Parenting In A Media Driven World Slideshare

Raising Digital Kids,[object Object],Parenting in a Media Driven World,[object Object]

Pop Quiz,[object Object],What is a “poke?”,[object Object],What is an “add?”,[object Object],Translate “PLOS”,[object Object],Teens Today Watch A. LESS or B. MORE television than their parents did,[object Object],On average a teen aged 13-17 sends & receives A. 258; B. 893; C. 1,017; or D. 2,272 txt messages per month,[object Object],What is a “poke?”,[object Object],What is an “add?”,[object Object],Translate “PLOS”,[object Object],On average a teen aged 13-17 sends & receives A. 258; B. 893; C. 1,017; or D. 2,272 txt messages per month,[object Object],Teens Today Watch A. LESS or B. MORE television than their parents did,[object Object]

What are you seeing today when it comes to your teens and media?,[object Object]

What are you hoping to get out of this workshop?,[object Object]

Digital Technology is the,[object Object],Television,[object Object],WWII,[object Object],Woodstock,[object Object],of this generation,[object Object],Why Are We Here?,[object Object]

Why Are We Here?,[object Object],[object Object]

Learn to master it, it will serve you well

Ignore it, you’re going to get burnedFire is invented,[object Object]

Did You Know 4.0 Video,[object Object],http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ILQrUrEWe8,[object Object]

The Net Generation…,[object Object],Products of an “online world”,[object Object],93% of teens use the internet on a regular basis,[object Object],63% of all US Adults have a broadband internet connection in the home,[object Object],58% have cable TV (in 2007),[object Object],64% of online teens are posting content to the internet,[object Object],Blogs (girls: 35% -- boys: 20%),[object Object],Photos (girls: 54% -- boys: 40%),[object Object],Videos (boys: 19% -- girls: 10%),[object Object],47% of online teens have posted a picture of themselves where someone else can see it,[object Object], www.pewinternet.org,[object Object]

The Net Generation…,[object Object],16.7 hrs/week,[object Object],13.6 hrs/week,[object Object],12 hrs/week,[object Object],7.7 hrs/week,[object Object],6 hrs/week,[object Object]

% of 12-17 Year-Olds w/ a Cell Phone,[object Object],2004: 45%,[object Object],2006: 63%,[object Object],2008: 71% ,[object Object],77% of all adults,[object Object],88% of parents,[object Object],Teens & Cell Phones,[object Object]

HTC “You” Commercial,[object Object],http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5lUkF1vVudA,[object Object]

30,000 hours online and playing video games by age 20,[object Object],More likely to,[object Object],txt than email,[object Object],Research online than at a library,[object Object],Conditioned to ,[object Object],Multi-task,[object Object],Expect INTERACTIVE experiences,[object Object],The Net Generation…,[object Object]

The Net Generation…,[object Object],PBS Frontline’s “Growing Up Online” Clip,[object Object],www.pbs.org,[object Object]

How is growing up today easier than when you grew up?,[object Object],How is growing up today harder?,[object Object],How is growing up today the same?,[object Object]

Growing Up Online Isn’t All Bad,[object Object],process information faster,[object Object],faster at switching between multiple tasks,[object Object],more likely to be able to adapt in a digital future,[object Object],75% more AP Exams between1999 and 2005,[object Object],The Net Generation…,[object Object]

Ignore it,[object Object],Fight it,[object Object],Master it,[object Object],How do we React?,[object Object]

The Three Tasks of Adolescence,[object Object],Identity ,[object Object],– who am I?,[object Object],Autonomy,[object Object],- how am I different?,[object Object],Affinity,[object Object],- where do I fit?,[object Object],Bigger Picture Issues,[object Object]

Youth Culture – we only see what they WANT us to see.,[object Object],Bigger Picture Issues,[object Object],We are not welcome in this subterranean world, and the best we can do is sit on the stairs that lead to it and be available to kids passing in and out of it.”Dr. Chap Clark,[object Object]

Craig Ferguson Clip,[object Object],http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFQkMAPVoIo,[object Object]

“We place kids in schools together with hundreds, sometimes thousands, of other kids typically from similar economic and cultural backgrounds. We group them all within a year or so of one another in age. We equip them with similar gadgets, expose them to the same TV shows, lessons, and sports. We ask them all to take almost the exact same courses and do the exact same work and be graded relative to one another. We give them only a handful of ways in which they can meaningfully demonstrate their competencies. And then we’re surprised they have some difficulty establishing a sense of their own individuality.”,[object Object],Escaping the Endless Adolescence,[object Object]

Escaping the Endless Adolescence,[object Object],As for the risk behavior we associate with adolescence, Allen cautions that “We don’t give teens enough ways to take risks that are productive.” So they turn to drinking, drug use, delinquency, and the like – because those are the only things thrilling. “According to Allen, teens aren't naturally passive – their environment makes them passive. We’re writing them off at exactly the time we need to bring out their potential. ,[object Object],Newsweek November 5, 2009,[object Object]

Parents are NOT Without Power,[object Object],“I don’t get it” is NOT an Excuse,[object Object],Start forming “normal” as soon as possible!,[object Object],Strategies for Parents,[object Object]

Teens in families that eat dinner together frequently (5+ times/week) are more likely to:,[object Object],do better in school,[object Object],attend religious services,[object Object],talk to their parents about personal issues,[object Object],Have positive relationships with their parents,[object Object],and less likely to have experimented with drugs & alcohol,[object Object],Columbia University October 2009,[object Object],Strategies for Parents,[object Object]

Integrity,[object Object],who you are online vs. who you are in reality,[object Object],What is the story told by the pictures of you on Face book or Myspace?,[object Object],56% of teens with profiles have posted at least some fake information to their profile,[object Object],“I use a pseudonym, who is 24. Because I regard myself as an intellectual, it’s easier to be taken seriously if people don’t know they’re talking to a 16 year old.”,[object Object],- Boy, Late High School,[object Object], (Pew Internet, 2007),[object Object],Strategies for Parents,[object Object]

Safety,[object Object],Obvious,[object Object],Address,[object Object],Phone Number,[object Object],Not So Obvious,[object Object], Home Town: “Muscatine is soooo boring”,[object Object],+ School Mascot: “Go Muskies”,[object Object], + Random Comment: “softball practice was tough today”,[object Object], + Random Comment: “# 36 RULES”,[object Object], + Softball Schedule on http://www.muscatine.k12.ia.us/sites/mhs.htm,[object Object],= stalker who knows who you are, where you’re going to be, and when you’ll be there,[object Object],Strategies for Parents,[object Object]

Where is the family computer located?,[object Object],What are the family rules about email & social networking?,[object Object],Consider making a “monitor only” agreement,[object Object],Trust, Openness, Honesty – it goes both ways,[object Object],Strategies for Parents,[object Object]

Cyber-bullying,[object Object],36% of 12-17 year-olds report being victim,[object Object],15% of teens able to define,[object Object],24/7 availability,[object Object],Anonymity and Lack of Empathy,[object Object],www.stopcyberbullying.org,[object Object],Trends to Be Aware of…,[object Object]

Sexting,[object Object],39% of teens have sent sexually suggestive messages,[object Object],20% have sent or posted nude or semi-nude pictures or video of themselves,[object Object],child-pornography charges against teens,[object Object],Trends to Be Aware of…,[object Object]

Parent-to-Parent,[object Object]

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