2. Affirmative
Thinking
the habit of
perceiving, thinking, speaking, and behaving
in ways that support a healthy emotional state
in yourself as well as in others
3. Mental
Flexibility
the absence of mental rigidity
When you free yourself from narrow-mindedness,
intolerance,
dogmatic thinking and judgments,
“opinionitis,”
fear-based avoidance of new ideas and experiences, and learn to
live with ambiguity and complexity,
you become more mentally flexible
4. Under anxiety
the cerebral cortex tries to take over the activity,
not trusting the cerebellum to carry it out expertly
Bad serves, bad baseball pitches, strikeouts, bad golf shots,
forgotten words to songs, missed comedy lines, and many other
“flubs” occur at this instant of conflict between the cerebrum and
the cerebelllum.
5. The question
we now seek
to ask is
: Can these advanced methods ever be accessible to “normal”
human beings who don’t spend their lives studying and
meditating?
Is it possible that all of us have the possibility of increasing our
mental func- tions to much higher levels than we’ve previously
dreamed of?
6. GTUM MO
TheTibetan monks, who practiced a method known as gTum-mo
meditation, could raise the temperature of their fingers and toes
by as much as 17 Fahrenheit degrees above their aver- age body
temperature-reports benson.pi
7. Hypnagogic
and
hypanopompic
I often find that new ideas, fragments of ideas, strange verbal
expressions, and half-formed concepts come to me during dreams
or while going into or out of sleep.
This is one reason why I keep a stack of index cards and a pen on
the night table next to my bed.
8. Brain waves What are the brain waves you get during meditation?
9. Rhythm of sex The compelling rhythm of sexual intercourse responds to
oscillators programmed deeply into the biocomputer.pi
10. Trance
Aside from the normal “daily trance,” as we might label it, trance
states can be caused by a number of experiences.
Hypnosis, of course, is the deliberate induction of a trance state by
means of hyper-focused concentration.
Meditation and prayer can also induce trance-like states.
People in some cultures chant, sing, and dance to put themselves
into trance states.
11. Cycle types
Researchers also identify ultradian cycles, or patterns that repeat
several times within a day, and infradian cycles, which span across
multiple days.pi
12. Brain cycles Braincycles are variations in the brain’s focus of attention, ranging
through a period that averages roughly ninety minutes..pi
13. Nasal cycle
A particularly curious ultradian pattern is the so-called nasal cycle,
which seems to vary over a period of about ninety minutes. At
various times over the cycle, one nostril or the other will be more
dilated, with a freer flow of air—provided your nasal passages
aren’t congested— and the other will be less open. Sometimes
during the cycle they’ll both be about the same.To test this, press
one nostril closed with your fingertip and notice the volume of air
as you inhale through the other nostril.Then switch to the
otherside and compare the flow rates.pi
14. Brain and body
The purpose of your body is to carry your brain around.”
—Thomas Edison
15. Dreams
Sleep researchers report incidents of lucid dreaming, a dream
state in which the dreamer somehow “knows” that he or she is
dreaming.
This seems to be a paradoxical state of consciousness that
incorporates aspects of waking thought and vivid dream images.
17. Define pi Practical Intelligence: the mental ability to cope with the
challenges and opportunities of life.
18. Generalists
A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an
invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a
sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the
dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve
equations, analyze a new problem, program a computer, cook a
tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for
insects.” —Robert Heinlein (science fiction author)
19. 3 phases
Postman traced three phases in the development of what he
called “the culture’s conversation with itself.”
Phase one, extending back to our very origins, was an oral phase.
People shared knowledge, ideas, and their history through
discussion and story-telling.
Phase two, the rise of literate communication through the printed
word, peaked in its impact during the nineteenth century,
according to Postman.
Phase three, with the arrival of what he called the “televisual”
media, began the inexorable transition to a pervasive “culture of
amusement.”.
20. SemanticSin
3:Directiveness
—
pressuring a person indirectly with “should” language,which can
sound coercive and can cause a person to
feel his or her autonomy is being encroached upon.Example: “If
you’re smart,you’ll diversify your investments”or “You should join
the such-and-such professional association.”Alternative:“I think
it’s important to diversify investments these days”or “The such-
and-such professional association might suit your needs.”
21. Correcting ss3
We can substitute non-directiveness for directiveness. Limiting
the use of “push-language”such as “should’s”and “ought’s”and
implied coercion tends to make people feel more comfortable
with our ideas and more likely to accept our suggestions
22. Filter
Here’s a starter list of expressions you may want to filter out of
your vocabulary, as you form ideas in your mind and as you speak
your mind to others:
1.I can never do anything right.
2.I can’t (get a break,find a job,stand to...).
3.I dread (an experience,impending event,outcome)
. 4.I hate (you,him,her,this,to do...).
5.If it weren’t for (you,my health,my kids,my mother,my job),
Icould (succeed in some way).
6.If only (any statement that agonizes over the past).
7.I’m (dumb,stupid,lazy—any negative adjective)
. 8.I’m a (failure,loser—any negative label).
23. Change your perception and you change your world.”
24. How about
your own
mental habits?
do you keep a positive frame of mind,
appreciate humor,
and come up with new ideas?
25. Creativity
researchers
report
a close three-way relationship between
sense of humor,particularly clever use of language;
positive thinking;
and the ability to think creatively and generate new ideas.
26. SemanticSin
4.Attribution
attaching a motivation,often an ignoble one,to a person’s
behavior,which implies that we’ve discovered his or her despicable
reasons for disagreeing with us.
Example:“You’re just being obstinate because you don’t want this
project to succeed.”
Alternative:“I wonder if you fully agree with the course of action
the team seems committed to.Would you please explain your view
of the project?”
27. SemanticSin
7.Polarization
framing an issue,problem,or disagreement in terms of only two
mutually exclusive possibilities,also known as dichotomizing
issues.
Example:“You’re either with us,or you’re against us.”
Alternative:“To what extent are you willing to support us in this
venture?”
28. substitute non-
dogmatism for
dogmatism
Verbal cues that acknowledge
the relativity of truth,and that remind us and others
to consider multiple options,
multiple causes,
and multiple possibilities,
can help others to express their ideas without feeling they have to
do battle against our ideas
29. substitute non-
allness for
allness.
Verbal cues like limiters and qualifiers—”It’s possible that ...,”“In
some situations ...,” and “To some extent ...”—remind ourselves
and others of the limitations that over-generalizing can impose on
our thinking.
30. the four key
mega-skills—
BivergentThinking,
HelicopterThinking
IntulogicalThinking,
ViscerationalThinking
31. MENTAL
FLEXIBILITY
ISTHEWILLINGNESS to let yourself be
changed by your experiences—by new ideas, new points of view,
opinions and beliefs that are different from your own, situations
and
experiences that can take you out of your familiar patterns and
invite
you to grow.
33. Perhaps we can start thinking of ourselves not as
“human beings,” but as “human becomings.”
34. Curiosity one of the first casualties of the mental hardening process is
curiosity
35. Risk-taking,
as Gardner points out, is related to a factor psychologists call
tolerance for ambiguity, which is the capacity to function when
things are not necessarily clear and simple.
36. Archaic
thinking
is automatic thinking. It’s reflexive rather than reflective;it
operates from decisions and conclusions made in the past; Archaic
thinking is automatic thinking. It’s reflexive rather than
reflective;it operates from decisions and conclusions made in the
past;
37. Dynamic
thinking
Dynamic thinking is original thinking. It’s reflective rather than
reflexive;it responds to the current reality,here-and-now
information, and possibilities; it respects evidence
38. Unlearning The journey to practical intelligence is as much as a journey of
unlearning as well as learning
39. Mental
redneck
thinking
is narrow, rigid, intolerant, resistant to change,unaccepting of
other perspectives,and motivated by the need for simple answers
and a comfortable sense of “law and order
40. individuality.
within each of us, at varying levels of depth and accessibility, is an
appetite for something different; something new; something
refreshingly unfamiliar; something that’s uniquely us; for the
exhilaration of creating something the world—or at least we—
have never seen before.We need to express our individuality.
42. “You’re only
given a small spark o f madness.
You mustn’t lose it.” —RobinWilliams(comedian)
43. I know it
already
“The biggest obstacle to learning something is the belief that you
already know it.”
zen
44. Xerox story
a man named Chester Carlson.Working at his kitchen table,
Carlson managed to duplicate an image onto a piece of glass,using
a clumsy makeshift apparatus
45. -apple story
two college dropouts,both fascinated with electronic gadgets,
pioneered the personal computer. In a now-legendary story, Steve
Jobs and Steve Wozniak, working in the garage of Job’s parents,
created the prototype of the first commercial “PC,”which at that
time was only a scrambled mess of parts and wires
46. Think Like a
beginner
The most important thing every expert needs to learn is how to
think like a beginner.
47. Simplex
thinkers
—people who,typically out of fear and ignorance,crave simple
answers,simple world views,simple explanations,simple
opinions,and simple solutions
48. Duplex
thinkers
tend to dichotomize situations,issues,and ideologies in terms of
simple opposing distinctions:right or wrong,good or bad,normal
or abnormal,moral or immoral,success or failure,liberal or
conservative,friend or enemy,us and them,with us or against us.
49. Multiplex
thinkers
—people who have developed a high tolerance—and even a
preference—for ambiguity and complexity.They tend to see
problems as having “more than one right answer
51. Mulla
Nasruddin
“One day the Mullah Nasruddin was adjudicating a dispute between two
neighbors. After listening to the firstone’sarguments, he said, ‘I believe you
are right.’ But then the other neighbor argued his case, very persuasively.
When he had finished,
Nasruddin said, ‘I believe you are right.’ A bystander, perplexed by his
answers, protested: ‘Wait a minute!They can’t both be right!’The mullah
looked at him, stroked his beard, and said, ‘I believe you are right.’
53. SemanticSin
3:Directiveness
—
pressuring a person indirectly with “should” language,which can
sound coercive and can cause a person to
feel his or her autonomy is being encroached upon.Example: “If
you’re smart,you’ll diversify your investments”or “You should join
the such-and-such professional association.”Alternative:“I think
it’s important to diversify investments these days”or “The such-
and-such professional association might suit your needs.”
54. substitute non-
directiveness
for
directiveness.
Limiting the use of “push-language”such as “should’s”and
“ought’s”and implied coercion tends to make people feel more
comfortable with our ideas and more likely to accept our
suggestions
55. SemanticSin
4.Attribution—
attachinga motivation,often an ignoble one,to a person’s
behavior,which implies that we’ve discovered his or her despicable
reasons for disagreeing with us.Example:“You’re just being
obstinate because you don’t want this project to succeed.”
Alternative:“I wonder if you fully agree with the course of action
the team seems committed to.Would you please explain your view
of the project?””
56. SemanticSin
7.Polarization
—framing an issue,problem,or disagreement in terms of only two
mutually exclusive possibilities,also known as dichotomizing
issues.Example:“You’re either with us,or you’re against
us.”Alternative:“To what extent are you willing to support us in
this venture?”P
57. Filter
Here’s a starter list of expressions you may want to filter out of
your vocabulary, as you form ideas in your mind and as you speak
your mind to others:
1.I can never do anything right.
2.I can’t (get a break,find a job,stand to...).
3.I dread (an experience,impending event,outcome)
. 4.I hate (you,him,her,this,to do...).
5.If it weren’t for (you,my health,my kids,my mother,my job),
Icould (succeed in some way).
6.If only (any statement that agonizes over the past).
7.I’m (dumb,stupid,lazy—any negative adjective)
. 8.I’m a (failure,loser—any negative label).
9.I’m afraid (that,of—anything that might happen or be true)
58. How about
your own
mental habits
: do you keep a positive frame of mind, appreciate humor,and
come up with new ideas?
59. am afraid to listen, for by listening I might understand, and be
changed by that understanding.” —Carl Rogers (American
psychologist)
60. One of Mullah Nasruddin’s students asked, ‘What is fate?’
Nasruddin answered, ‘An endless succession of intertwined
events, each influencing the other.’ ‘That is hardly a satisfactory
answer. I believe in cause and effect,’ retorted the student. ‘Very
well,’ replied the Mullah, ‘look at that,’ pointing to a procession
passing in the street. ‘That man is being taken to be hanged. Is it
because somebody gave him a silver piece and enabled him to buy
the knife with which he committed the murder; or because some-
body sold him the knife; or because somebody saw him do it; or
because nobody stopped him?
61. SemanticSin
6.Dogmatism
—a strong,unconditional,declarative statement or value judgment
that does not acknowledge the validity of alternative
views.Example:“Kids these days have far too many electronic
gadgets.”Alternative:“Some kids seem to have a lot of electronic
gadgets.I think there are negative side effects for some of them.” -
62. SemanticSin
5:.All-ness
—generalizing so broadly as to obscure important
differences,variations,or alternatives that might be relevant to the
interpretation or conclusion being offered.Example:“People don’t
like change.”Alternative:“Some people find change uncomfortable
and some actually prefer it.How can we make the changes we plan
to make appealing for as many people as possible?”
63. substitute non-
polarization
for
polarization
. Limiting the use of dichotomizing statements like “win or
lose,”“succeed or fail,”and “us and them”tends to open up the
range of thinking and discussion and to admit more options and
possibilities into our thinking.-