2. OUR GOAL IS NOT TO
ELIMINATE STRESS,
BUT TO LEARN HOW
TO MANAGE IT AND
HOW TO USE IT TO
HELP US !
3. WHAT IS STRESS?
Stress is your mind and body’s response or
reaction to a real or imagined threat,
event or change.
The threat, event or change are commonly
called stressors. Stressors can be
internal (thoughts, beliefs, attitudes or
external (loss, tragedy, change).
4. STRESS: WHAT IS IT?
Although we all talk about stress, it often isn’t
clear what stress is really about.
Many people consider stress to be something
that happens to them, as a negative event such
as an injury or a job loss. Others think that
stress is what happens to our body, mind, and
behavior in response to an event (E.g. heart
thumping, anxiety, or nail biting).
7. EUSTRESS
Eustress or positive stress occurs
when your level of stress is high
enough to motivate you to move into
action to get things accomplished.
8. DISTRESS
Distress or negative stress occurs
when your level of stress is either too
high or too low and your body and/or
mind begin to respond negatively.
10. ALARM STAGE
As you begin to experience a stressful
event or perceive something to be
stressful psychological changes occur
in your body. This experience or
perception disrupts your body’s
normal balance.
11. EXAMPLES
Cardiac - increased heart rate
Respiratory - increased respiration
Skin - decreased temperature
Hormonal - increased stimulation
of adrenal genes which produce an
adrenal rush.
12. RESISTANCE STAGE
During this stage your body tries to cope or
adapt to the threat, event or change by
beginning a process of repairing any damage
caused. Your friends, family or co-workers
may notice changes in you before you do so
it is important to examine their feedback
to make sure you do not reach overload.
13. EXAMPLES
Behavior indicators include: lack of
enthusiasm for family, school, work or
life in general, withdrawal, change in
eating habits, insomnia, hypersomnia,
anger, fatigue.
Cognitive Indicators include: poor
problem solving, confusion, nightmares,
hyper-vigilance.
18. WHAT MAKES YOU STRESSED.
The only thing constant in life is change. The
moment you adjust yourself to the changed
environment, another change rolls in.
New bosses or colleagues, promotions, new
offices, New residence, new policies,
directions or procedures can cause the
stress to rise.
20. INTELLECTUAL PROBLEMS.
Memory problems.
Difficulty making decisions.
Inability to concentrate.
Confusion.
Seeing only the negative.
Repetitive or racing thoughts.
Poor judgment.
Loss of objectivity.
Desire to escape or run away….
21. PHYSICAL SIGNS OF STRESS
Increased Heart Beat.
Tightened Muscles.
Fatigue.
Sleeplessness.
Stomach or bowel upset.
Sweating.
Change in eating habits.
Restlessness.
Body Aches.
24. MENTAL TECHNIQUES
There are few mental techniques which can
help to over come from Stress.
Manage time
Give priority to the most important tasks
and do those first
Schedule time for both work and
recreation
Delegate tasks and break up big projects ,,,
26. COMMON EXTERNAL CAUSES
OF STRESS
Major life changes
Work or school
Relationship difficulties
Financial problems
Being too busy
Children and family
27. COMMON INTERNAL CAUSES
OF STRESS
Chronic worry
Pessimism
Negative self-talk
Unrealistic expectations/ Perfectionism
Rigid thinking, lack of flexibility
All-or-nothing attitude
28. WHAT ACTIVITIES CAN HELP
RELIEVE STRESS?
Here are some examples of activities that can help to refresh the
body and mind.
Taking baths
Reading
Doing breathing exercises
Receiving back rubs/massages
Listening to relaxation tapes
Writing in a journal
Meeting with a friend
Napping
Walking
Dancing
Engaging in spiritual reflection
Stretching
Listening to music
A smile says
the same
thing in any
language.
29. STRESS MANAGEMENT
Healthy living to conquer stress
• take sufficient rest
• exercise/yoga
• talk to people/friend
• organise your life
• manage your anger
• be flexible
• take charge of your life
• do things which you love to do
• overcome ego/jealousy
30. HOW TO MANAGE JOB STRESS
1. Recognize warning signs of
excessive stress at work
35. THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS TO DEAL
WITH STRESS…
Take a walk by the ocean
Listen to a favorite song at high
volume
Drink a hot cup of tea
Find a quiet place
Go on a drive through the country
Write a friend a note or letter
Go see a fun, uplifting movie
Go visit with a favorite relative
Read a good book
Get a massage
Jump on a trampoline
Take a thirty minute nap
Take a LONG, hot bath
Volunteer some time for a good
cause
Go for a sailboat ride
Get your hair cut and styled
Visit the local zoo or botanical
gardens
Have a game night with family or
friends
Eat a picnic outside
Do some bird watching
Take a walk in the rain
Learn to play a musical instrument
Go horseback riding
Get a pet
Take an art class
Go to a hands on craft store
Find some time and a place to just
be alone
Write in a journal
Bake some bread or some cookies
Have a good, long laugh
Take time off from work
36. OTHER HEALTHY WAYS TO
RELAX AND RECHARGE
SPEND TIME IN NATURE.
CALL A GOOD FRIEND.
SWEAT OUT TENSION WITH A GOOD
WORKOUT.
WRITE IN YOUR JOURNAL.
TAKE A LONG BATH.
LIGHT SCENTED CANDLES
SAVOR A WARM CUP OF COFFEE OR TEA.
PLAY WITH A PET.
WORK IN YOUR GARDEN.
GET A MASSAGE.
CURL UP WITH A GOOD BOOK.
LISTEN TO MUSIC.
WATCH A COMEDY
39. LATE FOR APPOINTMENT BECAUSE OF
TRAFFIC…
Response
-Became angry with other
drivers
Changing it
-Allow more time to get
there
Adapting to it
-The traffic delay is not
your fault. It’s not the end
of the world
Avoiding it
-Can’t be avoided. Stop and
notify the doctor if possible
40. FAMILY MEMBERS WERE ARGUING
WITH ONE ANOTHER…
Response
-Got mad at relatives. Felt
lack of control.
Changing it
-Tell them how much this
upsets you. Help them work it
out.
Adapting to it
-This is not my problem.
Avoiding it
-Leave room and do something
else for a while.
41. PAYING BILLS…
Response
-Felt overwhelmed.
Changing it
-Get an extension on your
bills.
Adapting to it
-A day late won’t be a big
deal. Don’t put it off for
too long though.
Avoiding it
-Sign up for automatic
bill paying. Get help with
it.