14. What are some of the dominant
cultural repertoires within our
culture of parenting?
15. BIASES IN ADULT / CHILD
INTERACTIONS
Become a dominant set of cultural
repertoires
Exist in schools, health care,
counseling, media, culture in general...
(Lareau, 2003)
16. (What biases or cultural
pressures do you recognize in
the following film trailers?)
17. TRAILERS FOR...
Friends with Kids
The Odd Life of Timothy Green
We Need to Talk about Kevin
18.
19.
20. CURRENT BIASES
(in mainstream American culture):
Talking with children
Developing educational interests
Taking an active role in schooling
Reasoning
Problem-solving through negotiation
28. We can also examine...
PHILOSOPHIES /
ORIENTATIONS
OF PARENTING
29. PARENTING PHILOSOPHIES
Traditionalist – Emphasizes Recreating
Family History and Culture in Adults
Maximizing Options — Emphasizes
Utilizing Resources to Improve Child’s
Chances as an Adult
Present-Oriented — Emphasizes Meeting
Children’s Immediate Needs
30. Some ways how...
SOCIO-ECONOMIC CLASS
CAN INFLUENCE AND DISTINGUISH
PARENTING PHILOSOPHIES
(From Annette Lareau’s
“Unequal Childhoods”, 2003)
31. CLASS BACKGROUNDS & PARENTING
Middle/Upper-Middle Class Parents
Maximize Options
Foster Discussion
Promote Relative Equality
Control Children’s Time
32. CLASS BACKGROUNDS & PARENTING
Working/Lower Class Parents
Support Traditions
Use Directives
Foster Clear Boundaries
Control Children’s Actions
34. PARENTING:
“An Ethic of Care”
A parent’s work involves balancing
growth while socializing children
(Sara Ruddick)
35. Based on this “Ethic of Care,” can we find...
NEW APPROACHES
TO RELATING WITH CHILDREN?
36. DEMOCRATIC / INFLUENTIAL
Present-Oriented
Interactions Based on Mutual Respect
and Negotiation
Relationships Involve Warmth
Adult Influences Child through Empathy
and Communication
38. ANALYSIS QUESTIONS:
1) What does [a person] know about children in
general, and in a specific situation?
2) What do they believe about children, etc.?
3) How does this knowledge belief system affect
their actions/interactions with children?
39. (Examples with scenes from
LITTLE MISS SUNSHINE)
“Having Dinner”
“Breakfast On the Road”
41. Infants Need:
1) Environmental variety
2) Predictability
3) Caretaking by adults
4) Opportunities to practice motor skills
(Jerome Kagan, 1984)
42. Preschoolers Need (in addition):
5) Opportunities to master body and
object problems
6) Receive actions, gestures, and
communications that affirm worth
(Jerome Kagan, 1984)
43. What Should New Models of
Parenting Look Like?
What Should They Include?
Protection/Safety
Support/Growth
Socialization/Compliance
Communication/Empowerment
61. “We like to say that the child is competent but
it is not enough just to declare this. If we
really want the child to be competent, we have
to change time, space, roles and rules to
permit this competent child to exist.”
— Carlina Rinaldi
65. HOMEWORK:
* Your Own Parenting Book/Recipe for Childhood
* Relationship Map
* Finish Reading Sternheimer – Readings from Part 4
(pp. 181-197, 237-246, 266-280)