Image credits: pagemodo.com/mixrmedia.com How to
impress a girl on Facebook. Valentine’s Special

The Two Shades His part
of the story • Facebook just suggested that you might be knowing Miss. XYZ. Her part of the story • A new friend request? • A new message…. Hmm let me see? • You found her cute/ sexy blah blah……, and you decide to take a chance and connect to her. Image credits: clcrolla.com

The Uncertainty His part of
the story • What if she does not accept my friend request? • What if she does not reply to my message? Her part of the story • Should I respond to a stranger? • Omg he likes me…..! I am sure he kind of likes me. • What if she blocks me? Image credits: clcrolla.com

The Possibilities: With different types
of women Image credits: michelleadams.com.au

The Difficult Ones Ignores your
request bluntly just because she does not add unknown people to her friend list.  You may try sending her a request again but do not be surprised if you receive the same reaction.  Or, if she accepts your request, it is very likely that most of her activities and posts will be hidden from you! Image credits: redorbit.com

The Social Ones Although she
does not accept your friend request, she leaves you a message behind out of gratitude. :P  You may try pleasing her by giving her compliments so that she accepts your request.  If she still does not; you may follow her on Facebook and stay happy with the public posts she makes.  Image credits: justjared.com

The Easy Ones Not only
does she accept your request but gives you a boost by responding on your timeline or may be by leaving a message like, ‘welcome to my friend list’. :P Image credits: p.gr-assets.com

The Serious Ones Slams you
real bad with messages like: “Do I know you? Then how dare you send me a friend request?” “Don’t you have any other work to do other then sending requests to strangers?” “Do you? Do you? Huh …… :P ” Image credits: dailyplateofcrazy.com/

The Unsocial Ones No messages,
no questions, no answers just accepts your requests. The most boring ones on the list. Never updates a status or communicates with anyone. Every time you leave any message, the only thing that you see is “Seen at ….” This type might make you wonder as to why do they even have an account on Facebook! Image credits: jonathoncolman.org

The Real Deal- Message from
the Expert Okay so after a lot of contemplation, finally she accepts your friend request. But this is not enough, in order to continue to be on her friend list and yet be in constant touch with her, you need to be very careful about every move you make. I will give you few tips for the things that you should avoid if you genuinely want to impress her/ know more about her. Please note these tips are time-tested and are solely from a girl’s perspective and I have arrived at these conclusions after a lot of experience. :P Okay, so lets begin…………… Rajashree Das

The BIG No No: Things
you should avoid Image credits: jonathoncolman.org

#1. The Silly Stupid ‘Hi’
messages One of the most irritating behavior. If you don’t receive any reply, chances are that she isn’t interested in you.

A Better Approach It’s a
nice and a bold thing to break the ice and start a conversation. However, it’s more essential to read the signs and react accordingly. If somebody does not reply to your messages most probably it is because of two reasons: 1) Your message is not exciting enough to be responded. 2) The person is ignoring you totally. In either case try to get a little more interesting and add a little more content to your response. There are more words in the dictionary rather than just “Hi” or “Hello”!  One of the most irritating behavior. If you don’t receive any reply, chances are that she isn’t interested in you or at least to reply to your ‘Hi’

#2. The Continuous desperate ‘calling’
Another hit list. Dude, accept the fact that she does not want to talk or at least see you for the time being. This behavior only spoils the little chances you might have. So just stop it!

A Better Approach Do not
expect someone to receive your call when they are not even replying to your messages. First, initiate the talk, get to know each other a little and then ask her first if she is okay with a voice/ video call. Showing too much of desperation is a big turn off…… Remember anticipation is a good thing, save and wait for the right time. One of the most irritating behavior. If you don’t receive any reply, chances are that she isn’t interested in you or at least to reply to your ‘Hi’

#3. Liking her every post
Another hit list. Trust me this is no way of impressing anyone. Dude, accept the fact that she does not want to talk or at least see for the time We all are humans, and it is not possible that you like or appreciate each and being. everything of someone. Likewise, liking every post only means a long list of This behavior only spoils the little chances you might have had. So just stop it! notifications.

A Better Approach Like something
when you appreciate genuinely, or may be ‘Like’ something once in a while. Don’t let the person take you for granted.. :P One of the most irritating behavior. If you don’t receive any reply, chances are that she isn’t interested in you or at least to reply to your ‘Hi’

#4. Repeating the same question
or statement Another hit list. Dude, accept the fact that she does not want to talk or at least see for the time being. And the most popular of the lot: “Do you have a boyfriend?” This behavior only spoils the little chances you might have had. So just stop it! Image credits: wordpress.com

A Better Approach Well seriously
guys, this is one of those really annoying questions. Don’t get to this too soon. Figure out and find if she is interested in you at all before you jump to that question. ;-) One of the most irritating behavior. If you don’t receive any reply, chances are that she isn’t interested in you or at least to reply to your ‘Hi’

#5. Constantly tagging her on
mushy pictures/ posts Another hit list. Dude, accept the fact that she does not want to talk or at least see for the time being. it right there! Stop This behavior only spoils the little chances you might have had. So just stop it! Image credits: blogspot.com

A Better Approach You might
tag and post with the intention of making her feel good, but trust me it’s really annoying practice even when you are good friends with her. One of the most irritating behavior. If you don’t receive any reply, chances are that she isn’t interested in you or at least to reply to your ‘Hi’

Wish you all a Very
Happy Valentine’s Day! Let’s Connect Rajashree Das Social Media Analyst, SImplify360 Part-Time relationship Expert  rajashree@simplify360.com