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Dr. Louise Stanger, LCSW, CDWF, CIP
About Dr. Louise
Clinician, Social Worker
Educator, Trainer
Clinical Interventionist
Author, Blogger
Wife, Mother, Grandmother
Adventurer
Have you contemplated the
great mysteries of Life?
How do you view life and
death
Are they inextricably tied
together?
Researchers have found when
you lose something, research
suggests you value it more
Joy
Clarity
Curiosity
Gratitude
Have you brought your listening skills ?
ASAM Sept 15, 2019
New De๏ฌnition of Addiction
Addiction is a treatable, chronic medical disease
involving complex interactions among brain circuits,
genetics, the environment , and an individuals life
experiences. People with addiction use substances or
engage in behaviors that become compulsive and
often continue despite harmful consequences.
Prevention e๏ฌ€orts and treatment approaches for
addiction are generally as successful as those for
other chronic diseases
Living Room
Porch
Sidewalk
Trail
Riding the waves
Living Room
Porch
Sidewalk
Trail
You are Invited
You are Invited
You are Invited
Friends and Family May
Feel
Anxious, resentful
A Desire to ๏ฌt things or Bail
loved ones out
To shields client from bad news
To look good to the public
To Avoid self help groups at
home
To feel guilty or shame or If only
I could
What is Recovery ?
Letting go of what we cannot
control
Learning how to care for
ourselves and not be attached
to the problem
Learning about SA, MH, CP,
and other disorders
While in Treatment Your
Loved one
May balk a bit
May ask for things they do not
need
May at ๏ฌrst say things are worse
not better
May feel Guilt, Shame ,
Embarrassment
May want to shield you from
talking with sta๏ฌ€
May minimize issues
Recovery is
Lifetime growth
Development of New Problem
Solving Skills and Strategies
Responding Not Reacting
Compassionate Directness
Taking Care of Oneself -
Physically, emotionally and
consistant with Ones Values
8 Principles of Recovery
Abstinence
Peer Support
Meditation
Exercise
Ritual
Good Nutrition
Professional Services
Connection
The Nitty Gritty Of
Recovery
Delay-15 minutes
Escape- have a parachute ready
Avoid - Strategic plan
Distraction
DEAD
Recovery Issues
Issues Early Middle Advanced
Grieving Identify ones
losses
Learning to
grieve
Grieve past and
present losses
Neglecting ones
own needs
Realization of
needs
Beginning to get
needs met
Getting needs
met
Being Over
responsible
Identifying
boundaries
Setting limits Responsible for
self-clear
boundaries
Low self-esteem Identify Sharing Affirming โ€“
improved SE
Control Identify Taking
responsibility
Responsibility&
letting go
All or none
thinking
Recognize &
identify
Learning there
are choices
Multicolored
world
Being Real Recognize Risking being
real
Being real
Recovery Issues
Issues Early Middle Advanced
Trust Trust can be
helpful
Selective
Trusting
Trusting
appropriately
Feeling Recognizing &
Identifying
Experiencing Observing &
Using
Hi Tolerance
inappropriate
beh.
Questioning
behaviors
Learning Knowing &
having safe folks
Abandonment &
Conflict
Recognizing &
Identifying
Grieving &
Resolving
Freedom From &
work thru
current conflicts
Giving and
Receiving Love
Defining: What is
love
Practicing Refining, loving
self, higher
power
Dependence &
Independence
Identifying Learning/
Practicing
Being healthy
Recovery
Emotional Stablility
New skills and strategies
Realistic appreciation of disease
Participated clinical o๏ฌ€erings
Sponsor
Addressing legal or ๏ฌnancial issues
Handling confrontations
Planning for aftercare
Following Rules
Family and Friends Learn
Addiction is a Disease
To Di๏ฌ€erentiate Between the
person and the disorder
To learn stress reduction
To build a recovery network of
their own-Alanon, Alateen
Connection
CHIME
Hope &Optimism
Identity
Meaning & Purpose
Empowerment
CHIME
CONNECTION
The 7 Cโ€™s
I did not cause
I cannot cure
I canโ€™t control
I can take care of myself
I can communicate my feelings
I can make healthy choices
I can celebrate myself
Magic Words
Yes
No
Oh
Really
Whatever
Seeing with a Grateful Eye
Requires that you see the web
of Interconnections in
relationships with nature and
other other people
Recovery = showing up and
being of service , making
amends
Be Grateful to People Not Just Things
To Thank Outside the Box?
Your loved one for allowing
you to explore your own
behaviors
Your boss for ๏ฌring you
Your boyfriend or girlfriend for
ending your relationship
Your interventionists for
getting you to treatment
Processing Life thru a
Grateful Lens
Does not mean denying
Negativity
Instead it means realizing you
have the power to transform
an obstacle into an
opportunity
It means reframing a loss to a
potential gain and recasting
negativity into positive
channels
To Take Care Of Oneself
Physically
Emotionally
Spiritually or
Consistent with Ones Values
Speci๏ฌcity is Paramount
The more speci๏ฌc you are with
another, the more genuine
gratitude feels
I appreciate being told exactly
what is working and what is
not
What three, four or even ๏ฌve people did you thank
today for a speci๏ฌc thing that enriches your life?
How will you express Gratitude?
Available
On Amazon and at
Rutledge
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On Amazon
Call or email Dr. Louise
619-507-1699
www.allaboutinterventions.
com
drstanger@me.com

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Discovering joy and gratitude

  • 1. Dr. Louise Stanger, LCSW, CDWF, CIP
  • 2. About Dr. Louise Clinician, Social Worker Educator, Trainer Clinical Interventionist Author, Blogger Wife, Mother, Grandmother Adventurer
  • 3. Have you contemplated the great mysteries of Life? How do you view life and death Are they inextricably tied together? Researchers have found when you lose something, research suggests you value it more
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  • 6. Have you brought your listening skills ?
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  • 10. ASAM Sept 15, 2019 New De๏ฌnition of Addiction Addiction is a treatable, chronic medical disease involving complex interactions among brain circuits, genetics, the environment , and an individuals life experiences. People with addiction use substances or engage in behaviors that become compulsive and often continue despite harmful consequences. Prevention e๏ฌ€orts and treatment approaches for addiction are generally as successful as those for other chronic diseases
  • 11. Living Room Porch Sidewalk Trail Riding the waves Living Room Porch Sidewalk Trail
  • 12. You are Invited You are Invited You are Invited
  • 13. Friends and Family May Feel Anxious, resentful A Desire to ๏ฌt things or Bail loved ones out To shields client from bad news To look good to the public To Avoid self help groups at home To feel guilty or shame or If only I could
  • 14. What is Recovery ? Letting go of what we cannot control Learning how to care for ourselves and not be attached to the problem Learning about SA, MH, CP, and other disorders
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  • 16. While in Treatment Your Loved one May balk a bit May ask for things they do not need May at ๏ฌrst say things are worse not better May feel Guilt, Shame , Embarrassment May want to shield you from talking with sta๏ฌ€ May minimize issues
  • 17. Recovery is Lifetime growth Development of New Problem Solving Skills and Strategies Responding Not Reacting Compassionate Directness Taking Care of Oneself - Physically, emotionally and consistant with Ones Values
  • 18. 8 Principles of Recovery Abstinence Peer Support Meditation Exercise Ritual Good Nutrition Professional Services Connection
  • 19. The Nitty Gritty Of Recovery Delay-15 minutes Escape- have a parachute ready Avoid - Strategic plan Distraction
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  • 21. DEAD
  • 22. Recovery Issues Issues Early Middle Advanced Grieving Identify ones losses Learning to grieve Grieve past and present losses Neglecting ones own needs Realization of needs Beginning to get needs met Getting needs met Being Over responsible Identifying boundaries Setting limits Responsible for self-clear boundaries Low self-esteem Identify Sharing Affirming โ€“ improved SE Control Identify Taking responsibility Responsibility& letting go All or none thinking Recognize & identify Learning there are choices Multicolored world Being Real Recognize Risking being real Being real
  • 23. Recovery Issues Issues Early Middle Advanced Trust Trust can be helpful Selective Trusting Trusting appropriately Feeling Recognizing & Identifying Experiencing Observing & Using Hi Tolerance inappropriate beh. Questioning behaviors Learning Knowing & having safe folks Abandonment & Conflict Recognizing & Identifying Grieving & Resolving Freedom From & work thru current conflicts Giving and Receiving Love Defining: What is love Practicing Refining, loving self, higher power Dependence & Independence Identifying Learning/ Practicing Being healthy
  • 24. Recovery Emotional Stablility New skills and strategies Realistic appreciation of disease Participated clinical o๏ฌ€erings Sponsor Addressing legal or ๏ฌnancial issues Handling confrontations Planning for aftercare Following Rules
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  • 26. Family and Friends Learn Addiction is a Disease To Di๏ฌ€erentiate Between the person and the disorder To learn stress reduction To build a recovery network of their own-Alanon, Alateen
  • 28. CHIME
  • 30. The 7 Cโ€™s I did not cause I cannot cure I canโ€™t control I can take care of myself I can communicate my feelings I can make healthy choices I can celebrate myself
  • 32. Seeing with a Grateful Eye Requires that you see the web of Interconnections in relationships with nature and other other people Recovery = showing up and being of service , making amends
  • 33. Be Grateful to People Not Just Things
  • 34. To Thank Outside the Box? Your loved one for allowing you to explore your own behaviors Your boss for ๏ฌring you Your boyfriend or girlfriend for ending your relationship Your interventionists for getting you to treatment
  • 35. Processing Life thru a Grateful Lens Does not mean denying Negativity Instead it means realizing you have the power to transform an obstacle into an opportunity It means reframing a loss to a potential gain and recasting negativity into positive channels
  • 36. To Take Care Of Oneself Physically Emotionally Spiritually or Consistent with Ones Values
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  • 38. Speci๏ฌcity is Paramount The more speci๏ฌc you are with another, the more genuine gratitude feels I appreciate being told exactly what is working and what is not
  • 39. What three, four or even ๏ฌve people did you thank today for a speci๏ฌc thing that enriches your life?
  • 40. How will you express Gratitude?
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  • 43. Call or email Dr. Louise 619-507-1699 www.allaboutinterventions. com drstanger@me.com