What is love?

1. To love and To be
Loved Prepared By:
Mohammed Jasir PV
Asst. Professor
MIIMS. Puthanangadi
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2. Relationship experts and marriage councilors
state that the three common fight couples
have
Money Family Attention

3. • Everyone look perfect in public with no complaints
• And if we asked “Do you ever argue?”
We never argue!!!
Do you believe this answer?

4. • No, its wrong..
• They argue over 2455 times a year.
• That means 7 times per day

5. What is the secret for successful relationship

6. The secret to being in happy relation is
not how you fly together its about
How you fight together

7. Based on 1000 adults found that when couples know
how to argue 10 times more strongly likely to stay
together.

8. The biggest mistakes we made is Avoidance
We feel something and say Nothing

9. A strong relationship requires us to love each other
even in the moments that we don’t like each other.
• Discussion with compassion, empathy

10. Remember when you’re fighting the
real fight is both of you against
the problem
Not both of you against each other

11. What is Love?

12. • Easy and Complicated
• Everyone know it
• But few can express and explain towards others
• BCZ- You have experienced different kinds of love.

13. • Love towards Older people –
“Respect”
• Towards younger people –
“Affection”
• Towards peer – “Friendship”

14. Towards a product – “Like”

15. • In all love we can see Selfishness.
• Love without selfish motive known
as “Prema”
• “Prema” - means “Unselfish love”

16. “Prema”
Today, this word is misunderstood
by a lot of people.
No Prema today,
Each one like other

17. Then What is LOVE ?

18. Dr. Robert J Sternberg

19. According to Dr. Sternberg’s research
Love is mixture of
“Passion”,
“Intimacy”, and
“Commitment”

20. Passion
• Physical Attraction
• Infatuation

21. Intimacy
Reason to reveal
your secrets to
somebody is your
intimacy towards
that person

22. Commitment
You have a
commitment
towards every
people those
who are
related to you
like it or not

23. Example
• Your relation with Father and Mother
– There is No Passion
– Intimacy may or may not be
– But there is definitely commitment
– Because, You’re their children and they are your parents.

24. Passion
Intimacy
Commitment
Pure Love
is the mix
of 3

25. • Different combinations - Different kind of love.
• Sometimes single

26. Intimacy and Commitment
If you feel intimacy and commitment towards a person
which means that person is your “Best Friend”

27. (Liking / Secret)
Fatuous / Immoral Love

28. Passion and Intimacy
The combination of Passion and Intimacy is
Romance.

29. (Liking / Secret)
Fatuous / Immoral Love

30. That is immoral / Fatuous
Passion and Commitment

31. (Liking / Secret)
Fatuous / Immoral Love

32. The love only with passion is an infatuation
Passion

33. (Liking / Secret)
Fatuous / Immoral Love

34. The reason for feeling love at first sight is just a physical
attraction; there is no other reason except this.

35. If your love towards a
person consists of
intimacy, which
means he is your
friend”
Intimacy

36. (Liking / Secret)
Fatuous / Immoral Love

37. The love with only commitment is known as
Empty Love

38. Passion Intimacy
Commitment
Empty Love
Long term Relationship

39. • The relation who accepts these changes in love will
be stable
• Get shattered, if they think that these changes only
happen in their life

40. This is the reason why love marriages are unstable
rather than arranged marriage.

41. Relation begin with empty love
Commitment and passion
come within few days
When it becomes empty love after some years, they
will be able to move forward with a nature mind
Because, they have already experienced this during
the early days of their relation.
In Arranged Marriage

42. Love Marriage
Begin With Complete Love

43. Passion Intimacy
Commitment

44. The search of man for everlasting love continues
till his death.

48. THANK YOU..