2. How do the following items fit in terms of your life:

3. College

4. Attitude towards life

5. Try out for sports

6. Types of friends

7. Gang activity

8. Who will you date

9. Sex before marriage

10. Drink, smoke, drugs

11. Values

12. Relationship with family

13. What will you stand for

14. Contributions to community

15. Habit Three-Put First Things First

16. Pick up a planner

17. Plan weekly

18. Adapt daily

19. Never let fears make your decisions

20. Winning means rising each time you fall

21. Be strong in difficult moments

22. Overcoming peer pressure

23. Habit Four-Think Win WIn

24. Win-Lose-the totem pole

25. Lose-win-the doormat

26. Lose-lose-the downward spiral-win at all costs or obsessed in negative way

27. Win-win-everyone can win

28. Watch competition and comparing

29. Habit Five-Seek First to Understand, then to be understood

30. The deepest need in humans is to be understood

31. 5 poor listening styles

32. Spacing out

33. Pretend listening

34. Selective listening

35. Word listening

36. Self-centered listening

37. We reply in 3 ways

38. Judging

39. Advising

40. Probing

41. What we need to do

42. Genuine listening

43. Stand in their shoes

44. Practicing mirroring