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- 1. How Dr. G Discovered The Integrity Effect™ & The Thrill of Living™
At age three I traded in the Thrill of Living™ that I cherished until then for the burden of being a
premature grownup for my depressed parents and autistic younger brother. Not until my mid-
teens did I start to regain my access to happiness, at least in some situations.
I continued to gradually reclaim my happiness as I created an enviably fulfilling career as a
psychologist. I married a woman I adored and believed I would be with for the rest of my life. AI
felt happy at last, but I couldn’t access feel deep-seated joy. My Thrill of Living™ had not yet
returned. But, my life had exceeded my dreams, so I believed this was as good as it would get.
In 1998 it all began to unravel, starting with a four year string of successive traumas and
upheavals. The climax was being in the New York area on 9/11, followed by my own twin
towers collapsing six months later, when my first wife utterly shocked me by ending (with my
unconscious collusion) our 15 year supposedly divorce-proof marriage.
My seemingly charmed life crumbled. I experienced a depth of emotional pain and
disorientation that went far beyond anything I had ever before felt. The way I put it at the time
was that I had been “bludgeoned into surrender,” even though I did not immediately grasp the
depth of what I was surrendering to.
After weeks of being utterly emotionally incapacitated in the wake of my first wife’s departure,
I literally fell to my knees and demanded of God that massive gifts ultimately come from this
bludgeoning that were far greater than my pain was deep… or I would end my life.
From 2002 and 2004, I was gradually gifted with massive emotional and spiritual healing. The
biggest gift of all was that I reclaimed my ongoing Thrill of Living™, which I had abandoned at
age three. What made this possible was facing and repairing key integrity deficits I hadn’t even
known I had, but which had been significantly limiting my light and my happiness.
What this led to was a new Personal Mission: “I co-create a world of love, enlightenment,
integrity and abundance by fully sharing my huge heart, vision and playfulness.”
Out of this came my second print book four: a six-award-winner entitled “The New IQ: How
Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships and Our World.” Today I live in daily
gratitude for everything that led to the crumbling of my life in 2002, and for all the remarkable
miracles that emerged in its wake. I have at last regained full access to my Thrill of Living™.
My life journey prepared me perfectly to be passionately dedicated to assisting individuals,
businesses and leaders in re-kindling their Thrill of Life™ by harnessing the power of the
Integrity Effect™. I was designed to do this work. The purpose of all of my life experiences was
to create the foundation I needed to be able to fulfill this mission in an integrious loving way.
If you seek to kindle The Thrill of Living™ in your personal and work life, it is my delight and
honor to help you (and your organization!) open those doors.
(David Gruder, PhD., DCEP, CA Licensed Psychologist PSY 9266)
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- 2. Event Planners Explain “Why Dr. Gruder?”
Dr. Gruder has provided literally hundreds of lectures, training programs and consultation engagements
since the 1970s. These have ranged from keynotes to commencement addresses to hospital Grand
Rounds to multi-day workshops at international conferences, to teaching classes for a wide array of
organizations and disciplines. Far more convincing than how we would answer this question, here’s what
event planners say about Dr. Gruder and why he exceeds expectations.
“Dr. Gruder’s workshops are meticulously planned. He is a brilliant analyst and fine synthesizer of
human experience. Planning a workshop with Dr. Gruder is a delight. He is prompt, clear and
courteous. Our participants gave Dr. Gruder outstanding evaluations.” – MM & CP, Alphacom
Consultants & Event Planners, Alberta, Canada
“Dr. Gruder is incredible….whether it be in teaching, coaching, or mentoring colleagues, he excels.”
– DG, Principal, Guthrie & Associates, Certified Meeting Planner
“I attended David's speaking events for over ten years, including events I hired him to provide. His
personable and disarming style combines with his training design talents and impeccable materials
to create powerful changes in thinking and behavior that result in more satisfying lives and career
effectiveness.” – JGC, Former Trainer for the Ken Blanchard Companies
“David is an authority on Integrity and a collaborative Spirit. He's very good at discussing sensitive
issues for the benefit of others. He also happens to be an authority on Propaganda and its effect on
business and our society. A truly fascinating topic. I not only recommend him, I invited him to speak
to a group of colleagues, for their benefit, and I’m very glad I did.” – Dave Phillipson, CEO Space Club
President
“Dr. Gruder combines strong intelligence, genuine kindness and a masterful teaching style.
Attendees sought me out to say that the event was 'outstanding' and 'awesome,' that 'Dr. Gruder’s
teaching style was magnificent,' and that 'he presented the material at a very digestible pace.' As
the event coordinator, I found him particularly easy to work with regarding the planning and
logistical details. For all of these reasons I confidently recommend Dr. Gruder to any event planner
seeking an effective speaker and trainer with great audience appeal.” – PB, Manager, Orlando
Regional Employee Assistance Program
“Thank you so much for the high degree of excellence you bring to your programs. Given another 20
years I might get to where you are, but I doubt it.” – Gregory J. Nicosia, PhD, DCEP, Past President,
Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology
“Thank you for your excellently rated address at our annual conference. You were so well received
and the presentation was simply a hit.” – DS, Certified Meeting Planner, Conference & Meetings
Director
Typical Attendee Comments
“Utterly moving and captivating – very useful information.”
"Very user-friendly – presented in a very easy, understandable, digestible way.”
“My favorite speaker on the program.”
“The highlight of the conference – could have had entire conference on his material.”
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- 3. For Businesses & Conferences: C Suite, Managers, Staffs
The Business Happiness Formula™ for today’s executives, managers and employees that kindles
their Thrill of Business™ & turbocharges their effectiveness, productivity, loyalty and integrity.
Keynotes Half-Day Training Full Day Training Multi-Day Facilitation
The Hijacking of The Formula for Creating the
Installing the Business
Happiness & the Killing Rekindling The Thrill Collaborative Company
Happiness Formula™ in
of Positive Business of Business™ in Your Culture that Makes
Your Company
Sentiment People Integrity Profitable™
A Master Plan to The New Business IQ: Installing Collaborative
Accountability Training
Eradicate Entitlement, Collaborative Accountability
for Managers
Laziness & Pilfering Accountability Mechanisms
The Five Archetypal Extended Intro to the Upgrading Your Five
Integrity-Centered
Dimensions of Servant Five Archetypes of Servant Leadership
Leadership Mentoring
Leadership Servant Leadership Archetypes
Turbo-Charge Your How to Identify &
Upgrading Your Five
Effectiveness at Work: Intervene Well with TheraCoaching With
Flavors of Personal
The 5 Forms of Personal the Five Types of Difficult People
Power
Power Difficult People
For University Speaker Series & Commencement Addresses
The Lifetime Happiness Formula™ that kindles the Thrill of Education™ & upgrades critical
thinking, collaboration, personal integrity and social responsibility.
Keynotes or
Half-Day Training Full Day Training
Commencement Addresses
Formula for Creating Lifetime
The Hijacking of Happiness &
Happiness Without Sacrificing Your Keys to 3D Integrity & Multi-
How to Keep Your Thrill of
Personal Integrity or Social Dimensional Wealth
Living Alive as an Adult
Responsibility
The Seven WisePassions of
The Education in Being Human Upgrading Your Seven
Happiness, Integrity, Freedom
You Always Needed But Never Got WisePassions
& Responsibility
Entitlement Disorder: How It Self-Responsibility Training: The Accountability Training: Integrity
Started, How to End It Roots of Personal Power in Action
The 5 Forms of Personal Secrets to Dealing with the Five Upgrading Your Five Flavors of
Power & Leadership Types of Difficult People Personal Power
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- 4. For Faith-Based Settings & Social Change Conferences
The new Lifetime Happiness Formula™ that sustains your Thrill of Living™ without sacrificing
your spiritual beliefs, your personal integrity or social responsibility.
Keynotes Half-Day Training Full Day Training Multi-Day Facilitation
The Hijacking of 3D Integrity: The
Installing the Lifetime Creating a Collaborative
Happiness & How to Lifetime Happiness
Happiness Formula™ in Community that Makes
Restore Your Thrill of Formula for Rekindling
Your Community Integrity Fulfilling™
Living™ Your Thrill of Living™
Collaborative Resolving Conflict Installing Collaborative
Accountability Training
Accountability: Honestly, Lovingly & Accountability
for Leaders
Integrity in Action Collaboratively Mechanisms
The Five Forms of How to Identify & TheraCoaching for
Upgrading Your Five
Spiritual Power: Intervene Well with the Developing Right
Flavors of Spiritual
Healthy & Damaging Five Types of Difficult Relationship With
Power
Versions People Spiritual Power
For Mental Health Professionals & Life Coaches
Rekindle your Thrill of Helping™ by providing your clients with the Lifetime Happiness Formula™
for today’s world, along with facilitation skills for restoring their Thrill of Living™… PLUS upgrade
your business skills so you can financially flourish independent of managed care.
Keynotes Half-Day Training Full Day Training Multi-Day Facilitation
The Hijacking of 3D Integrity: The Being the Change You
Facilitating Lifetime
Happiness & How to Lifetime Happiness Want to See: How to
Happiness Formula™
Restore Your & Your Formula to Rekindle Upgrade Your Seven
Installation with Your
Clients’ Thrill of Your & Your Clients’ WisePassions of
Clients
Living™ Thrill of Living™ Happiness & Integrity
Accountability Training
Eradicating Teaching Your Clients
for Helping
Entitlement Disorder Accountability
Professionals
Energy Psychology: Basic Energy
Clinician-Strength Energy
The Latest Snake Oil of Energy Psychology Self- Psychology Essentials™
Psychology Essentials™
21st Century Help™ Methods for Helping
Training Program
Breakthrough? Professionals
How to Identify &
Harnessing the Five Upgrading Your Five
Intervene Well with TheraCoaching With
Archetypes of Flavors of Personal
Clients Personal Power Difficult People
Personal Power Power
Issues
Conquering Anger Conquering Anger Intervening With All Facilitating Completion of
Mountain™ Basics Mountain™ Basics+ Four Forms of Anger Recycling Anger
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- 5. Topic Descriptions
Dr. Gruder re-purposes and customizes his core curriculum for the wide range of audiences,
needs and event lengths you saw on the previous two pages. This page and the next contain
brief descriptions of each of what these general topic areas include:
Hijacking Topics: The fascinating and eye-opening story of how we lost our compass as
individuals and as a society when the sustainable happiness formula embedded into the
Constitution’s American Dream was replaced by a faulty happiness formula that was the
1950s version of the American Dream. Includes what led to this, what the ingredients of the
faulty happiness formula are, and how this created our current cultural, economic and
political turmoil, entitlement disorder, lack of self-responsibility, lack of social responsibility
and massive integrity deficits at all levels of society. No one tells this story in the enthralling
ways Dr. Gruder does.
“Formula” Topics: Dr. Gruder converts his vast experience in clinical psychology and
organizational development to provide training in four remarkably practical common sense
ingredients and skill sets for reclaiming the original sustainable happiness formula in all
aspects of personal life, business effectiveness and social change. (“Master Plan to Eradicate
Entitlement, Laziness, & Pilfering” is also part of this topic category.)
Archetypes Topics: George Lucas used archetypal wisdom to create his Star Wars story and
characters. JRR Tolkien used it to create the Lord of the Rings. CS Lewis used it to write his
Chronicles of Narnia tales. JK Rowling wove it into her Harry Potter books. Dr. Gruder has
drawn upon this same wisdom to create a highly practical and truly novel way to help your
people massively and rapidly upgrade their personal power/effectiveness, leadership
selection and skills, and effectiveness in dealing with difficult people.
Collaboration Topics: Synergy is the secret to collaboration. It is the key to relationship
effectiveness, problem-solving and successful win-win negotiation. In the absence of
synergy skills the two other problem-solving strategies of coercion and compromise take
over and do untold damage in personal life, at work and in politics. Synergy is a learnable
skill. No one does Synergy training like Dr. Gruder does.
Accountability Topics: Dr. Gruder calls accountability “integrity in action.” Accountability,
like integrity, is one of those buzz words that everyone agrees is important but stunningly
few people know the actual mechanics for creating. Dr. Gruder has converted accountability
from a vague abstract politically correct concept into a concrete action-oriented step-by-
step set of ingredients for building sustainable relationships and maximizing productivity
and profitability.
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- 6. WisePassions: The seven core life skills Dr. Gruder’s research has revealed that efficient
personal development, sustainable happiness, effective relationships, business success,
leadership, and integrity all have in common, and specific skills and tips for upgrading each
one. (“An Education in Being Human We Always Needed” includes this as well as
information about the anatomy of the childhood Survival Plan that we unintentionally and
unknowingly brought into adulthood, and which we must outgrow in order to develop our
seven WisePassions.)
Multi-Dimensional Wealth (MDW): We’re all wealthy in multiple ways. But the more
focused on money society has become, the more people have lost touch with their true and
multiple sources of wealth. The truth is that we have turned wealth upside down, believing
that money is the source of all we want rather than it being the result of who we are.
According to Dr. Gruder, MDW says the opposite: our opportunity in life is to monetize the
multiple wealths we already have within us waiting to be developed or expressed. Dr.
Gruder’s first step in creating MDW is helping you recognize, take ownership of, and bring
into full bloom your true multiple wealths: your own unique blend of knowledge, wisdom,
skills, talents, passion, compassion and light-heartedness. His second step is helping you
develop an effective strategy to transform your MDW into streams of income that create
financial wellbeing.
Entitlement Disorder & Self-Responsibility: Entitlement Disorder is a term Dr. Gruder
coined for mistaking one’s wants for one’s just dues. Entitlement Disorder is an epidemic
today that is devastating the fabric of society, our economy and the workplace. Self-
Responsibility and Impact Training are the foundations for eradicating Entitlement Disorder,
and no one teaches self-responsibility and impact awareness like Dr. Gruder does.
Energy Psychology: Energy Psychology is a family of breakthrough integrative wellness tools
that combine time-honored methods from Traditional & Indian Chinese Medicine with
sound psychological principles to produce remarkable results. Commonly known as
“tapping,” the most well-known member of the Energy Psychology family is EFT – Emotional
Freedom Techniques. Dr. Gruder believes that Energy Psychology methods will prove to be
the most useful self-help, coaching and psychotherapy procedures of the 21st century. He
should know. He was the Founding President of the international nonprofit Association for
Comprehensive Energy Psychology, and an architect of their certification programs. He is
considered to be among the field’s foremost masters, trainers, and spokespersons.
Conquering Anger Mountain: Did you know that anger comes in four distinctly different
varieties and that each one needs to be dealt with differently from the others? Dr. David
Gruder acquaints you with these four flavors of anger and how to handle each one
effectively, in yourself and with others, to prevent anger from developing, diffuse escalating
anger before it turns damaging, safely handle over-the-top anger, and successfully resolve
recycling anger. This is not “anger management training.” It is “anger freedom training!”
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- 7. Dr. Gruder’s Bio Explains “Why Dr. Gruder?”
Dr. David Gruder is the founder and CEO of Integrity Revolution, and a clinical and business
psychologist. A frequent guest on radio talk shows throughout North America, “Radio &
Television Interview Reports” has hailed Dr. Gruder “America’s Integrity Expert.” His latest
book, "The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships and Our World,"
has won awards in six unusually diverse categories: Current Events in Politics & Society, Social
Change, Conscious Business & Leadership, Health & Wellness, Self-Help, and Transformational
Psychology.
Dr. Gruder speaks, trains and consults worldwide with leaders, entrepreneurs and helping
professionals, in the areas of integrity & accountability, personal power & impact, collaboration
& leadership, and work-life balance. The training and consulting he provides has ranged from
the Sanoviv Medical Institute in Mexico to the Transactional Analysis Institute in Switzerland,
from family-run businesses to American Express work teams, from Vistage to the World
President’s Organization, and from the San Diego County Department of Education’s
Management Academy to ambassadors to the World Trade Organization.
Dr. Gruder is a CEO Space faculty member, Faculty Integrity Team member, and Purpose
Partner for upgrading CEO Space’s Brand Integrity. He is also on the core faculty of the
California Institute for Human Science, is an ordained interfaith clergy, and is an Elder with the
ManKind Project, an international nonprofit helping to create a safer world by developing
integrity-centered men. He was the founding president of the Association for Comprehensive
Energy Psychology, where he continues as a senior certification program trainer and consultant.
David lives in San Diego, California, with his wife Laurie and their cat Sasha, where he looks
after his 86-year-old mom, is writing his next book, whose working title is “The Hijacking of
Happiness,” and is part of a team that will soon launch IntegritySpace, the world’s first
integrity-centered social networking platform.
His main website is www.IntegrityRevolution.com. You can find his complete Vita at
www.TheNewIQ.com/about. You can access more information about his the speaking, training,
and consulting he does at www.TheNewIQ.com/services-businesses-entrepreneurs
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- 8. Do We Have a Match? What to Do Next!
Back in 1988 I made a sacred, and scary, vow: from then on I would only collaborate with those who
authentically want what I most love to offer. Six months later I had a waiting list. Why?
Because when this kind of match exists magic happens. This magic is the heart of what emerges
when happiness and integrity are reunited: this is the Thrill of Living™. It is the essence of what I
have come to call 3D Integrity™: self-integrity, relationship integrity and societal/collective integrity.
You see, I long ago gave up trying to be all things to all people. I know that the messages I am called
to bring, and the skills I am blessed to know how to teach, are not for all people, organizations,
businesses, or conferences. So, as a matter of integrity, neither I nor my team will try to persuade
you to engage me. Either we discover an amazing match between what you’d be thrilled to receive,
what I’d be thrilled to offer you, and the logistics that will make our collaboration a win-win, or
we’re not a match. It’s that simple.
For me, this is the heart of self-integrity, relationship integrity, and the Thrill of Relationships™. And
when your people truly benefit from what I offer them, this is collective integrity and the Thrill of
Serving™. Nothing gives me more pleasure in my career than when the Thrill of Living, Relationships
& Serving meet, whether for the public, businesses, leaders, or helping professionals. This is an
example of the Integrity Effect™ in action.
Now that you have reviewed this guide, do you see the potential for an outstanding match between
what you and your people would be thrilled to receive and what I might be thrilled to offer?
If so, let’s talk about how you might like me to customize my material to meet your needs, and
discuss the logistics to make this happen. Please contact me at info@TheNewIQ.com, or call me at
1-858-755-1988. You’ll find more information, audios and videos at www.DavidGruder.com.
As an added value for event attendees, I will also offer you a deep discount on my 6-award-winning
book on how to re-unite happiness and 3D Integrity, The New IQ, along with its accompanying
workbook, when you buy in bulk. This material will support your participants in implementing, in
their work and their life, what they learn in my programs.
I thank you, from the bottom of my heart and the top of my spirit, for being an Integrity Spark in
your spheres of influence! Together we will create the Integrity Revolution our society so deeply
needs…
Here’s to discovering that we’re a thrilling match so we can co-create an Extraordinary Event!
Dr. David Gruder, PhD, DCEP
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