The document discusses the concept of "life games" in transactional analysis, specifically the games of "Try and Get Away with It" (TAGAWI) and "Try and Change" (TAC). It describes how TAGAWI players readily recognize each other and how both TAGAWI and TAC players are professionals who have methods for getting around prompt payment or honesty from their opponents. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy as an overview of transactional analysis concepts related to creditor and debtor relationships and life games.
2. Prepared By
Manu Melwin Joy
Assistant Professor
Ilahia School of Management Studies
Kerala, India.
Phone – 9744551114
Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
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3. Life Games
• All games have an
important and probably
decisive influence on the
destinies of the players
under ordinary social
conditions.
• But some offer more
opportunities than others
for life long careers and
are more likely to involve
relatively innocent
bystanders.
• This group may be
conveniently called Life
Games.
4. Debtor
• Creditor is a form of “ Try
and Get away with it”
(TAGAWI), is sometimes
played by small landlords.
• TAC and TAGAWI players
readily recognize each other
and because of the
prospective transactional
advantages become involved
with each other.
5. Debtor
• Regardless of who wins
the money, each has
improved the other’s
position for playing
“Why does this always
happens to me?” after
it is all over.
6. Debtor
• The obvious antithesis for
TAC is to request
immediate payment of
cash.
• But a good TAC player has
methods for getting
around that, which will
work on any but the most
hard boiled creditors.
7. Debtor
• The antithesis for TAGAWI
is promptness and
honesty.
• Since both TAC and
TAGAWI players are both
professionals in every
sense of the word, an
amateur has very little
chance of winning.