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Communicating Beyond Words: The Power of Nonverbal Cues
1. Non verbal
communication
• is the message or response not expressed
or sent in words - hints , suggestions ,
indications.
• Most of the expressions are non verbal
• it is the most basic part of our personality.
• NVC is the unspoken communication that
goes on in every Face-to-Face encounter
with another human being.
2. Non verbal
communication
• It is recognized as the route to discover what the
other side wants, without them ever saying it, like
a secret way into their soul.
• It expresses beyond words
• NVC stands for the innermost, instinctual form of
human communication.
• Communication researcher found that only 7% of
a message’s effect are carried by words ;
listeners receive the other 93% through non -
verbal means.
4. Functions of NVC
• To regulate the flow of information
• To express emotions.
• To control or influence others.
• To qualify, compliment,contradict or
expand verbal messages.
• to provide information
6. Paralinguistics
It is a form of language in which
meaning is conveyed through
variations in speech qualities such as:
• loudness
• pitch
• rate
• hesitations
7. Kinesics or body language
the use of :
• gestures
• facial expressions
• eye movements
• body postures
• In communicating emotions
8. Two types of body
language
Open / Closed
• People with arms folded and legs
crossed and bodies turned away are
signaling that they are rejecting
messages.
• People showing open hands, fully
facing you and both feet planted on
the ground are accepting them.
9. Types cont…
Forward / Back
• When people are leaning forward and
pointing towards you they are actively
accepting or rejecting the message.
• When they are leaning back, looking up at
the ceiling, doodling on a pad, cleaning
their glasses they are either passively
absorbing or ignoring it.
10. Haptics
the use of touch in communicating, as
in:
• a handshake
• a pat on the back
• an arm around the shoulder
• a hug, etc.
12. Iconics
the use of physical objects or office
designs to communicate status or
culture such as:
• display of trophies
• diplomas
• pictures with important people, etc.
13. Dress
communicating values and expectations
through clothing and other
dimensions of physical appearance :
• Formally dressed
• Informally dressed
• Party wear
14. Ways to improve non verbal
comm.…
It is not only what you say is important, but
it's how you say it that can make the
difference.
• Eye contact
• Facial expression
• Gestures
• Body orientation
• Humor
15. Effective NVC
The use of nonverbal cues is affected by
variables such as gender and culture.
• Culture is the collective programming of
the mind, which distinguishes the members
of one human group from another .
• The different expectations affect the way
they understand others.
16. One should consider following point
• The distance of relation ship
• Cultural differences and its nuances
• Situations-What ,when ,to whom
• Gender
• Hierarchy
17. Some culture specific
NVC
– Rules regarding standing and position distance
– Face-on for Arabs
– 45 degree angle for Anglo-Saxons
– Side-to-side for Chinese
– Smiling in Japan is strongly associated with nervousness, social
discomfort, or sorrow
– In Buddhist Thailand never cross legs
– The sole of the foot is the furthest part from heaven and the
least sacred. To show the bottom of the foot to someone is to
show disrespect
– In Asian and Middle-eastern cultures it is appropriate for the
same sex to walk hand in hand but not the opposite sex
18.
19. One should observe
Eye Contact
-Eye is a passage to ones soul
When and how to make eye contact
• Eye contact,- it displays interest and
understanding between the speaker and listener.
• Rolling eyes can be a sign of annoyance
• Follow culture specific eye contact pattern
Europe- To continue a conversation
India – May hamper conversation (Male-Female)
-talking to elders eye contact is avoided
20. Body Orientation
• People can read your emotions through
posture
• Someone who has excellent posture is also
thought to have excellent power
• Those who walk quickly and freely may be
goal oriented; while those who walk with
their heads down and hands in their pocket
may not be so motivated
22. Gestures
Actions speak louder than words
Following gestures have different connotation
• Placing a hand on chin -contemplation
• Wringing hands -sign of stress and tension
• crossing your arms over your chest -defensive,
although it could simply signal coldness.
Raising middle fingers
• Europe – Humiliation