Banish Your Inner Critic - MinneWebCon 2016
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Your inner critic is an unconscious deterrent that stands between the seeds of great ideas and the fruits of achievement, keeping you stuck by telling you you’re just faking it, that others have more talent, that you’ll never achieve the success you seek. Let's discover how to anatomize this pernicious inner force, and then learn techniques to banish this critic so that you can have the mental space and energy to let your true talents emerge -- and help you be a badass with your work.
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Banish Your Inner Critic - MinneWebCon 2016
- 1. Banish Your Inner Critic MinneWebCon Minneapolis, MN 25 April 2016 Denise Jacobs
- 3. Want the slides? Go here: Creativedo.se/ minnewebcon-ic
- 4. Photo by Derek Kearney Wait…What?!
- 5. Founder + CEO, The Creative Dose http://TheCreativeDose.com/
- 8. I was going to be an author! Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 9. Instead of creativity Photo from Flickr.com
- 11. The voices in my head were merciless http://www.flickr.com/photos/epsos/4887528060/
- 12. I totally freaked out
- 13. I shouldn't be writing this I misrepresented myself I don't know enough This should be someone else’s book I’m going to look stupid Everyone will see that I’m a fake What if it's not good enough? What if I'm not good enough? No…really!
- 15. Worked non-stop & burned out https://www.flickr.com/photos/53611153@N00/5827849044/
- 16. My internal critical voices http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikeapalooza/553545517/
- 18. Physical evidence of fear http://www.flickr.com/photos/grumpyfeline/4626401443/
- 19. A different kind of fear Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 20. Fears + Internalized criticisms https://www.flickr.com/photos/remoto/5313967682
- 21. = The Inner Critic https://www.flickr.com/photos/acerriteno/3484093889/
- 25. The enemy of creativity http://www.flickr.com/photos/richardwinchell/130344669/
- 27. Suppress generative impulses in the brain https://www.flickr.com/photos/birthintobeing/11841180046
- 33. “Self-rebuke will stall your creative efforts.” - Shelly Carson, Your Creative Brain
- 34. How to ID your Inner Critic http://www.flickr.com/photos/lambdachialpha/203904103/
- 35. Listen for internal critical talk http://brenebrown.com/2014/04/08/daring-interview-series-meet-gavin-aung/
- 36. “OMG, I’m SO busy!”
- 37. “I should have done more by now…” http://www.flickr.com/photos/automania/126698126/
- 38. “They’ll find out I’m a fraud”
- 40. “It needs to be FLAWLESS” http://www.flickr.com/photos/diepuppenstubensammlerin/7648792510/
- 41. “I’ll do it tomorrow…” http://www.flickr.com/photos/irrezolut/2311904560/
- 42. “Really, I’ll do it tomorrow.” http://www.flickr.com/photos/irrezolut/2311904560/
- 43. “I will do it tomorrow!” http://www.flickr.com/photos/irrezolut/2311904560/
- 44. Meet your inner critic
- 45. 1) Write down one fear around your creativity https://www.flickr.com/photos/quinnanya/5788826472/
- 47. 3) On 3, throw it! http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-b1-baSAE8ZI/VDM3BbuiaFI/AAAAAAAABKk/l91FBGvSgkA/s1600/IMAGE_437.jpg
- 48. Anthing sound familiar? Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 49. You’re in good company https://www.flickr.com/photos/17843347@N05/4610644207/
- 50. Afflicts ALL of us! http://comediansincarsgettingcoffee.com/jimmy-fallon-the-unsinkable-legend-part-2 (@ 8:15)
- 51. “…I don’t have what these people want to see – they want to see a funny guy! That’s not me.” - Jerry Seinfeld, Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee https://www.flickr.com/photos/97477873@N00/13016287284/
- 52. We need to unleash http://www.flickr.com/photos/designandtechnologydepartment/4771136128/
- 53. We need brain management https://www.flickr.com/photos/arselectronica/13994747444/
- 54. https://www.flickr.com/photos/nrbelex/2247397943/ “You must be unintimidated by your own thoughts because if you [try to create] with someone looking over your shoulder, you'll never [create].” – Nikki Giovanni
- 56. Banish the Inner Critic? https://www.flickr.com/photos/31505964@N08/4691019168/
- 57. You can’t outrun the voices http://www.flickr.com/photos/wester/504925076/
- 60. Replace with “I choose/ I decide/ I will” https://www.flickr.com/photos/mstry-2525-gst/3312199285/
- 62. “You cannot compare your insides to someone else’s outsides.”
- 63. Say NO to Comparisons http://www.flickr.com/photos/suvodeb/2559017400/
- 64. You & what you produce is unique
- 66. (Btw, this your new mantra…) http://www.spunkysapphire.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/photo-1-e1406074730116.jpg
- 69. You will only experience impostor syndrome when you are competent and skilled. (re-read this as many times as necessary.)
- 70. Inner Critic “psychology hacks” https://www.flickr.com/photos/insk/3884826712/
- 74. Reframe fear of failure http://www.flickr.com/photos/laughingsquid/2717325940/
- 75. http://culturecatch.com/files/images/after-earth.jpg “Fear is not real. It is a product of the thoughts you create. Do not misunderstand me. Danger is very real. But fear is a choice.” - character of Cypher Raige, After Earth
- 76. Embrace failure and mistakez https://www.flickr.com/photos/stevendepolo/4498817330/
- 77. “Being right keeps us in place. Being wrong forces us to explore.” – Steven Johnson, Where Good Ideas Come From
- 78. Copy the Fail Masters Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 80. “Failure is only the opportunity to begin again more intelligently.” - Henry Ford
- 83. Cop a Power Pose
- 84. “Our bodies change our minds, our minds change our behavior, and our behavior changes our outcomes.” - Amy Cuddy, “Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are” TED talk
- 85. Feed each other
- 88. “Perfectionism is self-abuse of the highest order.” ― Anne Wilson Schaef
- 90. Perfectionists focus on the finished product… https://www.flickr.com/photos/phatcontroller/3667889959/
- 91. Rather than the process http://www.flickr.com/photos/spyndle/474122586/
- 92. “The Best” vs “The most” https://www.flickr.com/photos/villify/10871945326
- 93. Be bad/make it ugly https://www.flickr.com/photos/kpwerker/6051104684
- 94. Embrace the “SFD” Twitter, circa 2006
- 98. “Don’t let perfect become the enemy of good.” – Voltaire
- 100. The trick is not self-identifying… http://20px.com/blog/2013/09/06/a-field-guide-to-procrastinators/
- 101. Nor administering a dose of https://www.flickr.com/photos/116357579@N08/13178367583
- 102. Procrastinators are NOT lazy https://www.flickr.com/photos/code_martial/4145914957
- 103. The unknown can be paralyzing http://hub.salford.ac.uk/energymonitoring/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2012/01/known-knowns1.jpg
- 104. Pro tip: Reframe the unknown http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonmelsa/3000222387/
- 107. Don’t do it, just get ready to Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 109. Time & Space Tricks http://www.flickr.com/photos/indraw/4857101224/
- 110. Eliminate distractions From “Shit Black Girls Say”, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXDpfhehb6I
- 112. Browser Extensions (Firefox) LeechBlock Idderall Browser Extensions (Chrome) Strict Workflow StayFocusd Website Blocker Tools RescueTime.com HeyFocus.com Aids for digital blocking
- 114. Airplane/Do Not Disturb mode http://www.flickr.com/photos/pieterouwerkerk/699475144/
- 115. Make it a Sprint http://www.flickr.com/photos/lucamascaro/4975166968/
- 117. Remember this Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 122. I wrote my first book! Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 125. My own inner creative child Photo: Deloria Jacobs
- 126. Always reaching for perfection Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 127. “The rule is, jam to-morrow and jam yesterday—but never jam to-day.” “It MUST come sometimes to ‘jam to-day’,” Alice objected. “No, it can’t,” said the Queen. “It’s jam every OTHER day: to-day isn’t any OTHER day, you know.” — from Through the Looking Glass & What Alice Found There, by Lewis Carroll
- 128. “Jam” = Reward / Satisfaction https://www.flickr.com/photos/macati/2180421766
- 129. YOU NEVER GET JAM http://www.alice-in-wonderland.net/alicepic/through-the-looking-glass/2book42.jpg
- 130. By sharing my experience Photo: Deloria Jacobs
- 131. Show you there is an alternative https://www.flickr.com/photos/buttersponge/4955768144
- 132. https://www.flickr.com/photos/9422878@N08/9220121158/ “The creative adult is the child who survived after the world tried killing them, making them ‘grown up’….
- 133. …The creative adult is the child who survived the blandness of schooling, the unhelpful words of bad teachers, and the nay-saying ways of the world.” – Ursula K. L Guin https://www.flickr.com/photos/theburiedlife/2167001643/
- 134. By understanding this truth
- 135. You’ll look at yourself differently https://www.flickr.com/photos/edenpictures/3460562429
- 136. Let out all of your ideas https://www.flickr.com/photos/anieto2k/8115237421/
- 138. The End Photo: Denise Jacobs
- 139. My upcoming book! Banish Your Inner Critic Get on the list! DeniseJacobs.com/InnerCritic Identify and Eliminate Mental Blocks to Unleash Creativity
- 140. THE CREATIVE DOSE A Creativity + Innovation Collective Creative Thinking + Problem-solving Creative Collaboration Team Communication + Cohesion Professional Development + Speaking Coaching TheCreativeDose.com @thecreativedose
- 142. DeniseJacobs.com à Sign up on my mailing list! denise@denisejacobs.com twitter.com/denisejacobs facebook.com/denisejacobsdotcom slideshare.net/denisejacobs Connect + Collaborate With Me! Photo used with permission: http://www.flickr.com/photos/aarronwalter/4629078087/