4. Our Responsibilities
• My responsibility
I am here to give you values
• For your money
• For your time
• Your responsibilities
– Be a student, don’t be an evaluator or follower
– Take good notes and understanding
– Be with me 100%
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5. • No matter how successful you may be there is ALWAYS
a room for IMPROVEMENT.
• Don’t be lazy/causal in learning, don’t miss any
opportunity to learn and grow.
• Never join the easy crowd.
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6. POWER OF CHOICE
• Strive to the maximum of your potential.
• Only human beings have capacity to alter the course
of their life. No other life form can do it.
• Use your birth gift of POWER OF CHOICE.
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7. Success Formula
Traditional (wrong formula)
HAVE: have enough (money, resources, things)
DO: do what you want
BE: be happy, successful, educated, talented,
Life is not designed to give us what we need, but the life is designed
to give us what we deserve.
Marketplace/corporate is not interested in your needs they are interested in your
seeds/disciples/willingness/eagerness/values.
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8. Revised (Correct formula)
BE: be who you are, know your strengths, values, purpose
Create your worth/value
DO: do what you love. This doing will be the contribution of
your unique gift.
HAVE: what you need.
LEARN THE PROCESS OF DESERVING NOT JUST NEEDING.
Is there any difference in following two sentences?
1. I need Rs. 1000.
2. How could I earn Rs. 1000.
Remember: You can have more than you have got because you can
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9. Be-Do-Have….
• For example:
– Reaping is reserved for planter
– If you will search, you will find.
– If you will keep knocking you will find open doors
Allah says in Quran:
– Allah will not change the condition of people until they change
what is in themselves (13/11).
– As for those who struggle/strive for Us - We will surely guide
them to Our ways (29/69).
– There is nothing for man except what he strives for (53/39)
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10. Problems/Challenges/Pain/Risk in life…
• These all are normal and part of life.
• These are cause of existence of life on this planetPersonal Excellence by Dr. Ghulam Dastgeer 10
11. Problems Vs Skills
• Don't wish for less problems, wish for more skills.
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12. Basic Philosophy for Personal Excellence
I am 100% responsibility for results I have produced.
• Making excuses/ blames /complaints cant give you full
control on your Motivation/ Excellence/ Behavior/
Development
• Never think yourself a “VICTIM”
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13. Cause Vs. Victim Philosophy
Your philosophy is your set of the sail.
we might easily blame to
Government
Tax problem
The company policy
Traffic
Weather
Security
Poor parents
living in village
No education,
University,
Teachers,
class fellows
You don’t need better economy conditions, circumstances etc. for better life, you
need a better sail /philosophy.
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14. • Setbacks are inevitable; MISERY IS A CHOICE.
• Give yourself a chance to change.
• Set a sail today and decide your destination (5, 10, 20+
years ahead)…
• Remember: You don’t need big dramatic change but
just began with small journey to a new direction with
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16. Why don’t we take action?
• 1. Comfort zone
• 2. Purposelessness
• 3. Compound effect: Results are invisible at
initial stages.
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17. Real Limitations Vs Perceived Limitations
Real Limitations Perceived Limitations
Exist in reality Exist in perception
Physical limitations Mental limitations
You are not creator You are creator
Not under your control Under your control
Cannot harm or stop
you
Perfectly harm or stop you
Solution at your end not
possible
Solution is 100% with you
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19. Your Comfort Zone
• Comfort zone is Psychological state in which a person feels
familiar, at ease, in control; and experience low anxiety and
stress.
• To develop your Comfort Zone you just need Repetition.
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20. Expending Your Comfort Zone
• Objective in expending your Comfort Zone is to raise our
optimal performance level and become confortable with
that new level.
• Your brain is your server, Give it chance to learn and repeat
it.
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