After a break-up Little Debbies, chocolate, and the charity of friends could not console, Dr. Duana Welch had the epiphany that transformed the way she lived her love life, leading to verifiable, objective answers to her questions—and yours. The only fact-based book to take men and women from before-you-meet until you commit, Love Factually blends heart, soul--and evidence. In a genre long on opinion and short on proof, Love Factually puts all the evidence in your corner for the most important and daunting task of our lives: finding and keeping The One.
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Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do
1. PROVEN STEPS TO
FIND THE LOVE OF
YOUR LIFE
A Love Factually guide by Dr. Duana Welch
2. This Slideshare was adapted from my new book
LOVE FACTUALLY
Now on to the 10 Steps…
I’ve spent the last 15 years researching and writing this
book, going through volumes of scientific literature and
advising clients and the public on their love issues.
This book represents my best efforts to do something I
haven’t found elsewhere: give you verified tools you
need to find and keep the love of your life.
4. THERE ARE 4 COMMON
LOVE MYTHS
ARE THEY STALLING YOUR LOVE LIFE TOO?
“Finding and keeping love is only for the lucky and the few.”
“Before you can be happy with someone else, you have to
be happy by yourself.”
“Love only happens when you’re not looking.”
“I’m unlovable.”
8. HOW CAN YOU DEVELOP
THE BOUNDARIES THAT
LEAD TO LOVE?
MAKING YOUR GREAT LOVE STORY
HAPPEN REQUIRES TWO THINGS
~~You’ve got to find the right person~~
~~You have to be the right person. And that starts with SELF-LOVE~~
14. WHATARE4WAYSYOUCANFIND
MORE -ANDBETTER-DATES?
Use the Friends and Family Plan to seek a date through
your network.
Leverage the Law of Proximity: Being geographically close
to someone is a powerful predictor of attraction.
Find your Future in your Past: Could it be you already met
The One?
Fish with a Net - The Internet: Cast multiple lines (use
multiple sites!) and have a unique Hook.
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16. BE BRIEF, FUN,
THOUGHTFUL,
CURIOUS, AND
POSITIVE
HOW CAN YOU MAKE SURE THE ONES YOU
WANT, WANT YOU TOO? THE ART & SCIENCE OF
A GOOD DATE, IN JUST 7 WORDS:
18. WHAT ARE 4 WAYS TO TELL YOU’RE WITH MR.
OR MS. ALMOST-BUT-NOT-QUITE-RIGHT?
1. They lack a Must-Have (see Step 2)
2. Pain is greater than Pleasure
3. There's not enough love in the relationship
4. Your intuition says No
AND WHAT’S THE ONE PHRASE THAT WILL
LET YOU BREAK UP MUCH MORE EASILY?
20. WHY ARE MEN USUALLY MORE
RELUCTANT TO COMMIT - AND
WHAT CAN WOMEN DO ABOUT IT?
WOMEN KNOW WHAT THEY WANT WHEN THEY’VE
GOT IT, AND MEN KNOW WHAT THEY WANT WHEN
IT’S GONE
WOMEN: YOU CANNOT FORCE A MAN INTO
COMMITTING, BUT YOU CAN REFUSE TO MOVE IN,
OR LEAVE AND LET HIM FIGURE IT OUT.
22. Finding Love is like batting averages:
You don’t have to be anywhere near perfect to be great.
HOW CAN YOU GIVE UP ON
PERFECTION WITHOUT GIVING UP
ON FINDING LOVE?
Here’s how to get over past hurts, put
it all together, and…
go find the one for you!
23. Finally we have a
research-based
guide for how to
sensibly select a
partner
Dr. John Gottman,
author of The Seven Principles for
Making Marriage Work