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1. Just Got Rejected? Stop… Think Of The 7 Out Of 10
Rule… Then Keep Approaching
Suppose you read my recent blog posts, I think yall already understand what is my number one
interest here and what I prefer to discuss about. And as you happen to be on this page now reading
this, I'm hoping that you found out or will discover some useful points regarding the topic of my
page. For now, after a good amount of time just spending on the web reading about free live cam I
made a decision that I need to share my opinions and conclusions with you all. Stand by me,
however I am not actually confident where to start...
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the 8th time could be this girl!
I recently received an interesting observational email from a reader that was so good, I had to post it
here. He’s from the states, so makes a baseball reference which makes perfect sense and
should keep you from feeling down after getting rejected… which will most likely happen very
soon if you’re actively approaching every day.
Read it, then re-read it and read it again at least once per week. Why? Because I want the
information to sink in and have an impact on your subconscious mind. When it does, you should see
a major change in the way you approach women… you should start to care a lot less.
Anyway, let’s get on with the email:

2. Readers email
Hey Gambler,
I read your blog and have been using Stealth Attraction for a couple of years now (with amazing
results by the way). I’ve been gaming for around 3 years and have approached I’d say
around 1500 girls at least in that time period, so have a pretty good perspective on approaching,
rejection, approach anxiety, success rates etc.
The reason for the email is just to give some observational advice on approaching really. I see your
posts which are great, but I think sometimes the hard facts from another guy who’s
approaching every day would be an interesting take on the topic.
I have friends who are just starting out in game and have experienced it myself back in the early
days. You approach a girl and for whatever reason, she just flat out rejects you. Either by walking
away and not saying a thing or just saying no to your face.
Here’s my take on this and I’m going to use Baseball as an analogy here. To make it
into the hall of fame and make a freakin fortune as a Baseball player, you need to strike out at least
7 out of 10 times. Meaning, you are FAILING 7 times (not hitting the damn ball) out of a total of 10
throws.
The 3 times you hit the ball, it doesn’t even need to be a homer. Just a hit is fine. Which to
me, totally puts things into perspective when approaching girls.
If I approach just 10 girls in a week, I will fail at least 7 times and be successful at least 3
times… on average that is. Those 3 successes, could be an instant date, solid phone number or
even a “bounce back” if I’m close to my place. Either way, by focusing on the
“7 out of 10 rule” I’m removing the thought of failure and rejection, but
replacing it with a mindset of “I’m going to be winning at least 3 times this
week… guaranteed”.
When I realised this and told my friends about it, my whole mindset just shifted and things started to
really pick up for me. To be honest, I think failure rate is even lower than 7 because my game is so
tight these days.

3. Well that’s my analysis on the whole approaching thing anyway, hope you can share this with
somebody.
Later bud.
Luke
Key points to take away
It’s an average (not an absolute)
Now the 7 out of 10 figure is an average and will be taken over a long period of time. It’s not
an absolute figure and shouldn’t be taken as such. Some days you will have a 90% success
rate and others a 10% success rate. That’s just the way life is dude.
Unlike baseball, “game”
has multiple factors involved
How good you are at game depends on
a multitude of factors. Your looks,
voice tonality, physique, body
language, mindset, social proof…
etc. You might find you have a much
better average than 7. I’d
strongly recommend that you
approach 10 girls a week for 30 days,
then take a average from that number
to give you a unique figure. Do this
once every 6 months and see how you have improved your average over time.
No matter what level you are.. you will always get rejected
Approach anxiety stems from the feeling of being rejected. We don’t like or embrace rejection
as a race and shy away from it, which is why some guys suffer from chronic approach anxiety. But
here’s something that may add some level of comfort to your thoughts on approaching. You
will ALWAYS get rejected. There will always be that one girl that rejects you (more than one usually)
so forget the rejection part, it’s going to happen, just accept it and move forward.
Know when to quit
Wait what?! You’re telling me to quit! Actually yes I am. Quitting at the right moment will
save you time and allow you to get into a pattern that will support your success in the future. Sounds
a bit woo woo, but trust me it’s better to quit at say 10 rejections, learn from your mistakes
and then approach again tomorrow, than it is to just keep ploughing like an idiot without evaluating
your mistakes.