5. Golfer &
Executive coach
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6. Tom
is a business man.
He’s also a good golfer.
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7. Jerry
is an executive coach.
He’s a good friend with Tom.
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8. Tom is seeking help from Jerry
on improving his golf game.
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9. Coach, I want you to help me
improving my golf game.
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10. Tom, I am happy to help.
But you know that I don’t
have a clue about golf.
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11. It’s similar to coaching a CEO. He
knows much better than you how to
run his own business.
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12. It’s true. But we have to agree first that I will
help by asking lot of questions to facilitate
your thinking. You’re like a CEO - you know
your golf game much better than I do.
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13. So, what do you concern
about your golf game?
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14. I’ve played golf for few years. I’m good
among my friends. Nevertheless,
I know I can be better.
What should I do?
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15. Basically, you want to move
your performance from good
to great?
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36. “Coach, I will definitely seek help from a Pro.
I’m a visual learner. I need to see the right approach
and then I can easily copy that shot from the Pro.”
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37. Sounds like a good plan to me.
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45. When we solve problem, we connected
several parts of our brain.
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46. The way each of us solve a problem
is like the maps inside a brain.
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47. My maps are so unique.
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48. If I give my maps to you,
hope they help you to solve the problem...
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49. It likes driving in Phuket by using Chiangmai map.
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50. “When we try to think for people it takes a lot of
mental energy on our part. We think hard, and still
come up with the wrong answers for that person.”
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51. No
two
brains
are
alike
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52. When people discovers solution by themselves,
their self-esteem is enhanced.
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54. In 2005, at NYU they experiment coaching under fMRI
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55. At the moment an insight occurs...
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56. ...the brain gives off strong
gamma-band waves (GBW)...
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57. ...such as an
Archimedes’
Eureka!
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58. The 4 faces of insight
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59. 1. Awareness: When we face a problem our face looks a
little unhappy. Our eyes might squint slightly. We feel stuck.
We have various mental maps in conflict.
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60. 2. Reflection: People have a dazed look on their face.
Their forehead might tense up as they think more deeply.
One becomes silent for a moment.
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61. 3. Insight: There's a rush of energy if it's big idea, like
Archimedes' "eureka" moment.
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62. 4. Action: People's eye movements
show they are ready for action.
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63. The 4 faces of insight
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64. The 4 faces of insight
Alpha
wave
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65. The 4 faces of insight
Gamma
wave
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66. GBW give off substantial energy.
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70. Coaching by question is a process that
a coach uses to facilitate the coachee
to discover the solution for himself.
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71. We ask people back when they come to seek
advice / opinion / judgment
instead of giving them an answer.
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72. Coaching
Question
examples
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73. Generic coaching question 1/2
1. What’s your concern?
2. Can you be more specific?
3. Do you know the cause?
4. How would you know the cause?
5. What would be an alternative solutions?
6. Which one is most suitable?
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74. Generic coaching question 2/2
7. That mistake already happened, what did
you learn?
8. If you have to do it again, how would you
do it differently?
9. If you don’t know the answer, who would
know and ask for?
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75. Thinking question
10. How can I best help you with your thinking?
11. How long have you been thinking about this?
12. How often do you think about this?
13. How important is this issue to you?
14. How clear about this issue?
15. Can you see any gaps in your thinking?
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