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3. Men are visual, and women know this better
than anything else.

4. Men can’t ever resist a cute smile. And if you
can be pleasant and warm when you’re with him,
he’ll love you for it.

5. Men are completely put off by rude or
arrogant women. If you can be rude to your date or
even a waiter, he wouldn’t be able to help but
wonder if it’s only the tip of the rude iceberg. Men
definitely love a woman who can take a stand, but if
it’s in the form of arrogance, he’d stay a mile away
from falling in love.

6. Flirty conversations are sweet and cute, and the
man you like will love the fact that he’s able to make
you blush and go pink. But all flirting and no
seriousness can get boring after a while.

7. It’s been seen that romantic eye contact can
actually make two people fall in love with each other in
no time. The next time you’re having a conversation
with him, stare deeply into his eyes as he talks to you.
You can smile or flirt, but every time your eyes meet,
let the eye contact linger even if both of you aren’t
exchanging words. It makes the guy feel warm and
fuzzy, and would definitely stir his heart.

8. If there’s ever a way of knowing how to
make a man fall in love with you and be a flirty
tease at the same time, this is it. Men can’t resist a
lingering woman’s touch. The next time you’re with
him, be it clasping palms, hugging each other
goodbye, or just crossing the street, let your touch
linger softly for a moment longer than necessary.
Your touch would be incredibly exciting for the
man you like, and you’ll spark a romantic chemistry
in no time.

9. This is tricky, but it’s definitely a great way to
make a man fall in love with you. When you’re in love
with someone, you obviously want to be with that
person and spend more time with them. But when you
can’t be with the person you like, you end up missing the
person a lot more.

10. If you want to know how to make a man fall in
love with you, learn to surprise him with your talent. He
may like you for the person you are, but to completely
make him fall for you, you have to let him know that
you’re a bundle of happy surprises, waiting to be
explored.

11. Compatibility is of great essence in a happy
relationship. But you don’t always have to accept
what the guy says or do what he wants to do.
Sometimes, a minor disagreement can take him off
guard, but it’ll make him respect your opinions a
lot more.

12. Men love the chase of a good romance. They take
time to fall in love, but when they do, men fall hard in
love. To understand how to make a man fall in love with
you, you need to know the stages of love for men

14. It’s always said that women mature faster than
guys and are often found complaining about how
immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal
with situations and your outlook on the whole. Show
her how responsible you are about finances, or serious
you are about your career. And demonstrate your
ability to think clearly and rationally when
disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests
presents itself.

15. Make her feel good by keeping the romance
alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a
whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a
woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but
you can also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still
enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or
send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her
you’re thinking about her and can’t wait to see her
again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and
truly special.

16. Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let
her know that you have eyes only for her and the
rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense
your commitment to her and your relationship.
Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is
a very powerful feeling. So many people profess
deep feelings and then cheat on their partners.
Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count
on you. Women need to feel secure and once that is
established, it takes the relationship to a higher
level.

17. Make it clear that you really treasure the time you spend
with her, irrespective of what you’re doing together. And prove it!
For instance, if she suddenly tells you she’d like to meet you
because she’s finishing work early and you had something else
lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater to her to
the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice
something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to come
see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her
and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward you!
Women also love it if you do some girly stuff with them like
shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your
masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in
their eyes!

18. You don’t have to go over the top always telling her how
good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is or what a
lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect
when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue.
While a woman always loves hearing that she’s looking
good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will lose its charm
eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a
surprise element to it. Telling her how witty you find her,
how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how
thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle
nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when
paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten feet tall.

19. Use humor as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your
company and looks forward to seeing you again, you’re
rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what
you’re aiming for. It’s not about making her laugh over
your one-liners and finding you hilarious. It’s more about
being on the same wavelength and enjoying the other’s
sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar
situations or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you
talk about and cracks you up. Finding the same joke
funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes
you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!

20. And use it to advantage. Find out just the kind of touch that
excites her, how she loves to be kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex
or make her uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her see
the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong rein on your passions if
she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and
ensure she understands that while your desires for her are strong,
you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her and her body and
she will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when they can
see how much they turn you on and yet find you willing to take it
slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to her, don’t always
kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just to make
her feel special and because you want to convey that to her, and
she will adore you for it.

21. Don’t be possessive and make her account to you
regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her.
Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let
her have her own life too. Often when in a relationship,
people make the mistake of spending every waking
moment that they can manage together, and in the
process, alienate themselves from friends and even lose
their identity. Let her be her own person.

22. You remember little things she told you, and
remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that
she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup
when she’s got a cold, and you land up with some when
she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told you how she adores a
particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the next
time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It
makes her feel like you genuinely listen to her and take
the trouble to act on it and make her happy.

23. And of course, while showing her should give her the
message, there’s a lot to be said for saying it loud and clear. Tell
her how important she is to you. You might want to think about
when you’re first going to tell her those three words. If it's too
early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you could
feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing the
right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t
have to wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when
it's least expected makes it all the more precious. She might be
telling you something and the feeling just overwhelms you – tell
her at that instant. She won’t mind being interrupted mid-
sentence!

25. When a relationship ends, it’s tempting to dwell
on what you did wrong or what you could have done
differently. This might seem productive—like you can
somehow change things by rehashing it. You can’t.

26. You might think you made the biggest mistake of
your life, and if only you didn’t do it you wouldn’t be in
pain right now. Don’t go down that road—there’s
nothing good down there!

27. If I looked at that unhealthy relationship or the
following decade as time lost, I’d underestimate all the
amazing things I did in that time. True, I was single
throughout my twenties, but that made it easier to
travel and devote myself to different passions.

28. Brain scientists suggest nearly 20 percent of us
suffer from “complicated grief”—a persistent sense of
longing for someone we lost with romanticized
memories of the relationship. Scientists also suggest
this is a biological occurrence, that the longing can
have an addictive quality to it, actually rooted in our
brain chemistry.

29. Unless you hop from relationship to
relationship, odds are you lived a fulfilling single life
before you got into this one. You were strong,
satisfied, and happy, at least on the whole.

30. Hope can be a terrible thing if it keeps you
stuck in the past. It’s not easy to end all contact
when you feel attached to someone. Breaking off
the friendship might feel like ruining your chances
at knowing love again.

31. Losing a relationship can feel like a mini-death,
complete with a grieving process..

32. When you let go, you give yourself peace.
Everything about holding on is torturous. You
regret, you feel ashamed and guilty, you rehash, you
obsess—it’s all an exercise in suffering. The only way
to feel peace is to quiet the thoughts that threaten it.

33. `When you’re holding onto a relationship, it’s
usually more about attachment than love. Love wants
for the other person’s happiness. Fear wants to hold
onto whatever appears to make you happy so you
don’t have to feel the alternative.

34. Nothing in life lasts forever. Every experience and
relationship eventually runs its course.