3. 1. Attraction Proximity Effect : the more we meet and interact with people, the more likely we are to become friends with them. Reciprocal Liking : knowing someone likes us fuels our attraction and can even make up for the absence of similarity Similarity : Birds of a feather flock together Opposites attract
5. Men tend to go for youth and attractiveness (signs of fertility) Women tend to go for men of status and wealth (resources for offspring); physical attractiveness weighs less The more economic power a woman has,the more that physical attractiveness becomes important
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7. 2. Relationships Secure Attachment Style : maintain high levels of commitment, satisfaction, and trust, and low levels of cost over time Handbook of Interpersonal Commitment and Relationship Stability by Jeffery M. Adams, Warren H. Jones, 1999, (114) Avoidant Attachment Style : have high thresholds for falling in love and making commitments; even when they are in a romantic relationship, they tend to maintain a distance Anxious Attachment Style : have a low threshold for creating romantic relationships and making commitments; appear to form emotional bonds very quickly
8. Handbook of Interpersonal Commitment and Relationship Stability by Jeffrey M. Adams, Warren H. Jones, 1999, (114).
9. Cultures practicing arranged marriages (usually collectivist societies) tend to have family-based marriages. Western cultures tend to focus more on the individual and the pursuit of romantic love. Arranged Marriages
13. -A mutual breakup is the best for both people. One person ending it on his/her own causes the breakee more pain than if it had ended mutually. Social Psychology, Sixth Edition by Elliot Aronson, Timothy D. Wilson; Robin M. Akert, 2006 (339). - Breaking up is hardly ever as bad as we imagine it will be. - Even people coming out of long marriages usually recover and find something positive about their experience within 2 years. http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/08/070820123608.htm “ We always believe our first love is our last, and our last love our first.” -- George John Whyte-Melville -Those with an anxious attachment style are most likely to repetitively break up and get back together with their partners.
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15. How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? -- Albert Einstein