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Naysayers to Yaysayers
how to create champions for innovative ideas
Show me a
 successful
 innovator
  and I will
 show you
  someone
   who has
      lived
   through
rejection…
…emotional
ups and downs…
…and the
disappointment of
    being ignored.
© iStockphoto.com / Florea Marius Catalin
                                                                                                         Glowing images
                                                                                                         associated with
                                                                                                              innovation
iStockphoto.com / © starfotograf




                                                                                                              convey the
                                                                                                         impression that
                                                                                                             the process
                                                                                                                 unfolds
iStockphoto.com / © Trista Weibell




                                                                                                             painlessly...

                                                                                 iStockphoto.com / © Izabela Habur
© iStockphoto.com / © Rob Friedman
…but the reality of implementation can be
                          quite different.
On the road to
implementation
 there will likely
    be resisters.
5
 Here are tips
for transforming
           these
      NAYSAYERS
             into
      YAYSAYERS.
1.

            Recognize that resistance is natural.

Throughout history, even the best ideas
have encountered opposition. Proposed
changes to the status quo will likely be
dismissed or ridiculed by someone; such
reactions probably say more about the
naysayer than the value of your idea.
2.
            Resisters can be part of the solution.

Naysayers can contribute to a better solution
if they have an opportunity to understand
your challenges and develop a personal stake
in the outcome. Support for an idea will take
on a “life of its own” if these new champions
extend their influence to help your cause.
3.
                  Frame your pitch in their terms.

Lesson from Negotiation 101: always find
a way to express your idea as something
that is in their interest. Also, research
indicates that decision makers typically seek
to avoid loss, so highlight the consequences
of saying no in their terms.
4.
                     Work though the resistance;
                             don’t try to fight it.

It’s important to see the transformation
of naysayers as a digestive process,
rather a force-feeding event. This means
developing trust and understanding over
a period of time, instead of relying on
one airtight case to gain support.
 You   may be here.
                                                 5.
                              Expect ups and downs.

Instead of being surprised and daunted
by this naturally bumpy process, it’s
helpful to remember that non-linear
progress is normal. A mental “You are
here” image is a realistic way to deal with
temporary setbacks on this journey.
A Final Note:
In daily practice, we often
observe staunch naysayers
begin to champion ideas that
they initially rejected.
What seems to shift their
opinion is a spirit of shared
learning and co-evolution.
This approach to building
mutual trust is more effective
than pushing unilateral
arguments aimed at buy-in.

          Sharon VanderKaay
 Farrow Partnership Architects
  www.farrowpartnership.com

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Naysayers to Yaysayers

  • 1. Naysayers to Yaysayers how to create champions for innovative ideas
  • 2. Show me a successful innovator and I will show you someone who has lived through rejection…
  • 5. © iStockphoto.com / Florea Marius Catalin Glowing images associated with innovation iStockphoto.com / © starfotograf convey the impression that the process unfolds iStockphoto.com / © Trista Weibell painlessly... iStockphoto.com / © Izabela Habur
  • 6. © iStockphoto.com / © Rob Friedman …but the reality of implementation can be quite different.
  • 7. On the road to implementation there will likely be resisters.
  • 8. 5 Here are tips for transforming these NAYSAYERS into YAYSAYERS.
  • 9. 1. Recognize that resistance is natural. Throughout history, even the best ideas have encountered opposition. Proposed changes to the status quo will likely be dismissed or ridiculed by someone; such reactions probably say more about the naysayer than the value of your idea.
  • 10. 2. Resisters can be part of the solution. Naysayers can contribute to a better solution if they have an opportunity to understand your challenges and develop a personal stake in the outcome. Support for an idea will take on a “life of its own” if these new champions extend their influence to help your cause.
  • 11. 3. Frame your pitch in their terms. Lesson from Negotiation 101: always find a way to express your idea as something that is in their interest. Also, research indicates that decision makers typically seek to avoid loss, so highlight the consequences of saying no in their terms.
  • 12. 4. Work though the resistance; don’t try to fight it. It’s important to see the transformation of naysayers as a digestive process, rather a force-feeding event. This means developing trust and understanding over a period of time, instead of relying on one airtight case to gain support.
  • 13.  You may be here. 5. Expect ups and downs. Instead of being surprised and daunted by this naturally bumpy process, it’s helpful to remember that non-linear progress is normal. A mental “You are here” image is a realistic way to deal with temporary setbacks on this journey.
  • 14. A Final Note: In daily practice, we often observe staunch naysayers begin to champion ideas that they initially rejected. What seems to shift their opinion is a spirit of shared learning and co-evolution. This approach to building mutual trust is more effective than pushing unilateral arguments aimed at buy-in. Sharon VanderKaay Farrow Partnership Architects www.farrowpartnership.com