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A Case Study ‐ a meeting with the Settlor and a 
 meeting with the family after the Settlor dies
               STEP ASIA CONFERENCE
                9‐10 NOVEMBER 2010
                JW MARRIOTT HOTEL
             PACIFIC PLACE, HONG KONG
Meet your client…..his
                                           name is Dad
•   A Chinese Patriarch from Hong Kong, age 67, a very wealthy, self made man, but with some recent heart
    trouble
•   Dad has an existing family trust set up in the Cayman Islands, where it can run for 150 years. “The “Dad’s
    Dynasty Trust”
•   The Trust holds:
(1) Family homes in Hong Kong (the Peak), New York and Lake Como in Italy
(2) A 100% stake in the family manufacturing business worth US$100 million; It makes electric cookers
(3) An investment portfolio worth another US$100 million
•   In the event of the death / incapacity of Dad, his eldest son Walter will take over as sole protector and sole
    member of the trust investment committee. Walter has not been told this though.
•   Walter is also the CEO of the family business
•   Dad has three children.   Walter age 45 is the oldest son.
•   Next son is Frank who is age 42. Frank is the CFO in the family business
•   His daughter Vicky is age 40. Vicky has her own small children (2 of them) who take up all of her time
•   Dad is married to Mum who is a delightful lady (64 years old) who is well known in the social circles and
    charity scene in Hong Kong




                                                                                                                 2
You met Dad and Mum
                                  last week and then ….
•   Last week you had a meeting with Dad and Mum.
•   As a result of his recent heart trouble, Dad decided they should sign some wills to take care
    of anything left over outside the Trust
•   They met at your office and signed mutual Wills. The meeting was smooth and
    straightforward. Mum was chatty and pleasant as she always is.
•   Then you get a call from Dad (today)
•   He informs you “I want to change my Will. Don’t tell Mum about this. I am coming to your
    office to see you this morning. I will be there by 11.30.”
•   Dad is usually punctual but he is not at your office by 11.30.
•   1.45 comes and he is still not there. He misses his appointment with you.
•   It turns out that Dad died of a heart attack on his way over to your office.
•   In a way you are relieved. The Trust structure is all in place. The Will of last week is in
    place. You think to yourself, Dad’s Legacy will surely go on for 150 years.
•   You also think to yourself “I wonder if he ever explained the terms of the Trust to his family?”




                                                                                                    3
Dad’s dead………..
                    now meet Family # 2
• As one of Dad’s trusted advisors you are of course
  invited to the funeral
• Mum, Walter, Frank and Vicky are all at the funeral
• So is Ruby …..
• Who is Ruby? That is a good question.
• Ruby says “I am Dad’s Wife. We have been married
  for 5 years now. We have two little toddlers. We have
  a beautiful home together in Shanghai.
• “Dad always told me we would be taken care of if
  anything happened to him”.
• “How did you meet Dad?” you enquire. “I used to be a
  belly dancer in a club in Shanghai……”

                                                          4
Dad’s Dynasty Trust

Trust Level controlled by                                 The Trust 
         Walter

                                      Property 
     Hold Co Level                    Hold Co
                                                                  Hold Co 2     Hold Co 3



                                                                  The Family    Investment 
      Asset Level            Peak     New York    Italy
                                                                   Business       Portfolio




                                                                                            5
                                                                                            5
What type of Man was
                               Dad?
•   Atlas carrying the world on his 
    back
•   Centralized control in the first 
    generation
•   Keeps his cards close to his chest
•   Disclose information on a need to 
    know basis
•   Divided and conquer with 
    advisors
•   A large communication gap 
    between generations
•   A tug of war over succession




                                          6
                                              6
What is the emotional
                   reaction going to be?
• What will be the emotional reaction to Dad’s death?
• Disclosure of the secret of the second family is
  explosive
• Disclosure of the secret of the terms of the trust
  arrangement also has the potential to be explosive
• How will the different members of the first family go
  through the grieving cycle?
• On death the family members could react
  emotionally, rather than acting based on thinking



                                                      7
What type of leadership
              is Walter going to show?
• Is Walter going to be Patriarchal?
• Is Walter going to be collaborative?
• Can the siblings work together?
• What is the communication like among the 3
  siblings?
• Is there sibling rivalry between Frank and
  Walter?
• Will Mum play the role of peace maker?
• Will Mum play the role of King maker?
                                               8
How do you allow a
                             beneficiary to sell out?
                                    • What if Vicky, the daughter
                                      who is not involved in the
                                      business, wants to “sell out”,
Vicky                                 because she has no interest
                 Ownership            in the business?
                  System            • What if second son Frank,
                                      the CFO doesn’t like being
                                      controlled by his eldest
                                      brother, and he wants to sell
                                      out as well?
        Family           Business   • One of the potential
        system            System      downsides of a discretionary
                                      trust is that it does not
                                      provide for an easy “exit
                                      mechanism”


                                                                   9
How is the Trust going to stand up
                             if the family go to war – or cut off?



Trust Level controlled by                               The Trust 
         Walter

                                    Property 
     Hold Co Level                  Hold Co
                                                                Hold Co 2     Hold Co 3



                                                                The Family    Investment 
      Asset Level            Peak   New York    Italy
                                                                 Business       Portfolio




                                                                                          10
This is what Dad should
                                    have done

                Shareholders




                                               Family
                 Company
                                              Assembly




                                         Family Council
     Advisory
      Board      Directors




                                   Business                Career
                                  Education               Planning
                                  Committee              Committee


11
How to change the story:
                   While Dad is still alive
• Secrets & surprises lead to increased chances of
  family conflict
• To avoid the family going to war, Dad should be
  encouraged to explain the terms of the trust structure
  to his family while he is alive
• Family meetings to explain the trust will avoid surprises
  & increase family harmony
• The family should talk about “how are things going to
  work if something happened to Dad”?
• The key question here is “can the siblings work
  together in the future?”
• The trust structure needs to match the reality of the
  family dynamics

                                                          12
How to change the story:
                When Dad passes away
• Expect that the family members are going to go
  through an emotional time
• They will go through the grieving cycle
• Different family members will likely go through the
  phases of the grieving cycle at different times
• If possible the first family meeting after Dad passes
  away should not be to read the Will or to talk about
  business that needs to be dealt with
• If possible, technical matters should wait
• See The New Financial Advisor by G. Scott Budge

                                                      13
What should the Advisor do
                  about the second family?
• Dad’s advisor needs to know about the
  second family – it raises many issues
• But the right kind of professional for this
  kind of issue is probably going to be a
  family therapist
• For what to do about family secrets
  generally see John Bradshaw’s book on
  Family Secrets

                                                14
For more information, including articles to download,
     and videos to watch, please visit our web site at
     www.familylegacyasia.com

                                     Family Legacy Asia (HK) Limited
                                     Contact:      Christian Stewart
                                     Email:        cstewart@familylegacyasia.com
                                     URL:          www.familylegacyasia.com
                                     Office:       (852) 2369 3309
                                     Fax:          (852) 2369 3613


                                     Unit A, 9th Floor
                                     1 Chatham Road South
                                     Tsim Sha Tsui
                                     Kowloon, Hong Kong



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Now dad is dead

  • 1. A Case Study ‐ a meeting with the Settlor and a  meeting with the family after the Settlor dies STEP ASIA CONFERENCE 9‐10 NOVEMBER 2010 JW MARRIOTT HOTEL PACIFIC PLACE, HONG KONG
  • 2. Meet your client…..his name is Dad • A Chinese Patriarch from Hong Kong, age 67, a very wealthy, self made man, but with some recent heart trouble • Dad has an existing family trust set up in the Cayman Islands, where it can run for 150 years. “The “Dad’s Dynasty Trust” • The Trust holds: (1) Family homes in Hong Kong (the Peak), New York and Lake Como in Italy (2) A 100% stake in the family manufacturing business worth US$100 million; It makes electric cookers (3) An investment portfolio worth another US$100 million • In the event of the death / incapacity of Dad, his eldest son Walter will take over as sole protector and sole member of the trust investment committee. Walter has not been told this though. • Walter is also the CEO of the family business • Dad has three children. Walter age 45 is the oldest son. • Next son is Frank who is age 42. Frank is the CFO in the family business • His daughter Vicky is age 40. Vicky has her own small children (2 of them) who take up all of her time • Dad is married to Mum who is a delightful lady (64 years old) who is well known in the social circles and charity scene in Hong Kong 2
  • 3. You met Dad and Mum last week and then …. • Last week you had a meeting with Dad and Mum. • As a result of his recent heart trouble, Dad decided they should sign some wills to take care of anything left over outside the Trust • They met at your office and signed mutual Wills. The meeting was smooth and straightforward. Mum was chatty and pleasant as she always is. • Then you get a call from Dad (today) • He informs you “I want to change my Will. Don’t tell Mum about this. I am coming to your office to see you this morning. I will be there by 11.30.” • Dad is usually punctual but he is not at your office by 11.30. • 1.45 comes and he is still not there. He misses his appointment with you. • It turns out that Dad died of a heart attack on his way over to your office. • In a way you are relieved. The Trust structure is all in place. The Will of last week is in place. You think to yourself, Dad’s Legacy will surely go on for 150 years. • You also think to yourself “I wonder if he ever explained the terms of the Trust to his family?” 3
  • 4. Dad’s dead……….. now meet Family # 2 • As one of Dad’s trusted advisors you are of course invited to the funeral • Mum, Walter, Frank and Vicky are all at the funeral • So is Ruby ….. • Who is Ruby? That is a good question. • Ruby says “I am Dad’s Wife. We have been married for 5 years now. We have two little toddlers. We have a beautiful home together in Shanghai. • “Dad always told me we would be taken care of if anything happened to him”. • “How did you meet Dad?” you enquire. “I used to be a belly dancer in a club in Shanghai……” 4
  • 5. Dad’s Dynasty Trust Trust Level controlled by  The Trust  Walter Property  Hold Co Level Hold Co Hold Co 2  Hold Co 3 The Family  Investment  Asset Level Peak New York Italy Business Portfolio 5 5
  • 6. What type of Man was Dad? • Atlas carrying the world on his  back • Centralized control in the first  generation • Keeps his cards close to his chest • Disclose information on a need to  know basis • Divided and conquer with  advisors • A large communication gap  between generations • A tug of war over succession 6 6
  • 7. What is the emotional reaction going to be? • What will be the emotional reaction to Dad’s death? • Disclosure of the secret of the second family is explosive • Disclosure of the secret of the terms of the trust arrangement also has the potential to be explosive • How will the different members of the first family go through the grieving cycle? • On death the family members could react emotionally, rather than acting based on thinking 7
  • 8. What type of leadership is Walter going to show? • Is Walter going to be Patriarchal? • Is Walter going to be collaborative? • Can the siblings work together? • What is the communication like among the 3 siblings? • Is there sibling rivalry between Frank and Walter? • Will Mum play the role of peace maker? • Will Mum play the role of King maker? 8
  • 9. How do you allow a beneficiary to sell out? • What if Vicky, the daughter who is not involved in the business, wants to “sell out”, Vicky because she has no interest Ownership in the business? System • What if second son Frank, the CFO doesn’t like being controlled by his eldest brother, and he wants to sell out as well? Family Business • One of the potential system System downsides of a discretionary trust is that it does not provide for an easy “exit mechanism” 9
  • 10. How is the Trust going to stand up if the family go to war – or cut off? Trust Level controlled by  The Trust  Walter Property  Hold Co Level Hold Co Hold Co 2  Hold Co 3 The Family  Investment  Asset Level Peak New York Italy Business Portfolio 10
  • 11. This is what Dad should have done Shareholders Family Company Assembly Family Council Advisory Board Directors Business Career Education Planning Committee Committee 11
  • 12. How to change the story: While Dad is still alive • Secrets & surprises lead to increased chances of family conflict • To avoid the family going to war, Dad should be encouraged to explain the terms of the trust structure to his family while he is alive • Family meetings to explain the trust will avoid surprises & increase family harmony • The family should talk about “how are things going to work if something happened to Dad”? • The key question here is “can the siblings work together in the future?” • The trust structure needs to match the reality of the family dynamics 12
  • 13. How to change the story: When Dad passes away • Expect that the family members are going to go through an emotional time • They will go through the grieving cycle • Different family members will likely go through the phases of the grieving cycle at different times • If possible the first family meeting after Dad passes away should not be to read the Will or to talk about business that needs to be dealt with • If possible, technical matters should wait • See The New Financial Advisor by G. Scott Budge 13
  • 14. What should the Advisor do about the second family? • Dad’s advisor needs to know about the second family – it raises many issues • But the right kind of professional for this kind of issue is probably going to be a family therapist • For what to do about family secrets generally see John Bradshaw’s book on Family Secrets 14
  • 15. For more information, including articles to download, and videos to watch, please visit our web site at www.familylegacyasia.com Family Legacy Asia (HK) Limited Contact: Christian Stewart Email: cstewart@familylegacyasia.com URL: www.familylegacyasia.com Office: (852) 2369 3309 Fax: (852) 2369 3613 Unit A, 9th Floor 1 Chatham Road South Tsim Sha Tsui Kowloon, Hong Kong 15