1. Love, the feeling that makes a person new and feel
heavenly. Love, a feeling that changes life within a
moment. Have we not heard of love at first sight? One
who was happy go lucky in the morning, gets deep and
dreamy looks in the eyes by the time the evening arrives.
What happened? He/she fell in love during the day and
now does not know what to do?
2. Believing our every word; and why not? They have not
been exposed to mistrust yet, not that they would
recognize it at such an early age.
3. Then begins the planning of where to meet again? How to
spot that lovely person again? Through friends, or what?
Depends on where the love was found at the first place.
After getting few glimpses more, the love deepens and the
dreams become more frequent. But at the same time, fear
sets in.
4. But we cannot deny the fact that there will always be
problems in the relationship later on. Now the question is
how are we going to solve the problems? And that will be
the role of relationship counseling. It will guide us to make
the right decision. The role of the counselor is not give the
solution but to lead us in the process of decision making.
This is in contrast with the role of an adviser wherein he is
expected to give a definite decision by the concerned
individual.
5. When we first fall in love; What is that saying, "Love is
Blind"? Ha! Now that's funny, because it really is blind. We
trust so instantly and genuinely that we potentially set
ourselves up for the biggest fall in our lives. Why is that? Is
it because we are so driven by nature to want to trust
someone? Or is trusting someone just a happier, easier,
way of life.