9. myths about counseling
it is the same as advice giving
grilling for information…
you go to the counselor when you are ‘in
trouble’
helP for PeoPle with really major Problems
a crutch for PeoPle who are just too weak to
handle life.
something for crazy PeoPle
10. what is counseling?
is a helPing Process which takes Place
in an
atmosPhere of accePtance, resPect
and trust.
is confidential and non judgmental.
PurPose of counseling is to helP
students recognize their strengths and
to make them indePendent in Problem
solving.
12. what does counseling involve?
the counselor listens to the students
exPerience and feelings with emPathy
the counselor equalizes the relationshiP
and both counselor and student try to
find shared meaning and PersPective
both Parties arrive at
a focus for change
and work towards it.
13. confidentiality
done or communicated in confidence.
counselors are firmly committed to the code of
confidentiality.
limits of confidentiality.
communicated to the students in the beginning.
14. school counselor
Professional member of an
educational team.
assists students in acquiring and
using life-long skills through the
develoPment of academic, self-
awareness and interPersonal
communication skills.
Proactive and Preventive in focus.
goal is to Provide all students with
life success skills.
15.
16. counseling can helP with……
managing anxiety relaxation training
coPing with and reducing resolution of Personal
stress issues
adjusting to loss (death, eating concerns
relationshiPs, job) drug/alcohol issues
increasing self- self-esteem
understanding academic concerns (text
making difficult decisions anxiety, study skills)
and clarifying choices imProving communication
social skills (with Parents, faculty,
conflict resolution friends, roommates)
anger management coPing with incidents or
assertive training trauma
17. when to refer a student?
consider
referring a
student, if a
student:
exPresses concerns
over a Personal
issue (i.e.
relationshiPs,
addiction, family
difficulties)
18. consider referring a
student if a student:
seems excessively,
anxious,dePressed,
irritable,withdrawn,
angry or sad.
19. consider referring a
student if a student:
you notice significant
changes in a student’s
aPPearance or habits
(i.e. deterioration in
grooming, hygiene,
weight loss, change in
activity or sPeech
Patterns, or changes in
academic Performance)
20. counselors see the students thru’ the following
channels :-
reference from teachers, form
tutors, head of Pastoral care,
PrinciPals or resident Parents
direct observation of student in
a community or during the Pulse relevant feedback
classes. is given
to the concerned
student “walking-in” to the
Persons
counseling room, for counseling
or just a chat.
crisis intervention: e.g., threatening
suicide, self-mutilation, severe
anger outburst, violence.
21. counseling center services
individual counseling
grouP counseling
crisis intervention
teacher suPPort
P.u.l.s.e. Program
referral to services