Felicia Kaye is a national award-winning author, transformational life coach, and sought-after keynote speaker. She overcame being orphaned at birth and single parenthood to put herself through nursing school. Through her company SUCCESS by Divine Design, she helps others overcome limitations and live the life they've dreamed of through conferences, retreats, and coaching. Her message is about embracing one's identity as a child of God and believing in oneself to unlock unlimited potential and success.
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The Secret Door of Royal Identity
eloved, tell me you understand that when you go to someone’s door you haven’t really seen their
house, right? You’ve seen the door to their home. It may even be a really cool wrought iron door – but you have
not yet experienced the home! That house could be laid with travertine floors, spiral staircases, a state of the art
game room, surround sound theater room, sauna, spa, pool, outdoor kitchen, fully stocked wine cellar, dazzling
chandeliers, and ornately decked fixtures throughout-the works! But, unless you walk through the door and
experience the fullness of their home, girlfriend all you’ve seen is a door. “I AM The door; if anyone will enter by
me, he shall live and shall go in and out and shall find good pasture.” (John 10:9)
THE SECRET DOOR of ROYAL IDENTITY
Princess, Your Royal Identity is comprised of the ABC’s of Awareness, Belief, and Courage. Once these elements
are obtained they form The Secret Amethyst Key. This unlocks the Door to your Royal Identity, allowing you
legal access into the protection of the castle…Forever.
1. Be AWARE of what makes you a Princess
“It’s been given to you to know the SECRETS of the Kingdom”
(Mt 13:11)
nce upon a time…
There was a little girl who couldn’t remember ever seeing her mother or father. The uncertainty of her past
made her present and future difficult to imagine. Throughout her childhood she fought back the fear in her
mind that she would never grow up to see herself as an adult for she had never encountered anyone who looked
like her, thought like her, or acted like her. She quietly allowed people to make fun of her for being nice,
articulate, well groomed, not cursing, and going to church “every time the doors opened.” Soon she was selected
for advanced classes which only fueled the flames of jealousy in her classmates and enhanced her feelings
alienation and confusion as the “only little black spot” in every activity in which she participated. She was
beginning to feel less and less comfortable everywhere she was.
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Soon boys began noticing her as “the pretty one” as girls simultaneously started alienating her. She
wondered why everything seemed so difficult. She just wanted to be liked. As she grew to become a teenager
she experienced date rape on two separate occasions which progressed to abortion, then finally a decade of
single parenthood sandwiched between a bout of domestic violence. For years of her life she found herself just
drifting searching for her identity. Her grandmother had always told her that she could do anything that she set
her mind to. So, one day as she sat on the bathroom floor with her futon mattress barricaded against the door
in an attempt to protect her baby and herself from the homicidal threats of her soon to be ex-boyfriend she
remembered the God of the bible of whom she used to be made fun of for emulating. She bravely called upon
His power and seemingly miraculously the raging storm was calmed.
Beloved, that was the day I returned to my first love, began walking away from fear and lack, and
stepped into the strong tower of safety. I began exploring my authority as The King’s daughter. Literally the next
day, I returned to church with help of a friend and began embracing what the bible revealed about my true
identity. Before I knew it, a position was created for me as the Director of Music which helped pay my way
through nursing school.
Princess, when you understand something it means to put it “under your standing”. So, if you
comprehend your identity as daughter and heir of the Most High King, there are few limitations you will allow
to get in your way. You see, when the enemy knows that you know, he knows he’s got to go! May I propose to
you that the enemy is a mindset called doubt, fueled only by lack of knowledge. When disarmed, you become
able to stand fully in your authority, and surely won’t stand for chaos anymore. When it comes rapping on your
castle door peddling a bag full of uncertainty and lack you’ll have the shackles slapped on him so fast that he’ll
be begging you to just throw him in the mote! “Guard!” …He’ll be like, “oh snap! I didn’t know she knew!”
That’s right, Princess, your Daddy is The King! That makes you a Royal. By your birthright there are
endless benefits that arise from your legal standing as a citizen of the Kingdom and certainly as a member of
the royal court. Princess, the secrets your heavenly Father has hidden for you make you unstoppable.
Unfortunately, the problem is that most of us were just hanging around outside barely surviving, fending for
ourselves like a peasant or commoner. Sadly, this weary one does not realize that she too was meant to remain
under the protection of the King, safe within the castle. She may have accepted her citizenship inside the
Kingdom gates but still remains out in the cold. Even so, The Royals are living up the good life ruling and
reigning with feasts amongst the plentiful banquet table at every meal laughing, and dancing with endless
merriment inside.
Now merely a more enlightened mindset would cause this same hopeless onlooker to realize that she is
actually expected inside the castle because she is much more than a citizen, she is family. So, why is she
standing outside in the cold longingly looking in, slowly dying from dumb stuff that doesn’t have to be? Why the
need to feel sorry for herself? Well, I will challenge you Beloved, to know that it’s simply because she doesn’t
know who she is. She is not aware of her identity within the Royal Family. When you know who you are, you
stand boldly in your authority.
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If you can relate to this I have prepared a helpful action step for you.
Exercise#1-
King’s daughter, accept your father’s gifts. Meditate on this Kingdom Language daily for the next 10 days by
writing it out in the morning and just before bed. Your subconscious mind will embrace it and make it work for
you in the back ground.
1) I AM a child of God (Luke 12:22-34)
2) I AM led and fed with cords of human kindness and ties of love. (Hosea 11:4)
3) I AM certain that there is only hope and good for my future. (Jer 29:11)
4) Everything works together for my good.(Rom 8:28 NLT)
5) I AM the apple of God’s eye (Psalms 17:8)
~Here are some powerful questions to ponder-
1) In what ways in the past have you found yourself standing outside of the castle looking
in?
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2) What are some things now that could stall you from walking through the threshold of
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3) What steps will it take to cause you to accept your rightful place under the full
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you’ve completed your first step toward holding your Amethyst key.
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ongratulations…
You’ve raised your level of awareness to soon be able to
unlock the door to your Royal Identity.
2. BELIEVE the fairy tale is real and Happily
ever after is for you
“
For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord.
They are plans for good and not for evil, to give you a future
and a hope.”
(Jer 29:11TLB)
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There was a little girl who had become an eternal pessimist. I
can hear myself reciting to anyone who would listen, the
endless reasons I had chosen to never get my hopes up. I
even said it with flare and attitude as if I thought I was really standing for something. When in actuality I was
standing for absolutely nothing. I declared that I was a realist so if I never climbed up in a tree I would never
risk falling and getting hurt, never giving a second thought to the breathtaking view that is to be seen from the
top. As a result, I was a shy withdrawn young girl who had few friends and barely attempted to achieve
anything out of reach. I was afraid to be noticed and thought that my voice wouldn’t be heard anyway. I decided
that I had nothing to offer anyone, In high school I remember being interviewed by the star football player as an
English lit assignment who, to my dismay described me as an under achiever. My feelings were hurt until I really
thought about the fact that I had worked hard at being the most average student hidden in advanced classes
ever.
The bottom line was that I didn’t really believe that I deserved to have anything good in my life because my
mom had died when I was only 4 years old and I didn’t even know who my father was. So, can you imagine
what a difficult time a little girl would have who didn’t even have physical evidence of being worthy enough to
have the basic thing that it takes to be born into this world- parents? I had almost no ability to see how I could
ever be worthy of anything good in my life. I was afraid that my grandfather who always told me I was nothing
but an orphan who “would never amount to nothin’” was right.
Believe:
verb (used without object),
believed, believing. 1. to have
confidence in the truth, the
existence, or the reliability of
something, although without
absolute proof that one is
right in doing so: Only if one
believes in something can one
act purposefully.
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Webster defines belief as:
intransitive verb
1 a: to have a firm religious faith.
a: to accept something as true, genuine, or real <ideals
we believe in> <believes in ghosts>
2: to have a firm conviction as to the goodness, efficacy,
or ability of something <believe in exercise>
3: to hold an opinion: THINK <I believe so>
transitive verb
1 a: to consider to be true or honest <believe the
reports>
b: to accept the word of evidence of. <I believe you>
And hope as:
I. can help only if you believe in me.
2. a person or thing in which expectations are centered:
to look forward to with desire and reasonable confidence.
3. to believe, desire, or trust:
4. to feel that something desired may happen:
Hope
intransitive verb
1 : to cherish a desire with
anticipation
2 : archaic : TRUST
transitive verb
1 : to desire with expectation of
obtainment
2 : to expect with confidence:
TRUST
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Ya know, given the number of trees climbed everyday how many people really ever fall out and seriously injure
themselves? Not many, right? And of those who do, don’t most end up at worst with a really awesome story of
bravery and a cool cast for all of their friends to sign, hmm? Beloved, I wish I knew of a solid way to help you
learn to believe because the concepts of hope and belief are such abstract things to grasp. However, one thing
that I can tell you for certain is that after having been on both sides it just feels so much better to believe in
something. Given the choice, picking something that promises to never harm you and to always be there for you
is the core of happiness. I can say that my standing as The King’s daughter is truly the only thing that has never
let me down. In addition, hindsight causes me to verify that this ease and knowing is this very process that
creates everything that I ever wanted. My sister, that is nothing less than intoxicating. Now people around me
ask what I’m on, haha. I usually giggle and wonder how silly I’d be if I were on some drug. This is all natural.
I’m just extremely grateful that I now am a perpetually happy person with what I’m told is an addictive laugh. I
guess, I’ve come a long way baby.
In the absence of an earthly father I had the fortune of learning the flawless, beautiful, matchless
unconditional love of my Heavenly Father. I have a very special loving relationship with God that I know He
desires to have with every one of His children who will allow this closeness. In my case it came with the benefit
of learning His ways without any interference or mistakes that humans sometimes make. You know, I’ve heard
people say that to believe is silly, ignorant, or a crutch. My question would be, “so does that make hopelessness
the brilliantly wise, powerfully uplifting choice??” NO, the only thing that lack of faith or hope gives-is fear. Any
guesses on how far and in what direction that gets ya. In my experience it actually costs more and exerts more
effort to not believe. And finally, belief just feels good! Hopelessness feels—not good. And feeling not good gets
you nothing that you want. Have you ever noticed that, if you can believe something you can have it. If you can’t
believe it, you can’t have it! It’s really that simple. That goes for anything. If you can have a steady
understanding of hope, that means standing under the fact that what you desire already exists in the essence of
infinity, then you’re already there. If you’ll remember, his purpose is to give you a hope and a future of good.
You must decide that you’re gonna relax into the flow of what is already in motion for your highest good,
instead of suffering with the frustration of feeling the tension of fighting the gap when looking at the external
“reality” of the situation vs. what you want to see.
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if you can relate to this I have prepared a helpful exercise for you.
Excersise #2~
Sometimes it can be difficult to embrace a heavenly Father if there has been unresolved conflict with your
earthly father. In order for you to be in position to receive from your heavenly father you must be able to
find peace in this relationship. To find a way to forgive him for any offense write a letter either appreciating
him or forgiving him. You may choose to keep it, give it to him or burn it. It’s up to you. This exercise will
allow you to clear yourself to receive and begin to heal. Know that only your heavenly father is perfect and
will never let you down.
Here are some powerful questions to ponder along your journey:
1. What is stopping you from believing in your happily ever after?
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2. What will you have to get past in order to see yourself as a Princess?
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3. What would it feel like if you had everything you needed or wanted right now? Close
your eyes and experience that now.
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you’re well on your way to embrace your Royal Identity. Your Secret Amethyst
key is almost complete. Congratulations, you’ve conquered BELIEF!
3. Have COURAGE to Bravely step into your Palace
“And I tell you, Ask, and it will be given you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be
opened to you. 10 For every one who asks receives,
and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened”
(Luke 11:9)
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I spent most of my life hiding out in mediocrity. Even my choice to become a Registered Nurse honestly, was a
cop out for me. It didn’t stretch me. I did it because I didn’t want to stand out. I knew tons of people who had
taken that career path which proved that it was achievable. The problem was that when the veil was removed
from my eyes, I found that I had spent almost two decades climbing a corporate ladder that had been leaned
against the wrong building! Although I had managed to position myself amongst the top salaried RN’s in the
field, the pay and time constraints were still limiting obstacles that prevented me from doing the things that I
truly wanted to experience in my life.
Upon graduation from High School, my daughter received a scholarship to a prestigious acting school in
New York. Once I realized that even if I neglected all of my bills for a month and played catch up later in order
to afford her living expenses in Manhattan, so she could accept the scholarship that she had worked so hard for,
it wasn’t going to be enough to keep her there. That was when I realized that all the many years ago in which I
had compromised had caught up with me. Those prior years that I had been afraid to dream and explore what I
really wanted had stifled my present and worse yet, had now stretched into limiting my future- the next
generation of my family. I felt as if my hands were financially bound.
I had to come to grips with the fact that a tiny step for me may be a huge abyss for someone else. I had
to decide that I was no longer going to take baby steps in order to make the people around me look good, or to
hide because of fear of failure, or in order to look “normal”. In that moment, I began to embrace my brilliance
and decided that I was no longer going to dim my light just because it was hurting other people’s eyes. I
thought, “Put on some shades, dude; I’m gonna shine!” So, after years of holding myself prisoner, in an instant I
decided to just become open. I stopped and simply dreamt of what freedom would feel like. I imagined waking
up with everything I needed and the feeling of having everything I wanted. I pictured myself sitting in a swing
on the beach with Eden playing in the waves washing upon the sand and shore… and I was making money. I
envisioned me sitting at a coffeehouse laughing with my girlfriends…and making money.
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And, long story short, I’ll be darned if that isn’t exactly what I do right now I make a living…Living! Somehow, I
intuitively knew precisely how to manifest my desires. Now, I make it a point to research the wisdom and
science behind how those things work and guess what, Princess? You’re the beneficiary of that journey and
growth. That is what happens when you believe there is something better for you, reach down inside to uncover
who you are, and embrace what you desire. When you’re brave enough to take action in the direction of those
dreams, they come true. Beloved, our heavenly Father’s secrets were not hidden from us. They were hidden for
us! When you find them my sister, they can never be taken away.
if you can relate to my story, I have prepared for you, a supportive activity that
will finally give you access to your Amethyst Key!
Exercise #3
Formulate at least three “I AM” statements to reinforce your rightful standing as a Royal. “I AM” is Kingdom
language. It is the name of God, when you invoke the name “I AM”, whatever you follow it with is obligated to
hunt you down and find you. Remember you are powerful!
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Here are some powerful questions to ponder along your journey:
1. What is the worst thing that could happen if you got everything you ever wanted?
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you will need your Amethyst Key to get into the secret places of the Almighty.
Here ya go! CONGRATULATIONS, Beloved you took COURAGE and stepped into action.
Well done, Princess! You’ve unlocked The SECRET DOOR of Your ROYAL IDENTITY and have stepped into
the threshold of the protection of the castle, FOREVER.
“He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty”
(Psalms 91:1)
Princess, you rock!
*If discovering this door has resonated with your life you’ll love exploring the next steps of unlocking
the rest of the 7 Secret doors in the corridor to your Destiny. Because, along the way to your Happily
Ever After sometimes even upon entering the castle we find ourselves locked in our own dungeon by
our own hand. Well, Princess, I’m calling you out. You deserve your best life and the keys belong to
you. Experience the
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