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Authentic Ways to Build a
Consulting Practice
Peter Block
September 10, 2015
© Peter Block
Moderator
Sara Conde
Director, Consultant Services
MBO Partners
© Peter Block
About MBO Partners
We make it easy for self-employed professionals
and their clients to work together
#1 back-office solution for
independent consultants
Webinar Controls
Full screen icon maximizes
the presentation area
Chat box allows you to
send a question to the
presenter
© Peter Block
Live Tweeting
#MBOWeb
© Peter Block
Presenter
Peter Block
Best-selling author
Owner of Designed Learning
Consultant for over 40 years
Recipient of multiple national
awards for training and
development
© Peter Block
Consulting = influence without
direct control
How do I get my expertise used?
© Peter Block
Outcomes
• Understand that each of us is in a consulting role
• Increase requests for help both in number and
complexity
• Deal with resistance and difficult people
• Get at the root cause of issues and lead to
improved and sustainable solutions
• Being more confident in navigating the emotional
parts of project management
© Peter Block
Requirements
• Behave authentically
• Exchange wants
• Name resistance
• Give support
© Peter Block
Contracting is Decisive
More critical than any model or
diagnostic skill.
© Peter Block
Contracting Keys
• Knowing that the presenting problem is not
the real issue
• What you want from the client is the essence
• Obstacles from the client have nothing to do
with you
• Hold the possibility of No
• Gifts more powerful than needs and
deficiencies
© Peter Block
Resistance Is Essential to Creating
Commitment
• Empathy outweighs reason
• There is nothing to argue about
• Resistance is the normal reluctance to yield
control
• What they want to control is their story about
the situation
• In the end, do you want to be right or work
something out?
© Peter Block
Partner not Parent
• You are not there to judge or be right
• Fundamental question: What is that
person's contribution to the problem?
• Don't rationalize your irritation by
"speaking truth to power"
© Peter Block
Steps
• Notice what is occurring
• Seek the underlying concern
• Name the what you see happening
• Silence and eye contact
• Support the expression of the concern
© Peter Block
The Relationship Is the Point
• We magnify the power of high level people
• Upper middle management is where the
action is
• There are difficult people, but we make them
important
• A connected group of peers triumphs over
power
• Needs analysis is overrated. Focus on what is
working.
© Peter Block
Peter Block
866-770-2227/513-524-2227
info@designedlearning.com www.designedlearning.com
© Peter Block
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Authentic Ways to Build a Consulting Practice

  • 1. Authentic Ways to Build a Consulting Practice Peter Block September 10, 2015 © Peter Block
  • 2. Moderator Sara Conde Director, Consultant Services MBO Partners © Peter Block
  • 3. About MBO Partners We make it easy for self-employed professionals and their clients to work together #1 back-office solution for independent consultants
  • 4. Webinar Controls Full screen icon maximizes the presentation area Chat box allows you to send a question to the presenter © Peter Block
  • 6. Presenter Peter Block Best-selling author Owner of Designed Learning Consultant for over 40 years Recipient of multiple national awards for training and development © Peter Block
  • 7. Consulting = influence without direct control How do I get my expertise used? © Peter Block
  • 8. Outcomes • Understand that each of us is in a consulting role • Increase requests for help both in number and complexity • Deal with resistance and difficult people • Get at the root cause of issues and lead to improved and sustainable solutions • Being more confident in navigating the emotional parts of project management © Peter Block
  • 9. Requirements • Behave authentically • Exchange wants • Name resistance • Give support © Peter Block
  • 10. Contracting is Decisive More critical than any model or diagnostic skill. © Peter Block
  • 11. Contracting Keys • Knowing that the presenting problem is not the real issue • What you want from the client is the essence • Obstacles from the client have nothing to do with you • Hold the possibility of No • Gifts more powerful than needs and deficiencies © Peter Block
  • 12. Resistance Is Essential to Creating Commitment • Empathy outweighs reason • There is nothing to argue about • Resistance is the normal reluctance to yield control • What they want to control is their story about the situation • In the end, do you want to be right or work something out? © Peter Block
  • 13. Partner not Parent • You are not there to judge or be right • Fundamental question: What is that person's contribution to the problem? • Don't rationalize your irritation by "speaking truth to power" © Peter Block
  • 14. Steps • Notice what is occurring • Seek the underlying concern • Name the what you see happening • Silence and eye contact • Support the expression of the concern © Peter Block
  • 15. The Relationship Is the Point • We magnify the power of high level people • Upper middle management is where the action is • There are difficult people, but we make them important • A connected group of peers triumphs over power • Needs analysis is overrated. Focus on what is working. © Peter Block