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Personal identity & character
1.
2. ―Who are you?‖ said the caterpillar.
Alice replied, rather shyly, ―I hardly
know, Sir, just at present—at least I
know who I was when I got up this
morning, but I think I must have
changed several times since then.‖
3. Personal identity is one of the MOST
important tasks you will accomplish during
your teen years.
How do we do this?
Identity is partly formed by recognizing your likes
and dislikes.
Your relationships and experiences with family
and friends also influence your personal identity.
4. read or write?
indoors or outdoors?
Ipod or radio?
skiing or scuba diving
Movie theater or redbox?
chocolate or vanilla?
Novel or magazine?
Dine in or take out?
booth or table?
Chick flick or action?
5. reality tv fan or not?
Lights or lamps
take the picture, or have picture taken?
dog or cat?
socks or barefoot?
salt or pepper?
blonde or brunette?
call or be called?
bath or shower?
morning or night?
6. half full or half empty?
hot or cold?
Mustard or ketchup?
Coke or sprite
7. Someone whose success or behavior serves as
an example for you.
My Mother-in-law: always happy, loving, and
positive; extremely productive; good at
developing her talents.
My high school coach: example of the coach I
want to be in every way; listens to others; great
at giving advice.
8. A complex set of Characteristics that makes
you UNIQUE
ELEMENTS OF PERSONALITY
INNATE?
INTERPRETATION OF LIFE?
CODE OF BEHAVIOR?
MYSTERY????
9. Divide into groups by color.
Each group needs 1 piece of paper and a
scribe.
Come up with 5 words/phrases you think best
describe your color’s personality.
Describe 5 strengths of your color’s personality &
5 weaknesses/limitations of your color.
Brainstorm 3 careers your color would be good
at.
Put all names on the paper to turn in.
Designate 1 spokesperson for the group (not the
scribe)
10. Reds are the power wielders of the world.
Power is not good and it is not bad, it just is.
It has to do with movement, (moving from A
to B). Power sometimes carries a negative
connotation but where positive
characteristics of Reds are concerned, it
drives them to high levels of productivity and
efficiency. Reds boldly move forward with
logic, vision and determination. These
qualities make them natural born leaders, as
they make things happen by sheer force of
will. From a Red perspective, emotion has
little to do with accomplishing a task.
11. As an individual
Natural Leader
Thrives on independence
Highly resourceful
Excels with logical thinking
As a Goal Setter
Natural goal setter
Highly disciplined
Makes decisions
quickly/easily
As a Child
Takes charge when
parents are gone
Maintains high self-
esteem
Communicates thoughts
Ability to turn a poor
situation around
As a Friend
Direct and quick with
suggestions
Promotes group activities
Engages in conflict
comfortably and directly
Strengths:
12. As an individual
Generally seeks to serve
self
Out of touch w/own
feelings
Inconsiderate of other’s
feelings
Always right
As a Goal Setter
Too rigid w/expectations
Impatient w/self
Angers easily if goals aren’t
achieved
As a Child
Resists control from parents
Fights constantly w/siblings
Expects to be catered to
Poor listener
Manipulates parents to get
their way
As a Friend
Insensitive & unemotional
Impatient, stubborn, blunt,
& critical of others
Denies personal
inadequacies or
responsibilities
Wants to control group
Limitations:
15. Blues are motivated by Intimacy. Without their natural
talent to insist on quality and to provide service, our world
would be a far less pleasant place. Blues want to connect
and to be understood and appreciated. If they are not
connecting with you, if they are not plugged into humanity,
then what’s the point? They believe if you don’t have a
sincere connection in life, then there really is no other
value. Earning money, having the Mercedes, and being in
the windowed office are nice but do not represent a
purposeful life to a blue. Blues are very purposeful people
who love to serve and give of themselves freely to nurture
others' lives. They are loyal friends, employers and
employees, and their personal code of ethics is very strong.
They expect other people to live honest and committed
lives as well. Blues are dependable, thoughtful, and
analytical; but they can also be self-righteous, worry-prone,
and moody. They hold on and never let go of
something/someone once they are committed.
16. As an individual
Stable & Dependable
Sincere & emotionally deep
High achiever
Deep sense of purpose
As a Goal Setter
Highly disciplined
Receptive to other
suggestions
Plans well & follows
through
As a Child
Proper & behaved
Easily disciplined verbally
Sensitive about other family
members
Loyal to parents & siblings
Seeks learning opportunities
As a Friend
Loyal within friendships
Genuine concern for others
Remembers special holidays
Willing to commit time in
relationships
Strengths:
17. As an individual
Highly emotional
Smug & self-righteous
Envious of others’ success when
too easily obtained
Verbally self-abusive
As a Goal Setter
Sets unrealistically high goals
Easily discouraged
Easily frustrated by lack of team
cooperation
Expects others to make their goals
a priority
As a Child
Moody and emotional
Withholds affection if angered
Self-esteem is dependent on
outside influences
Criticizes unacceptable suggestions
from parents & siblings
Martyr-like & complains about life
As a Friend
Feels rejected easily
Expects friends to be loyal
Rarely playful & spontaneous
Insecure about other’s acceptance
& approval
Limitations:
19. Blues you may know…
Abraham
Lincoln
Princess
Diana
Walt
Disney
20. Motivated by Peace, Whites will do almost anything to avoid
confrontation and to create tranquility. They have a remarkable
ability to understand and draw objective conclusions—they are
the voice of reason, and this is their gift to us. Whites truly
believe that with patience all things come to those who wait.
The problem is that they are sometimes too content with sitting
around waiting. They seek contentment more than power,
money or, for that matter, more than friends. They are happy
having one or two good friends and one or two hobbies. In fact,
they tend to have only one hobby at a time. Instead of trying to
carry on with two hobbies, they will drop one to take on
another. Having two is too much effort. Their only demands
from life are the things that make them feel comfortable. That
feeling fosters their need to feel good inside.
21. As an Individual
Quiet, reflective, & peaceful
Appears to accept life
comfortably
Patient with self and others
Compatible with others
Blends into all situations
As a Goal Setter
Receptive to suggestions
Recognizes the value of goal
setting
Trusts self to succeed in many
different environments
As a Child
Very agreeable to established
traditions and boundaries
Non-demanding
Willing to accommodate siblings
and parents
Plays well by self
As a Friend
Patient and enduring
Supportive and accepting
Listens with empathy
Relaxed in most situations
Likes most people & is liked by
most people
Enjoys observing others
Strengths:
22. As an individual
Takes passive approach to life
Bashful and unsure of self
Often lazy & unwilling to take
responsibility for self
Resists making commitments
Refuses to take a stand on
issues
As a Goal Setter
Takes a ―wait & see‖ attitude
Lacks consistency in goal
setting
Waits for others to set goals for
them
As a Child
Resents being pressured to do things
Doesn’t contribute much to
conversations
Indifferent to family dilemmas
Uninvolved in family action
Doesn’t complete tasks
As a Friend
Easily led by others’ opinions
Passive
Easily hurt and defeated
Lacks creativity to make suggestions
Requires extra protection & support
Limitations::
25. Yellows are motivated by Fun. Without their natural talents
of enthusiasm and optimism, the world would be a boring
place for all. They are here to have a great time. Yellows
have an innate ability to be happy. They believe it is okay to
play and people who don’t understand this have limited
minds. They are the people who get up in the morning and
sing to the Bon Jovi tune, ―Until I’m six feet under, baby I
don’t need a bed. Gonna live while I’m alive–—I’ll sleep when
I’m dead.‖ Yellows love to enjoy life. They have a mental
attitude that allows them to appreciate what they have
rather than be miserable over what they don’t . They spend
much of their time charming everyone in an entertaining
way. Robin Williams is a good example. Can you imagine
growing up as his child? What a fun dad. He has that child-
like innocence and a hope that inspires the masses.
26. As an Individual
Highly optimistic
Likes self & accepts others
Loves to volunteer
Sees life as an experience
to be enjoyed
Adventurous & daring
As a Goal Setter
Lives for the present
Gives priority to playtime
Accepts guidance from
others
Very flexible
As a Child
Fun to have around
Strong visual learner
Loves physical contact
Pliable—willing to bend in order to
please
Curious and inquisitive
Easy to talk to
As a Friend
Vulnerable, innocent and trusting
Forgiving of self and others
Willing to free up schedule in order
to play
Lively and entertaining
Strengths:
27. As an Individual
Needs to look good socially
Irresponsible and unreliable
Self-centered, undisciplined,
loud/obnoxious in public places
Superficial & mostly interested in
a good time
Unable to confront or face issues
As a Goal Setter
Undisciplined in committing to
goals
Feels no need to prepare for the
future
Disorganized & scattered in too
many directions
As a Child
Sassy & demanding
Defiant of authority
Forgetful of assignments & parental
expectations
Teases siblings constantly
Prefers to take the easy road
Places friends before family
As a Friend
Spends most of time discussing own
life
Shows up at his/her convenience
Ditches plans for better/more fun
opportunities
Limitations:
31. PLAYS A SIGNIFICANT ROLE IN YOUR
DECISIONS, ACTIONS, AND BEHAVIOR
The distinctive qualities that describe how a
person thinks, feels, and behaves.
33. Be honest • Don’t deceive, cheat, or steal •
Be reliable — do what you say you’ll do •
Have the courage to do the right thing •
Build a good reputation • Be loyal — stand by
your family, friends, and country
34. Treat others with respect; follow the Golden
Rule • Be tolerant and accepting of
differences • Use good manners, not bad
language • Be considerate of the feelings of
others • Don’t threaten, hit or hurt anyone •
Deal peacefully with anger, insults, and
disagreements
35. Do what you are supposed to do • Plan ahead
• Persevere: keep on trying! • Always do your
best • Use self-control • Be self-disciplined •
Think before you act — consider the
consequences • Be accountable for your
words, actions, and attitudes • Set a good
example for others
36. Play by the rules • Take turns and share • Be
open-minded; listen to others • Don’t take
advantage of others • Don’t blame others
carelessly • Treat all people fairly
37. Be kind • Be compassionate and show you
care • Express gratitude • Forgive others •
Help people in need
38. Do your share to make your school and
community better • Cooperate • Get
involved in community affairs • Stay
informed; vote • Be a good neighbor • Obey
laws and rules • Respect authority • Protect
the environment • Volunteer
39. List your skills and strengths
Surround yourself with positive supportive
people
Find something you love and DO IT!
Stop making life a contest
Help others…..SERVICE
40. ―Be who you are and say what you feel
because those who mind don't matter and
those who matter don't mind.‖