9. Couples that practice BDSM are usually more honest with each other and more trusting of one another than in the average relationship.
10. Sex is not a difficult topic to discuss for these couples due to the amount of open and honest communication they must have in order to play safely and effectively.
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12. The trust you have in your partner and the trust your partner knows you have in him/her is an absolute turn on.
13. You know your partner will give you absolute pleasure and your partner knows that he/she has been given this power.
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15. For easier understanding: a dominant is the person in control. The submissive is the bottom or the one that has given him/her self to the dominant.
16. Most people have tied their partner up in one way or another and have sexually pleasured them.
19. Many couples have started using no restraining devices whatsoever. All the submissive has to do is put their hands in whatever position is decided upon
20. If you’d like to dive right into handcuffs, my recommendation would not be the metal ones at all, but soft ones.
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22. This type of play can include spanking and whipping or just providing different types of sensational stimulation.
23. A great way to start - restrain your partner and touch and massage your lover.
28. When you do touch your lover, he/she is going to go through the roof!
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30. Don’t completely trust or with someone you have not discussed your expectations and boundaries with first.
31. Never surrender yourself in this situation, unless you can release yourself easily and get out of the situation without the assistance of someone else.