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Personal growth
1. BE PROACTIVE
I A M T H E F O R C E
Personal Growth and Development
2. Introduction
Teenagers are the product of their environment,
upbringing, and choices. Are their choices proactive
or reactive? They need to choose how they act. They
need to take responsibility
for their choices
and their life.
3. Reactive
Sometimes things go wrong, and we
feel shaken up. As a result, we might
EXPLODE on someone or something.
This is called being REACTIVE. Has
this ever happened to you? Explain
what happened and why. Was this a
good way to let go of all of your
feelings? Why or why not?
4. Proactive
When you are
PROACTIVE, you make a
choice about how you react to
the things that happen in your
life. You act like a water bottle.
You might get shaken up or
mad, but you stay calm and
don’t explode!
5. Listen to Your Language
Reactive language
I’ll try
That’s just the way I am
There’s nothing I can do
I have to
Proactive language
I’ll do it
I can do better than that
Let’s look at all our option
I choose to
6. The Victimitis Virus
Reactive people
Are easily offended
Blame other
Get angry
Proactive people
Are not easily offended
Take responsibility for
choices
Think before they act
7. What We Can and Cannot Control
CIRCLE OF NO
CONTROL
Birthplace
Weather
Parents
What other
people say
and do
CIRCLE OF
CONTROL
Ourselves Attitudes
Choices &
Responses
• We cannot control
EVERYTHING that
happens to us
• One thing we can
control…how we
respond to what
happens to us!!!
8. Turning Setbacks Into Triumphs
Life often deals us a bad hand and it is up to us to
control how we respond. Every time we have a setback,
it’s an opportunity for us to turn into a triumph.
9. Can-Do
• Being PROACTIVE really means two things—
1. You take responsibility for your life
2. You have a “can-do” attitude
Take initiative
to make it
happen
Think about
solutions and
options
Act
Wait for
something
to happen to
them
Think about
problems and
barriers
Are acted
upon
Can-Do
Non-
Can-Do
10. Just Push Pause
• When someone is rude to you, where do you get the
power to resist being rude back?
• Suggestion…JUST HIT PAUSE!!!
• Sometimes life moves so fast that we
INSTANTLY react to everything out of shear
habit
• Learn to pause-you will make smarter
decisions
11. Power Tools
• SELF-AWARENESS: I can stand apart from
myself and observe my thoughts and actions
• CONSCIENCE: I can listen to my inner voice to
know right from wrong (the one we tend to ignore)
• IMAGINATION: I can envision new
possibilities
• WILLPOWER: I have the power to choose
12. Conclusion
Be Proactive with your study
Be Proactive with physical health
Be Proactive with mental health
Be Proactive with your time
Be Proactive with work
Be Proactive with words
Be Proactive with friends
Be always ready for everything you do!!!
18. BEGIN WITH THE END IN
MINDC O N T R O L Y O U R O W N D E S T I N Y O R S O M E O N E E L S E W I L L
Instructor: Dr. Kol Pheng
Personal Growth and Development
19. Begin with the End in Mind
Control your own destiny
Or it means developing a clear picture of where you
want to go with your life.
Or it means deciding what your values are and setting
goals.
Is a powerful way to help turn your dreams in to
realities ,so you should set your own blueprint before
doing something all the time
20. The Crossroads of Life
What about friends?
Take your choice friends that need to be accepted and
be part of a group is powerful.
Wrong group of friends: it lead you down all kinds of
paths you really don’t want to be on.
Right group of friends : lead you go on the right way.
21. The Crossroads of Life
What about Sex?
We are free to choose our paths, but we can’t choose the
consequences that come with them.
The path you chose will affect your health, your reputation,
your future children, and so much more.
22. Who’s in the lead?
Make you own decision don’t led someone else will do
it for you, and you have to control your own destiny.
Don’t have in the moment part: Look for ahead or future.
23. A Personal Mission Statement ( PMS)
A Personal Mission Statement ( PMS)
Is like a personal credo or motto that motivate yourself what
your life is about, it is like the blueprint
You should write your PMS and read it every day to inspire
yourself.
24. Three things to watch for
Negative Labels
“it’s all over” syndrome
Wrong direction
25. GO FOR THE GOAL
Go for the goal
If you have mission, then you set goals
Key to set goals
Count the cost
Put it in pen
Just do it
Use momentous moment
Rape up
26. Conclusion
Develop a clear picture of where you want to
go in your life.
Help to think beyond today and take charge of
your life.
Set reachable goals.
Believe in yourself and your faith, you can
accomplish anything you desire.
Avoid the Law of Self-Fulfilling Prophecy.
27. Conclusion
Never loose sight of these goals.
Strive each day to reach interdependence.
Have a confidence in yourself and everyone else
around you.
Read your goals daily.
You are the master of your own destiny.