6 Significant Ways To Improve Your Marriage

6 Significant Ways To Improve
Your Marriage

6 Significant Ways To Improve Your Marriage

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Believe it. You, yourself can greatly improve your marriage. How? By changing your way of
thinking and interacting, your marriage will improve greatly and will be exciting for you and
your partner.

You are not alone. Everyone is capable of making mistakes and being married is not easy for
anyone. Looking after one’s own desires can lead into several problems in a marriage. Without
even your partner knows, you may start to work on your marriage by yourself.

Here are some tips to follow in order to improve your marriage:

1. Practice Kindness

Don’t think this is easy. It is actually lot harder than you might think. After being in a married
life for a while, it is very easy to settle with a day to day routine. You can easily forget the things
that make your spouse happy.

You may respond to your spouse with quick answers rather than enjoy talking with him/her.
The end result will be a spouse who got hurt, betrayed, and angry. When you just came from
work with a bad mood, it is easy to be rude to your spouse.

It’s true that you need to leave your personal problems at home when you go to office. I stress
another thing. If you have a bad day, just don’t take it home with you. Your spouse is nothing to
do with the problem you have in your office or outside of your relationship. Treat them with
kind words and actions.

Don’t make them feel less important. Watch your words carefully. You can retrieve anything
back, but not words. Always look for ways to help and serve your partner. If you notice they are
not their usual, ask them frankly what is bothering them. Don’t just assume that your partner is
upset because of you. They might have a rough day or stressed about something outside of the
relationship. Very often, we take good things for granted and focus only on the bad stuff.

Never, take anything for granted, including your spouse.



2. Gain Self Confidence

Being confident is very important factor that contributes to your marriage. If you are highly
confident and have a strong personality, never use it to manipulate or control your partner. You
completely accept your partner for who they are and find ways to increase their self
confidence.

By constantly criticized and ignoring your partner’s feeling will eventually lead to loss of their
individual worth and to become depressed and hopeless. If you lack the Self Confidence, you
should find ways to improve it before you do that to your spouse.

Always trust your ability to make decisions. Never feel small because you have some things that
didn’t go the way you expected in the past. If you have problem at work or didn’t get the
promotion that you expected, find ways to work smarter or leave to another company where
your strength is recognized. Never dwell on why you didn’t get that promotion.

If you feel that you lack Self Confidence, talk to your spouse for support and advice. They will
appreciate your honestly and openness and they will support you. It will increase their love for
you. The point I am trying to make here is, talk to your partner as you will talk to your friend.

Find out all the positive aspects of yourself, list them in a journal and keep reading it each day.
The increase in your Self Confidence will be automatically conveyed to your partner, and the
result will be a happy and healthy marriage in the making.

3. Be Realistic

It is easy to get emotional when confronted with some issues. When people get upset, the
reaction will be a quick emotional response. Before reacting, take some time to think.

It is not best to resolve problems with your partner when you are reacting purely out of
emotion. If you find the argument put against you by your partner is unreasonable, just ask
yourself, “Is it worth picking the fight for it?”

You don’t need to say everything that you are thinking. Let’s say, your wife is trying to make a
good meal for you, but unintentionally added a bit of salt more. When she asks you about the



meal, don’t be rude by saying that she used too much of salt. Instead, say it politely that you
prefer less salt and otherwise, the meal is very nice. Add something that will make her happy.
Remember, compliments are free.

My point is, avoid making it as an issue that doesn’t need to be added to your list of issues to be
addressed. In reality, it is not.

Pay attention to what you say to your partner. Your words and actions can have huge impact on
your partner. It is easy to be proactive rather reactive. Almost over 90% of the time, we say
things to our partner that we would regret later. So, why we have to say it in the first place?

Look for alternative way to handle any situation without argument, name calling or pointing
fingers. Learn from your past events, disagreements and the end-results. With that knowledge,
always try to be a better person with less emotion and with improved reactions.

4. Listen, Really Listen

You may have heard it before that communication is so important to any relationship. But many
people confused with talking and communicating.

Use this technique next time when you converse with your partner. Repeat few of the key
points that they have mentioned in the conversation. This will help them to know that you
understand what they are talking about. Do not be so mechanic with this process. Really listen
and repeat.

Show them that they have your full attention by keeping constant eye contact, nodding and
smiling.

Make sure that you do not have any distraction around you like TV or screaming kids. This will
take away your attention easily and sent a message to your partner that “you are not listening”.

It is easy for Men to interrupt the conversation before the spouse finishing it. Let her tal k and
don’t offer any opinion of yours unless your wife asks for it. In order to build an open
relationship, learn to listen and your partner will listen to you back.



5. Never Hold Back of the Past

Remember, there is no “Perfect Marriage”. The “Happily Ever After” is just real as a tooth fairy.
However, the Happiness in Marriage is a real thing. What is the difference? Besides Happiness,
you may experience some bumps along the way.

Mistakes are inevitable by both parties. Practice forgiveness and never hold back anything that
happened in the past.

Never control your thought. Rather, watch your thought and apply caution when you talk
something that might trigger your spouse. It is no different than talking to a friend, use words
that are neutral without offending them.

After you resolved the situation, never bring it up again. It simply doesn’t make any sense to
bring the old stuff again to the present moment and fight over and over ag ain.

6. Physical Affection

We respond to emotional and physical needs naturally. It is important to feel love and be
accepted by our partner.

Intimacy and the romance fade away quickly after being pressured by the daily routines and
mundane tasks.

Never forget that your partner has needs. Touch is magical. Touch your partner often by
stroking their back, neck and arms. Hold their hand, put your arm around them when walking
or standing, kiss them and hug them.

All your actions should not always lead to sex. The point is here, a touch should show your
partner that you care about them. Non-sexual way of touching is very important for a healthy
marriage.

Women expect their spouse to be loyal and faithful to them. But they need to understand that
a man will be faithful when he feels the love from his spouse in a physical manner. Women can
forget those needs of their husband as they caught up with other things. Always give it without
any expectation, and you will receive it back beyond your imagination.



Why stop being intimate with your partner? A hug or kiss when they come home after a long
day, stroke their hair when you both are sitting in the couch, and be creative. Make your
partner feel your love.

The foundation for happy marriage is faith and love. By start working on yourself, you can
greatly improve your marriage. By putting your partner first in your life, you will learn to be a
better person overcoming selfishness. I sincerely hope that above tips helps you to improve
your married life that is filled with happiness.

Try it and share your thoughts.

Also Share this report to your Friends and Family. They will thank you.

About Author

Silviya Love writes about Improving Marriages and Relationships at her blog.

Her new book is 3 Steps to Improve Your Marriage. It contains numerous ideas to bring the
happiness back to the marriage.

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