
I AM STILL BURNING WE CAN
RE-LIGHT THE OTHER
CANDLES,
I AM
HOPE !"
28. WITH SHINING EYES, THE CHILD
TOOK THE CANDLE OF HOPE
AND LIT THE OTHER CANDLES.
30. …and that each of
us can maintain
Hope, Faith,
Peace and
Love !!!!
POSITIVE ATTITUDE
31. Have a nice day...Have a nice day...
PEACE
FAITH
LOVE
HOPE
32. Attitude Is The Way You Communicate Your Mood
To Others. It Is The Way You Look At Things
Mentally.
Attitude Is The Readiness To Act.
Your Feelings ,Desires, Fears, Convictions, State
Of Readiness, External Environment All Combine
Together To Form Your Attitude.
85 % Of Interpersonal Problems Are Caused Due
To Negative Attitude Or Biased Attitude Towards
Others, Whether At Home Or At Work.
33. • Mental Postures
• Guide to Conduct
• Feelings and Fear
• Frame of Reference
• Predisposition of Behaviour
34. As far as 5000 years back, Kunti, while
blessing her eldest son, Yudhishtira,
gave the message
“ If you want to rule the state, you must
develop a new attitude. Let your heart be
big.
A little heart can’t run a great state”
35. CHANGING ATTITUDES
• Can be changed by Education
• Can be changed by Training
The following factors play important roles in inducing
change
• The Credibility of person trying to induce change
• The age of the person who's attitude is to be changed
• The cultural context in which the change is being induced
36. POSITIVE ATTITUDE
{ Life is "now"
{ Time to do what you want to do is now
{ Desire to achieve
{ Committment to achieve
{ Capacity to get along with others
{ Clarity in target/goals
39. Building Positive Attitude
•Look for goodness in people
•Build a positive Self Esteem
•Avoid Negative Influences
•Work on Continuous Self
Development
40. If you want and if you can’t - you haven’t
tried.
47. CHANGE
If you are not riding the wave
of change… you will find yourself
beneath it.
CHANGE
A bend in the road is not the end
of the road… unless you
fail to make the turn.
50. CHALLENGES
Anyone can hold the
helm when the sea is calm
OPPORTUNITY
There is an island of opportunity in
the middle of every difficulty.
RISK
You cannot discover new oceans unless
you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.
MOMENTUM
A little push in the right direction
can make a big difference.
52. Give people more than what they want, and
do it with all your heart.
Memorize your favorite poem.
Do not believe everything you hear, do not
spend all you have, and do not sleep for as long
as you wish.
Whenever you say “I love You”, mean it.
Whenever you say “I’m sorry”, look the
person right in the eyes.
53. •
Never ignore someone’s dreams.
Love deeply and passionately, you may
get hurt, but this is the only way to live life
completely.
Tackle any disagreements in a clean
manner, do not offend.
Never judge a person based on their
54. Whenever someone asks you something you
don’t want to answer, smile and ask “why do you
want to know”?
Remember that the deepest love and the
greatest achievements are the ones bearing the
most risk.
Call your mother. If you can’t, at least think of
her.
55. Remember the 3 R’s:
Respect yourself,
Respect everyone else
Responsible for all of your actions.
Do not allow a little dispute to put an end to a
great friendship.
Whenever you notice you’ve made a mistake, do
all what is necessary to fix it immediately.
Smile whenever you pick up the phone, for the
caller will be able to notice it.
Marry to a person that likes to chat,
for when your old age comes, chatting will be one
of the best qualities you can find in someone.
56. Spend sometime alone.
Embrace changes, but do not repudiate your
own values.
Remember that sometimes silence is the best
answer.
Read more books and watch less TV.
Lead a good and honest life. Like this, when
you are old and remember the past, you will see
how you can enjoy it all once again.
57. A good atmosphere in your home is
important.
Do whatever is possible to keep your home
peaceful and harmonious.
If you have a quarrel with someone close to
you, try to solve only the present issue.
Do not revolve the past.
58. Be gentle towards our Planet....
Do not block mother nature.
Keep yourself busy only with your
own matters.
At least once a year, visit somewhere
you have never been to.
If you make lots of money, do some
charity while alive. That’s the best reward
fortune can provide you with.
59. Remember that sometimes an under-
achievement is good luck.
Learn well all the rules, so as to know
how to break them in the proper manner.
Remember: the best relationship is the
one where the love of one for another
matters more than the need to be with
each other.
Judge your level of success from what
