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The 4 Personality Types
How to understand, value, communicate and motivate each
Personality Assessment
 Here are places you can take a quick test to see which type(s)
you are. You only need to take one, we are just listing a couple
since links periodically do not work.
– http://smalley.cc/images/Personality-Test1.pdf
– http://thaoski.com/2013/04/02/5-minute-personality-test-lion-beaver-
otter-golden-retriever/
People
Cautious/Quiet
Task
Quick/Verbal
Otter
Golden Retriever
Beaver Lion
Understanding & Valuing a LION
 Major strengths:
– Gets things done
– Decisive
– Persistent
– Initiates change
 Major weaknesses:
– Insensitive to others
– Impatient (overlooks risks and facts)
– Stubborn and unyielding
Understanding & Valuing a LION
 Communicates DIRECTLY.
 Will TAKE CHARGE under tension.
 Needs to learn to LISTEN.
 I want to do it MY way.
 I like to CHANGE things.
 My greatest fear is losing CONTROL or not having a
CHALLENGE.
My boss/colleague is a LION
 Pros
– They will get a lot accomplished.
– They are willing and quick to make needed improvements, as long
as they see the need.
– They are not easily offended.
 Cons
– They will have high expectations for your ability.
– They will not provide a lot of performance-based feedback.
– They are likely to neglect coaching and other “soft skills”.
Understanding & Valuing a OTTER
 Major strengths:
– Optimistic
– Personable
– Enthusiastic
– Inspirational
 Major weaknesses:
– Impulsive
– Verbally manipulative
– Lacks follow-through
Understanding & Valuing a OTTER
 Communicates
PASSIONATELY.
 Will PERSONALLY ATTACK
under tension.
 Needs to learn to PAUSE.
 I want to do it the
EXCITING way.
 I like to DREAM things.
 My greatest fear is losing
FACE or not having
SOCIAL APPROVAL.
My boss/colleague is an OTTER
 Pros
– They have a knack for influencing others.
– They have a great network of people in the company.
– They will build strong alliances.
 Cons
– They will not stay focused on one task.
– They lack the commitment to follow-through.
– They might verbally attack.
Understanding & Valuing a GOLDEN
RETRIEVER
 Major strengths:
– Supportive
– Agreeable
– Loyal
– Values relationships
 Major weaknesses:
– Indirect with others
– Resists quick change
– Overly tolerant
 Makes decisions
INTERACTIVELY, seeks the
input of others.
 Will GIVE IN under
tension.
 Needs to learn to
INITIATE.
 My ideal world is one
where I have PEACE.
 I want to do it SAME way.
 My greatest fear is losing
STABILITY or losing a
RELATIONSHIP.
Understanding & Valuing a GOLDEN
RETRIEVER
My boss/colleague is a GOLDEN RETRIEVER
 Pros
– They will take an interest in you as a person.
– They will be available and open to hear from you and take your
opinion into consideration.
– They are good communicators.
 Cons
– They’re desire to relate interferes with the need to work.
– They procrastinate.
– They avoid conflict to a fault.
Understanding & Valuing a BEAVER
 Major strengths:
– Orderly
– Thorough
– Analytical
– Pursues excellence
 Major weaknesses:
– Lacks spontaneity
– Critical
– Overly cautious
Understanding & Valuing a BEAVER
 Makes decisions DELIBERATELY.
 Will AVOID under tension.
 Needs to learn to ADAPT.
 My ideal world is one where I have
EXCELLENCE.
 I want to do it the RIGHT way.
 My greatest fear is being WRONG
or being a CRITICIZED.
My boss/colleague is a BEAVER
 Pros
– They will provide quality work.
– They can focus on a task and not get distracted.
– They learn from past mistakes.
 Cons
– It takes them a long time to complete work.
– They nit-pick.
– They don’t take risks.
Scenario 1
You receive a text message from a friend asking a question.
 Lion – Respond using the fewest possible letters. It is quite possible that
your text cannot be understood by the recipient. In fact, when asked
later, you might not even be able to understand what you wrote.
 Otter – Text back using as many words and emoticons as possible.
Continue the conversation by inviting your friend to some event.
 Golden Retriever – Pick up the phone and call them. Be sure to ask
them how their family is.
 Beaver – When you notice the message, text a short message back, but
use correct capitalization and punctuation.
Scenario 2
You’re approaching a door. There is a person about 25 feet
behind you walking toward the same door.
 Lion – “There was a person? What person?”
 Otter – Hold the door, stick out your hand, and loudly remark “Where’s
my tip?”
 Golden Retriever – Hold the door, smile, and ask the person if they’re
having a good day.
 Beaver – Consider briefly the amount of time it would take to hold the
door vs. your schedule to determine if it’s worth the effort. If you do
decide to hold the door, you’ll enter it first, and hold it open behind you.
Scenario 3
You’re given a task and some specific instructions on what to do.
 Lion – Identify the most efficient way to complete the task and do it
immediately. The instructions were just a suggestion for someone who
didn’t know what they were doing.
 Otter – Discuss it with your friends at lunch. Express your utter disbelief
at the absurdity of it. When you finally do complete it, e-mail it back and
copy in a few other people.
 Golden Retriever – Next time you see the person who assigned it to
make sure you completely understand what is being asked. Ask a few
times to ensure you know how to please them.
 Beaver – Prioritize the task among your other work. When you get to it,
follow the instructions completely, even if you know a better way. Double
check your work before submitting.
OK, I understand it.
Now what I do I DO about it?
Relationship with a LION
 Motivated by RESULTS, challenge, and action.
 Focuses on the NOW.
 Communicates DIRECTLY.
 Makes decisions QUICKLY.
 Will TAKE CHARGE under tension.
 Needs to learn to LISTEN.
• Be direct
• Answer “what?”
• Goals/quantity
• Agree with their goals
Relationship with a LION
Relationship with an OTTER
 Motivated by RECOGNITION, approval and visibility.
 Focuses on the FUTURE.
 Communicates PASSIONATELY.
 Makes decisions INTUITIVELY, opportunistic, lots of wins and
losses.
 Will PERSONALLY ATTACK under tension.
 Needs to learn to PAUSE.
• Be enthusiastic
• Answer “who?”
• People/recognition
• Agree with their vision
Relationship with an OTTER
Relationship with a GOLDEN RETRIEVER
 Motivated by RELATIONSHIPS, appreciation and service.
 Focuses on the PRESENT, enjoys time in personal interaction.
 Communicates TWO-WAY, good listener.
 Makes decisions INTERACTIVELY, seeks the input of others.
 Will GIVE IN under tension.
 Needs to learn to INITIATE.
• Be friendly
• Answer “why?”
• People/relationships
• Focus on the impact
to other people
Relationship with a GOLDEN RETRIEVER
Relationship with a BEAVER
 Motivated by BEING RIGHT.
 Focuses on the PAST.
 Communicates TWO-WAY, good listener especially in relation
to task details.
 Makes decisions DELIBERATELY.
 Will AVOID under tension.
 Needs to learn to ADAPT.
• Be thorough
• Answer “how?”
• Goals/quality
• Focus on detailed facts
Relationship with a BEAVER
People
Cautious/Quiet
Task
Quick/Verbal
Get approval from
others
Get along
with others
Get it done right Get it done now
•Be direct
•Answer “what?”
•Goals/quantity
•Agree with their goals
plus test
•Be enthusiastic
•Answer “who?”
•People/recognition
•Agree with their vision
•Be friendly
•Answer “why?”
•People/ relationships
•Focus on the
impact to other people
•Be thorough
•Answer “how?”
•Goals/quality
•Focus on detailed facts
References
 Two Sides of Love by Gary Smalley and John Trent
 Solving the People Puzzle by Walk Thru the Bible
 Years of experience

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research paper

  • 1. The 4 Personality Types How to understand, value, communicate and motivate each
  • 2. Personality Assessment  Here are places you can take a quick test to see which type(s) you are. You only need to take one, we are just listing a couple since links periodically do not work. – http://smalley.cc/images/Personality-Test1.pdf – http://thaoski.com/2013/04/02/5-minute-personality-test-lion-beaver- otter-golden-retriever/
  • 4. Understanding & Valuing a LION  Major strengths: – Gets things done – Decisive – Persistent – Initiates change  Major weaknesses: – Insensitive to others – Impatient (overlooks risks and facts) – Stubborn and unyielding
  • 5. Understanding & Valuing a LION  Communicates DIRECTLY.  Will TAKE CHARGE under tension.  Needs to learn to LISTEN.  I want to do it MY way.  I like to CHANGE things.  My greatest fear is losing CONTROL or not having a CHALLENGE.
  • 6. My boss/colleague is a LION  Pros – They will get a lot accomplished. – They are willing and quick to make needed improvements, as long as they see the need. – They are not easily offended.  Cons – They will have high expectations for your ability. – They will not provide a lot of performance-based feedback. – They are likely to neglect coaching and other “soft skills”.
  • 7. Understanding & Valuing a OTTER  Major strengths: – Optimistic – Personable – Enthusiastic – Inspirational  Major weaknesses: – Impulsive – Verbally manipulative – Lacks follow-through
  • 8. Understanding & Valuing a OTTER  Communicates PASSIONATELY.  Will PERSONALLY ATTACK under tension.  Needs to learn to PAUSE.  I want to do it the EXCITING way.  I like to DREAM things.  My greatest fear is losing FACE or not having SOCIAL APPROVAL.
  • 9. My boss/colleague is an OTTER  Pros – They have a knack for influencing others. – They have a great network of people in the company. – They will build strong alliances.  Cons – They will not stay focused on one task. – They lack the commitment to follow-through. – They might verbally attack.
  • 10. Understanding & Valuing a GOLDEN RETRIEVER  Major strengths: – Supportive – Agreeable – Loyal – Values relationships  Major weaknesses: – Indirect with others – Resists quick change – Overly tolerant
  • 11.  Makes decisions INTERACTIVELY, seeks the input of others.  Will GIVE IN under tension.  Needs to learn to INITIATE.  My ideal world is one where I have PEACE.  I want to do it SAME way.  My greatest fear is losing STABILITY or losing a RELATIONSHIP. Understanding & Valuing a GOLDEN RETRIEVER
  • 12. My boss/colleague is a GOLDEN RETRIEVER  Pros – They will take an interest in you as a person. – They will be available and open to hear from you and take your opinion into consideration. – They are good communicators.  Cons – They’re desire to relate interferes with the need to work. – They procrastinate. – They avoid conflict to a fault.
  • 13. Understanding & Valuing a BEAVER  Major strengths: – Orderly – Thorough – Analytical – Pursues excellence  Major weaknesses: – Lacks spontaneity – Critical – Overly cautious
  • 14. Understanding & Valuing a BEAVER  Makes decisions DELIBERATELY.  Will AVOID under tension.  Needs to learn to ADAPT.  My ideal world is one where I have EXCELLENCE.  I want to do it the RIGHT way.  My greatest fear is being WRONG or being a CRITICIZED.
  • 15. My boss/colleague is a BEAVER  Pros – They will provide quality work. – They can focus on a task and not get distracted. – They learn from past mistakes.  Cons – It takes them a long time to complete work. – They nit-pick. – They don’t take risks.
  • 16. Scenario 1 You receive a text message from a friend asking a question.  Lion – Respond using the fewest possible letters. It is quite possible that your text cannot be understood by the recipient. In fact, when asked later, you might not even be able to understand what you wrote.  Otter – Text back using as many words and emoticons as possible. Continue the conversation by inviting your friend to some event.  Golden Retriever – Pick up the phone and call them. Be sure to ask them how their family is.  Beaver – When you notice the message, text a short message back, but use correct capitalization and punctuation.
  • 17. Scenario 2 You’re approaching a door. There is a person about 25 feet behind you walking toward the same door.  Lion – “There was a person? What person?”  Otter – Hold the door, stick out your hand, and loudly remark “Where’s my tip?”  Golden Retriever – Hold the door, smile, and ask the person if they’re having a good day.  Beaver – Consider briefly the amount of time it would take to hold the door vs. your schedule to determine if it’s worth the effort. If you do decide to hold the door, you’ll enter it first, and hold it open behind you.
  • 18. Scenario 3 You’re given a task and some specific instructions on what to do.  Lion – Identify the most efficient way to complete the task and do it immediately. The instructions were just a suggestion for someone who didn’t know what they were doing.  Otter – Discuss it with your friends at lunch. Express your utter disbelief at the absurdity of it. When you finally do complete it, e-mail it back and copy in a few other people.  Golden Retriever – Next time you see the person who assigned it to make sure you completely understand what is being asked. Ask a few times to ensure you know how to please them.  Beaver – Prioritize the task among your other work. When you get to it, follow the instructions completely, even if you know a better way. Double check your work before submitting.
  • 19. OK, I understand it. Now what I do I DO about it?
  • 20. Relationship with a LION  Motivated by RESULTS, challenge, and action.  Focuses on the NOW.  Communicates DIRECTLY.  Makes decisions QUICKLY.  Will TAKE CHARGE under tension.  Needs to learn to LISTEN.
  • 21. • Be direct • Answer “what?” • Goals/quantity • Agree with their goals Relationship with a LION
  • 22. Relationship with an OTTER  Motivated by RECOGNITION, approval and visibility.  Focuses on the FUTURE.  Communicates PASSIONATELY.  Makes decisions INTUITIVELY, opportunistic, lots of wins and losses.  Will PERSONALLY ATTACK under tension.  Needs to learn to PAUSE.
  • 23. • Be enthusiastic • Answer “who?” • People/recognition • Agree with their vision Relationship with an OTTER
  • 24. Relationship with a GOLDEN RETRIEVER  Motivated by RELATIONSHIPS, appreciation and service.  Focuses on the PRESENT, enjoys time in personal interaction.  Communicates TWO-WAY, good listener.  Makes decisions INTERACTIVELY, seeks the input of others.  Will GIVE IN under tension.  Needs to learn to INITIATE.
  • 25. • Be friendly • Answer “why?” • People/relationships • Focus on the impact to other people Relationship with a GOLDEN RETRIEVER
  • 26. Relationship with a BEAVER  Motivated by BEING RIGHT.  Focuses on the PAST.  Communicates TWO-WAY, good listener especially in relation to task details.  Makes decisions DELIBERATELY.  Will AVOID under tension.  Needs to learn to ADAPT.
  • 27. • Be thorough • Answer “how?” • Goals/quality • Focus on detailed facts Relationship with a BEAVER
  • 28. People Cautious/Quiet Task Quick/Verbal Get approval from others Get along with others Get it done right Get it done now •Be direct •Answer “what?” •Goals/quantity •Agree with their goals plus test •Be enthusiastic •Answer “who?” •People/recognition •Agree with their vision •Be friendly •Answer “why?” •People/ relationships •Focus on the impact to other people •Be thorough •Answer “how?” •Goals/quality •Focus on detailed facts
  • 29. References  Two Sides of Love by Gary Smalley and John Trent  Solving the People Puzzle by Walk Thru the Bible  Years of experience